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Burnout

The Secret to Solving the Stress Cycle
Narrated by: Emily Nagoski
Length: 7 hrs and 2 mins
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Summary

Random House presents the audiobook edition of Burnout by Amelia Nagoski and Emily Nagoski, read by Emily Nagoski.

This groundbreaking book explains why women experience burnout differently from men - and provides a simple, science-based plan to help women minimize stress, manage emotions and live a more joyful life.

The gap between what it's really like to be a woman and what people expect women to be is a primary cause of burnout, because we exhaust ourselves trying to close the space between the two. How can you 'love your body' when everything around you tells you you're inadequate? How do you 'lean in' at work when you're already giving 110 percent and aren't recognized for it? How can you live happily and healthily in a world that is constantly telling you you're too fat, too needy, too noisy and too selfish? Sisters Emily Nagoski, PhD, the best-selling author of Come as You Are, and Amelia Nagoski, DMA, are here to help end the cycle of overwhelm and exhaustion and confront the obstacles that stand between women and well-being. 

With insights from the latest science, prescriptive advice and helpful worksheets and exercises, Burnout reveals:

  • What you can do to complete the biological stress cycle - and return your body to a state of relaxation.
  • How to manage the 'monitor' in your brain that regulates the emotion of frustration.
  • How the Bikini Industrial Complex makes it difficult for women to love their bodies - and how to fight back.
  • Why rest, human connection, and befriending your inner critic are key to recovering from and preventing burnout.

Eye-opening, compassionate and optimistic, Burnout will completely transform the way we think about and manage stress, empowering women to thrive under pressure and enjoy meaningful yet balanced lives. All women will find something transformative in these pages - and be empowered to create positive and lasting change.

©2019 Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski (P)2019 Random House Audiobooks

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Boring

I thought this book would be about self care, however most of it seems to make the assumption that women are somehow taken advantage off and don’t know how to look after themselves. If you want to listen to a sexist, feminist wine about how life is so tough for women then this book is for you. As a strong independent female I did not align with it at all and found it very boring.

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Life changing book! Im telling everyone about it!

This book blew my mind! and gave such a sense of peace to my restless stressed out mind! ha I feel empowered and educated about the cycle of stress and how to manage it better! Life changing book!

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Friendly Encouraging and Supportive

This is a warm book with some lovely incentives and support in it's contents. I liked it. I can't say it fixed me or got me where it wanted me to go but it was a pleasant and insightful read.

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One of the best books I've read in 2019

It's not just for women. It's the book I wish I'd had years ago. Each chapter is so relevant and accessible I feel that this could so easily be adapted to be a course that I'd happily spend the rest of my life teaching/showing people. Congratulations to Emily and Amelia for writing one of the most sensible and inspiring 'self-help' books I've ever read and I've read so many! I've recommended it to my friends and two more copies are arriving today for me to give as gifts this Christmas to my favourite people.

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A must read for all modern women

Let me just say how much I LOVE the Nagoski sisters!

Having been recommended my book by my counsellor and loving it, I cannot stop telling people about it.

Very soon you will be the same. How else will all our fellow sisters know the truth about human-giver syndrome and the patriarchy (ugh!).

The references are all relevant and not excessively American-ised. There are strong women in the examples that are relatable and I cannot praise the Nagoski sisters highly enough for sharing these stories, research and info with us.

It makes everything that we should know about our bodies so easy to understand. It helps to appreciate and start to push back against the trap all modern women fall into.

In short, this book has helped me. And it can help you!

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Intriguing

it is always intriguing finding words to describe the various stages and emotions we feel. fantastic insight to me.

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LOVED this book

Absolutely loved this book and read it in 2 days. For someone who suffered from years of stress and ended up burnout to the point where it has affected me in all aspects of my life, I cannot recommend this book highly enough. I wish I had read this 4- 5 years earlier.

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excellent. highly recommend.

really excellent. lots of points when I thought oh. hey, right now I can do this!

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fantastic

I have listened and read a number of self help books but I think this one might be my favourite. Informative, funny, accessible... just wonderful. No negatives from me, give it a read or a listen. I will definitely be reading for a second time :)

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Every woman should read this

I loved it. Loved Emily's voice, it makes the book so much more real.
The best part?: the mad woman in the attick!! Just brilliant.
Thank Emily and Amelia. Gifted the book to my sister that so needs it at this moment.
thank you kindly

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  • 30-07-19

This isnt just a book for women!

I LOVED this book and having both authors narrate was fantastic. So many valuable learnings, key takeaways for me were how to recognise and complete the stress cycle (getting those 20 second hugs in regularly now!!), how to SMASH the patriarchy, and how to let go of being a human giver and the expectation that I need to do everything for everyone. I so enjoyed the emphasis in this book on the importance of support and connection, we are not meant to do things on our own. Buy this book, it will enrich your view of life!