• 78. I Didn’t Marry Just Him—I Married His Trauma
    Mar 20 2026

    In this powerful episode, we hear a perspective that’s often left out of the conversation—what it’s like to be married to a survivor. Jeanne shares honestly about the impact of trauma on marriage, intimacy, trust, and communication, and what it looks like to walk alongside someone’s healing while tending to your own heart. Together, Rob and Jeanne offer a raw and hope-filled picture of what healing can look like—not just individually, but within a marriage.


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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • 77. Forgiveness Without Silence: Justice and Healing After Childhood Sexual Abuse
    Jan 23 2026

    In this continuation of Episode 76, Rob returns to share more of his healing journey after childhood sexual abuse. He explores the tension between forgiveness and justice, what it means to confront the past, and how reclaiming his voice became a vital part of healing. This honest conversation offers hope and clarity for survivors learning that forgiveness does not require silence—and healing can hold both truth and freedom.

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    51 mins
  • 76. Untangling Shame: Reclaiming Identity After Childhood Sexual Abuse
    Dec 2 2025

    In this episode, Rob shares how childhood sexual abuse shaped his identity through shame, silence, and confusion — and how God has been restoring what was stolen. We talk about trauma bonds, why survivors often mislabel their experiences, and how healing begins when we separate what happened to us from who God created us to be.

    If this conversation resonates with your story, Trees of Hope is here to walk with you. Learn more at treesofhope.org.


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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • 75. From Darkness to Light: Laura’s Journey of Relentless Courage
    Jul 14 2025

    In this powerful episode, Laura shares how she overcame the trauma of childhood sexual abuse—not once, but twice—by those she trusted most. With raw honesty and unwavering faith, she opens up about the turning point in her healing journey: choosing forgiveness, not to excuse the abuse, but to reclaim her life. This conversation is a testimony to the courage it takes to confront the past, find your voice, and walk in freedom.

    If you or someone you know needs healing, visit treesofhope.org for free support resources, healing groups, and prevention tools.

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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • 74. A Surrendered Life: From Addiction to Redemption
    Jun 6 2025

    In this raw and redemptive episode, Nicole Dabrowski shares her journey from addiction, homelessness, and despair to healing, purpose, and faith. After hitting rock bottom, Nicole encountered Trees of Hope and the Shelter from the Storm study—a turning point that helped her confront the root causes of her pain and begin the path to restoration.

    Nicole’s story is one of radical surrender, deep transformation, and unshakable hope. If you’ve ever questioned whether true healing is possible, this conversation will remind you that nothing is beyond redemption.

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    51 mins
  • 73. Stop Negative Self-Talk: Reclaim Your Identity
    Apr 26 2025

    Ever catch yourself saying things you’d NEVER say to a friend? We’re diving deep into the battlefield of our minds. On this episode, Nicole and Deb get real about negative self-talk and how it impacts EVERYTHING.

    Deb shares a powerful truth: “Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” Yeah, that’s a LIE! Words, especially the ones we whisper to ourselves, have incredible power.

    From wrestling with conviction after a night out to battling the “accuser” in moments of weakness, they reveal how negative thoughts can consume us. But it’s not all doom and gloom! They share practical exercises, such as “shedding it off” and bringing thoughts into the light.

    Ready to transform your inner dialogue? What’s one negative thought you’re ready to kick to the curb?

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • 72. A Story of Redemption and Hope
    Mar 28 2025

    In this powerful episode of the Not Just a Hashtag podcast, we are thrilled to introduce Shannon Nelson, the Director of Calvary House for Women at Calvary Chapel Fort Lauderdale. Shannon's journey of redemption is nothing short of remarkable, and it’s one you won’t want to miss!

    Growing up, Shannon faced immense challenges, including a painful history of sexual abuse. As a teenager, she sought comfort in unhealthy choices, leading to struggles with drug addiction and further sexual abuse. But today, Shannon stands as a testament to resilience and transformation! Through the unwavering faith in Jesus, deep support of loving friends, and the invaluable lessons of self-reflection and boundary setting, she has completely transformed her life.

    Now, Shannon shines as a beacon of hope for women who have endured similar hardships. Her story is not just inspiring—it’s a call to believe in the power of change and the importance of community support.

    We are so grateful to have her share her incredible journey with us. Don’t miss this uplifting conversation that could inspire you or someone you know to embrace hope and healing!

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • 71. Healing is a journey, not just a destination
    Jan 3 2025

    In this episode, Deb and her husband, Mike, share their inspiring story of transformation after Deb participated in the Trees of Hope Shelter program. Together, they courageously confronted the challenges of sexual abuse, exploring its effects on individuals and relationships. Through open conversations, they learned to address difficult emotions, strengthening their bond and understanding of their faith. This journey of vulnerability transformed their relationship, leading to resilience and a shared purpose. Deb's journey highlights the importance of compassion over mere problem-solving, understanding individual processing styles, and building trust through honesty and patience. They discuss addressing deep-rooted wounds and embracing emotional maturity. Join them as they explore the role of faith, self-compassion, and the power of community in the healing process. Let their story inspire you to trust in the process and find strength in vulnerability.

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    1 hr and 13 mins