Disagreements don’t always start with other people—they often start with your mindset. In this episode of the CTRL+VICTORY podcast, Farlan breaks down the simple code to having fewer conflicts with the people you care about.

Here’s the truth: you only have two choices—process what’s said through a negative lens or a positive lens. That choice determines your response and can either escalate the situation or create peace.

We’ll talk about:

• Why your mindset is the most powerful tool in avoiding conflict
• Real-life examples of how a small shift can change everything
• The weekly Victory Challenge: The Mindset Flip

If you’ve been struggling with unnecessary arguments, it’s time to take control of how you think, process, and respond. Victory starts within.

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In this episode of the CTRL+VICTORY Podcast, I get real and transparent about stepping into a new leadership role. I talk about the nervousness that comes with leveling up, the doubts that try to creep in, and the confirmations that remind me I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be.

If you’ve ever felt nervous before a big opportunity, this one’s for you. Fear doesn’t mean stop—it means you’re getting close to your next breakthrough. On the other side of fear is growth, opportunity, and proof that you belong.

Let’s talk about nerves, faith, and why you’re more ready than you think.

In this episode of CTRL+VICTORY, I dive into two real conversations we need to have:

1️⃣ The “Did Thug snitch?” distraction – why we waste energy on gossip that has nothing to do with us, while our own goals, dreams, and discipline sit untouched.
2️⃣ The new grandparent problem – today’s grandparents aren’t like the ones we grew up with. Many feel entitled, and instead of helping, they sometimes create boundaries we now have to enforce to protect our kids.

This episode will challenge you to stop pouring energy into what doesn’t matter and start reclaiming focus, family, and victory.

🔥 It’s time to level up.

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On this episode of the CTRL+VICTORY Podcast, I get real about why I was holding back on even calling this a podcast, the reason behind the name change, and what CTRL+VICTORY really means to me.

I also introduce myself in a deeper way — who Farlan is, why this movement matters, and how my grandmother (yes, the same one who’s been taking over my social media 👀😂) played a huge role in shaping the man and father I am today.

This is a transparent solo episode, and I want you to hear my heart as I set the foundation for where this podcast is headed.

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What does fatherhood really look like when you're co-parenting, navigating a blended family, and trying to stand tall as a man?In this powerful episode of Man Listen: Real Talk, Real Dads, Josiah Moore gets brutally honest about what it means to father through the chaos — from respecting his child’s mother to being challenged in his role as a stepdad.We talk:✅ The weight of co-parenting✅ Setting boundaries without bitterness✅ Loving bonus kids like your own✅ Showing up even when it’s hard✅ Why men need to know what they're signing up for when dating someone with kidsWhether you're in a blended family, dealing with baby mama drama, or trying to be the dad you never had — this one is full of wisdom, mistakes, and heart.🎥 Watch it now. Share it with a father who needs this.👇 Drop a comment with your biggest takeaway.🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations with real dads.#ManListen #BlendedFamily #FatherhoodUnfiltered #BonusDad #CoParentingRealities #StepfatherLife #DadTalk #ModernFatherhood #RealMenRealTalkDon't forget to:👍 Like this video💬 Leave a comment🔔 Subscribe for more content➡️ Follow me on social media: @farlanwillThanks for watching! Let's get it!

In this heartfelt episode of Man Listen: Real Talk, Real Dads, I sit down with Pastor Larry Crawford of MercySake Ministries — a husband, father, marriage counselor, and spiritual leader with deep insight on fatherhood, faith, and family.We talk about:✔️ Raising teens and letting go while still guiding✔️ What spiritual leadership looks like in the home✔️ The role of grace, patience, and tough love in parenting✔️ How to build a lasting bond between fathers and children✔️ Why unity between spouses is crucial — especially when the kids try to divide and conquerPastor Larry drops wisdom for every father navigating this journey — whether you're in the thick of raising teenagers or learning how to lead your home with faith and love. This is one of those conversations that will stick with you.

In this powerful episode of Man Listen: Real Talk, Real Dads, I sit down with Marcus Brown-Dorsey — aka The Hope Dealer — founder of iHope Mentoring (ihopementoring) and a true example of what it means to lead with heart. Raised in Orlando and shaped by a unique upbringing, Marcus shares how he turned personal struggles into a calling to serve, lead, and mentor the next generation. Support iHope Mentoring at https://www.ihopementoring.com/We talk about:✔️ Being a present father while leading in the community✔️ Letting go as your kids grow up✔️ Fatherhood, faith, and finding balance✔️ What today’s young men need most✔️ Why every man has the power to change lives — starting at homeThis episode is raw, real, and filled with wisdom for fathers, mentors, and any man ready to level up. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay tapped into Man Listen — where it’s not about being perfect, but being present.

Man listen… this one’s special.In this episode, I sit down with Chonsten Jennings (@,chonstenjennings) a father of a 2-year-old, business owner, and coach. We talk about what it really means to show up for your child while building a brand, staying mentally strong, and learning how to lead both at home and in business.Whether you’re a young dad, an entrepreneur, or just trying to figure out how to balance life — this conversation will hit home. This isn’t an official Man Listen episode, but it's the vibe. Just two fathers keeping it real about growth, pressure, and presence.