If they looked average… you probably would’ve left by now.

But because they’re attractive, you start tolerating things you normally never would. Disrespect. Inconsistency. Mixed signals. You tell yourself “it’s complicated” when the truth is a lot simpler: you’re emotionally attached to the validation.In this episode, we’re talking about the real reason so many people stay stuck in bad relationships—and it has less to do with love, and more to do with physical attraction and the way attention from an attractive person makes you feel about yourself.

Because you’re not addicted to them.

You’re addicted to the feeling of being chosen by someone you find desirable.

And the longer you stay in these chaotic dynamics, the more your nervous system starts confusing anxiety with chemistry… and peace with boredom.

So now healthy partners feel “meh,” and toxic ones feel exciting.

We’re breaking down:

- Why physical attraction can cloud your standards

- The psychology of validation addiction

- How chaos starts to feel like chemistry

- Why you keep going back even when you know better

- How to retrain your nervous system for healthier love

If you’ve ever said, “I know they’re bad for me, but I just can’t let go,” this episode is for you.

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Has your sex life started to feel… predictable?Not bad, not terrible... Just a little meh?In this episode, we’re talking about how to make sex sexy again—without pressure, awkward tricks, or unrealistic expectations. Just simple, doable shifts that bring back the spark, the tension, and the excitement.Because the truth is, most couples don’t lose attraction overnight. It slowly fades when routines take over, life gets busy, and intimacy becomes just another item on the to-do list. But the good news? You don’t need a complete relationship overhaul to bring the passion back.I’m sharing practical, real-life tips to help you:- Rebuild sexual tension in everyday moments- Break out of boring bedroom routines- Feel more confident and desired- Bring playfulness and anticipation back into your relationship- Make intimacy feel exciting again (not like a chore)If your relationship is good but the spark has dulled, this episode is for you.SIGN UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER: https://www.edenmitelman.com/newsletter💬 Work with me (coaching & mentorship):https://www.edenmitelman.com/workwithmeWatch the episode:https://youtu.be/LEsao5kQPug🛍 My Amazon Storefront (favorites):https://amzn.to/3QIpGSd📲 Follow me:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/advicethathurtsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelmanInstagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/🎥 Real Life / Mom Vlog Channel: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman New videos weekly. Subscribe for real growth.#datingadvice #relationships #selfgrowth #selfmastery #edenmitelman

Most couples don’t have communication problems.They have arguing problems.If every disagreement turns into a loop, a blow-up, or emotional distance… you’re probably arguing the wrong way.In this episode, we’re breaking down:- Why your arguments keep going in circles- The biggest mistake people make when fighting- How to say what you feel without destroying the relationship- What healthy conflict actually looks like- The one thing mature couples do differentlyArguing isn’t the problem.Arguing without intention is.If you want a relationship that actually works, you need to learn how to fight the right way.💬 Work with me (coaching & mentorship):https://www.edenmitelman.com/workwithmeSIGN UP FOR THE NEWSLETTER:https://www.edenmitelman.com/newsletter🎥Watch this episode:https://youtu.be/Dhpgh4XCQ3k🛍 My Amazon Storefront (favorites):https://amzn.to/3QIpGSd📲 Follow me:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/advicethathurtsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelmanInstagram (Personal): https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/🎥 Real Life / Mom Vlog Channel: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman New videos weekly. Subscribe for real growth.#datingadvice #relationships #selfgrowth #selfmastery #edenmitelman

You don’t have a dating problem. You have a mindset problem.

In this episode, we’re ripping apart the comforting lies, romantic fairytales, and self-sabotaging mental habits that are quietly destroying your love life.

If you keep repeating the same patterns, attracting the same emotionally unavailable people, or waiting for “the one” to magically save you — this is your wake-up call.

* AUDIO DIDN'T RECORD SO I APOLOGIZE FOR THE QUALITY.

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Valentine’s Day creates unnecessary pressure — so let’s simplify it.In this episode, I break down the Valentine’s Day Bare Minimum Test, share experience-based gift and surprise ideas at every price point, and give advice for couples who don’t really care about Valentine’s Day but still want connection.

This isn’t about expensive gestures. It’s about intention.

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Welcome to the new era of Advice That Hurts & Helps. Same honesty. Sharper conversations. This is where real growth begins.

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In this episode, I'm discussing the real truth that no one is honest about when you move in together: not the aesthetic, not the highlight reel, but the day-to-day reality that makes or breaks relationships.We cover:• How responsibilities & chores quietly create resentment• The money conversations couples avoid (bills, splitting costs, financial imbalance, do you pay their mortgage?)• Why intimacy and sex change after moving in — and how to protect it• The conflicts that suddenly surface — and how healthy couples actually resolve them• Red flags vs. normal growing pains when living togetherIf you’re thinking about moving in, already living together, or wondering why your relationship feels different, this episode is your reality check before resentment sets in.GET THE "HOW TO MOVE ON" GUIDE HERE: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-over-your-exGET COACHED BY ME: https://e-roticthebrand.com/get-coachedTHE PODCAST: https://open.spotify.com/show/1dBEbJTujAoXi6o6oc8EVT?si=6e7zzXbNRwqalWDd05ahEAALL THE SHIT I RECOMMEND: https://amzn.to/3QIpGSdVLOG CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/ @edenleemitelman ----LINKS THAT WILL SATISFY YOU MORE THAN UR PATHETIC SNEAKY LINK:WEBSITE: https://e-roticthebrand.comINSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/e_roticthebrand/PERSONAL INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/edenleemitelman/TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@edenmitelman#datingadvice #relationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #modernlove #selfworth #attachmentstyles #relationshipgoals #emotionalintelligence #selfimprovement #selflove #confidence #sexeducation #intimacy #healthyrelationships #datingcoach #redflags #situationship #toxicrelationships #highvalue #masculinity #femininity #mindset #communication