Disagreements don’t always start with other people—they often start with your mindset. In this episode of the CTRL+VICTORY podcast, Farlan breaks down the simple code to having fewer conflicts with the people you care about.

Here’s the truth: you only have two choices—process what’s said through a negative lens or a positive lens. That choice determines your response and can either escalate the situation or create peace.

We’ll talk about:

• Why your mindset is the most powerful tool in avoiding conflict
• Real-life examples of how a small shift can change everything
• The weekly Victory Challenge: The Mindset Flip

If you’ve been struggling with unnecessary arguments, it’s time to take control of how you think, process, and respond. Victory starts within.

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In this episode of the CTRL+VICTORY Podcast, I get real and transparent about stepping into a new leadership role. I talk about the nervousness that comes with leveling up, the doubts that try to creep in, and the confirmations that remind me I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be.

If you’ve ever felt nervous before a big opportunity, this one’s for you. Fear doesn’t mean stop—it means you’re getting close to your next breakthrough. On the other side of fear is growth, opportunity, and proof that you belong.

Let’s talk about nerves, faith, and why you’re more ready than you think.

In this episode of CTRL+VICTORY, I dive into two real conversations we need to have:

1️⃣ The “Did Thug snitch?” distraction – why we waste energy on gossip that has nothing to do with us, while our own goals, dreams, and discipline sit untouched.
2️⃣ The new grandparent problem – today’s grandparents aren’t like the ones we grew up with. Many feel entitled, and instead of helping, they sometimes create boundaries we now have to enforce to protect our kids.

This episode will challenge you to stop pouring energy into what doesn’t matter and start reclaiming focus, family, and victory.

🔥 It’s time to level up.

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