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The Four Thoughts That F*ck You Up ... and How to Fix Them

Rewire How You Think in Six Weeks with REBT

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The Four Thoughts That F*ck You Up ... and How to Fix Them

By: Daniel Fryer
Narrated by: Max Dinnen
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Brought to you by Penguin.

Whatever life throws at you, learn to deal with it in a healthier and more rational way.


When it comes to destructive emotions and unhelpful behaviours, you are your own worst enemy. Rather than people or situations driving you to depression, distraction or doughnuts, all too often it’s your own unhealthy beliefs and thought habits that hold you back and f**k everything up. But, what can you do about it?

Highly Experienced REBT (Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy) psychotherapist Daniel Fryer can stop these thoughts from messing up your life using a simple but effective model.

In The Four Thoughts that F**k You UpAnd How to Fix Them he reveals the four unhealthy beliefs that hold you back (Dogmatic Demands, Dramas, I Can’t Copes and Pejorative Put-Downs) and shows you how to replace them with four healthy beliefs (Flexible Preferences, Perspectives, I Can Copes and Unconditional Acceptance) – in as little as six weeks. Yes, you read that right: Just six weeks to a new you.

Developed in the mid-fifties by psychotherapist Albert Ellis, REBT is known as the first form of cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT). Not only is it an effective therapy, but it’s also an excellent philosophy for every day life. With this model, Daniel will help you identify a specific personal challenge and then reframe how you react to it, leading to a calmer, happier you. This approach is especially helpful if you struggle with stress, anxiety, depression, anger or self-doubt, or if you want to improve your relationships with family, colleagues and peers or, simply, yourself.

When you free your mind from the thoughts that f**k you up, you’ll never look at anything the same way again. Want to get started?

©2019 Daniel Fryer (P)2019 Penguin Audio
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Thoroughly enjoyed both as an integrative counsellor and a human being with a brain which has had a tendency to depression and anxiety. Enjoyed the audio version so much that I also bought the paperback / it will enhance my use of CBT (and REBT) with clients. Although I think the paper copy loses something as the narrator is marvellous. There was nothing new here for me but it’s all about the presentation and accessibility. Personally, I rarely swear (or give reviews) but it was fitting here as was the humour. (Also check out Dan’s paper on humour in psychotherapy).

I cannot recommend this book highly enough

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Not bad advice, by any means, but simplistic and somewhat self-evident. I nodded along, but I didn’t pick up anything new I could apply.

Also, having “f**k” in the title is attention-seeking, over-used (and passé).

Good advice—but you know it already

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Such a great book which has been so useful. I will come back to this again and again!

Excellent!

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A fascinating book about challenging and changing one's limiting beliefs with the help of REBT. I really enjoyed learning new and very different ways of looking at not just problems but life in general. Fascinating and very helpful!

Fascinating and very helpful.

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If narration could bring people to life then the narrator of this book surely can. He did such an amazing job that the whole listen felt like being in an opera house completely awestruck by his performance. The contents of themselves are outstanding of course which were further complimented perfectly by the Narrator. It helped me to reclaim my life back after discovering the power of REBT and it can be utilised to make a complete turnaround from a chaotic life! Thank you Daniel and Max, I am grateful to you both.

Narrator is enchanting

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