‎Are we going to talk about women who had STD but wouldn't say? All kinds of infections and not get it treated?

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‎I dated a lot. All kinds of women. Which leads to all kinds of relationships.

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‎And eventually, it leads to all kinds of infection and treatment.

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‎My way of doing things is to walk up to a woman I found attractive. I don't really worried about personality.

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‎Tell her my name. Ask if she's free at the moment or she's busy. If she's free I will tell her we could have a date, right there.

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‎And if she said no, that she's busy. I will request for her phone number and let her know we could have a date later.

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‎I hardly waste time. It's a moral sort of a thing. If a woman want you, she won't lie about it and pretend. They always knew what they want.

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‎After first date we usually had $£x. Or the second date. I will never wait until third date. Never.

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‎I even got impatient as time goes on and started pulling for $£x at the first date.

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‎Which is exactly why I got infection more than you could use computer to count.

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‎Since most of those encounters with women is not something I already planned. It always result in unprotected $£x.

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‎Walking around ~ saw a beautiful girl ~ walk up to her and ask if she's free at the moment or busy ~ we have a date if she's free ~ and I somehow take her home or a short time at a cheap hotel.

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‎You don't really have condoms in your pocket at all times for such experience.

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‎My body is fast to react to both negative and positive change. Withing two or three days I am already feeling the changes.

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‎Urine that was always easy started felt like something is wrong.

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‎Itching.

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‎I will stared at the cap of my dîck in the bathroom checking and wondering. Trying to point out which girl it would likely be amongst ones I had sêx with during that period.

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‎Then called my nurse, Victoria and Johnson - the best friends I would ever got - and explain to them.

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‎After getting myself treated the next job for me is to confront the girl.

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‎But I have to be tactical.

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‎I can't just walked up to her and accused her of being the one that passed infection to me. So I always do it with sense. And consider the fact that she might not be the actual girl.

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‎Some girls will tell me the truth after feeling nervous and shameful. I would hug them. Then tell them no problem.

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‎Picked my phone and dialled Victoria and Johnson number. Booked a visiting time and get the girl treated ~ only if she's willing, some of those girls have pride and wouldn't follow my lead because of embarrassment.

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‎But Why Are Women Keeping That As a Secret?

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‎We are talking about infection here. In your body.

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‎Why would you stay silent about it?

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‎This thing is very dangerous. The more longer it stays in your body, the more harder it gets to treat.

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‎And a beautiful fine girl like yours shouldn't be taking your overall health for granted, isn't it?

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‎If you can't be honest with a man you just meet that you have infection. At least don't have sêx with him until you get it treated.

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‎But then that's another question right there. Why on earth would you lie about your body to any man? Why?

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‎If he thinks he's not happy that you're telling him the truth at least that showed you the kind of man he is.

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‎You're saving yourself a trouble. Because you're not supposed to be with a man who couldn't listen to your trouble anyway.

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‎Just don't put that trouble on him. Whether it's a toilet disease or you actually got it from having sêx with another man, that's not necessarily a concern.

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‎My own is, you have to be honest.

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‎'See, I have infection. And I don't want to transfer it to you' is a life saver speech you can alter to any man. Save that idîot from having to consult his nurses and doctors.

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‎If he walked away after learning from you. Shrug and walk on. That's an idîot you don't want to make as your boyfriend or future husband.

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‎Now Let's Talk About Men Who Have It But Wouldn't Say Either

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‎Those idïots.

Most men would rather look at their phones than approaching a lady who seems successful more than them.

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‎ It is not fear of rejection.

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‎They thought there's no way they can maintain a healthy relationship with such women.

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‎A woman who is making more money more than them.

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‎Spending up to a man's salary on pedicure and manicure.

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‎Nah!

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‎My brothers would rather talk to the girls around the corner than walking up to such women.

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‎More worse if the woman is driving her personal car.

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‎The greater the level of the car she's driving, and the apartment she's living in, the more they backed out from having a conversation with her.

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‎Relax brother!

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‎She's a woman.

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‎And a woman feels the same emotions like you.

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‎What models of a car she's driving had nothing to do with her ability to handle her emotions.

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‎And it is through emotions you have a serious conversation with anyone.

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‎Just like you're worried about food. She is also worrying about water.

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‎We all felt tired at some point.

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‎We want someone to share our feelings and experience with.

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‎And we want someone who is smart and emotionally intelligent, and can handle our unreasonable expectations about life.

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‎The more beautiful a woman is, the more likely she felt lost and confused when it remains only her.

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‎And it gets serious if she already had a kid or two.

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‎Why didn't she married their dad?

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‎You see! If you can think beyond the surface Lexus 360 she's driving, you will see that we all have ugly past.

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‎And if she's working as a receptionist.

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‎I want you to understand that they are one of the most unhappy people on earth.

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‎Sitting down all day had a way to destroy someone's life.

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‎And it will make them irritated.

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‎They are likely going to feel proud in the public but feel worse back home in their room.

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‎ If she's running her own business, you still have greater chance at it.

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‎Don't go to her pretending you want to buy market or do business with her.

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‎Go to her and tell her exactly what you thought about her.

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‎If she disrespect you for approaching her. Just know that she's unworthy of a woman.

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‎A woman with sense would never ever talk to you without manner.

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‎So far you're not talking to her with your brain on the ground.

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‎You understand what I mean?

‎It's Okay to H@te Your Kids

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‎Majority of us don't have kids when we want to. It was a mistake.

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‎And we don't like the mother.

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‎It happened to me. I was about to graduate secondary school.

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‎And to be honest, up till now I can't say for sure if I am the biological father of the son.

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‎But that is not where I'm going today.

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‎It's Okay If You're Feeling Like You Don't Like Your Kids

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‎And it's okay if you don't like the mother either.

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‎The only problem is, saying the truth will make people look down on you.

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‎Which to me, is okay. It is better if people shook their heads when looking at you.

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‎Than to spend your life lying to yourself.

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‎Marriages are failing because the husband thought he married the wrong person or the wife assumed she shouldn't be there.

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‎Without telling each other.

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‎And it turns to resentment.

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‎One person thinking he made the wrong decision while the other assumed the man she married shouldn't have be her husband.

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‎When I was around 20-something years old I traveled a lot.

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‎I saw friends of mine getting married with women they liked and women they h@ted.

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‎It made me question myself.

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‎And then question their morals.

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‎'Why are they doing this? Is it by force to get married?'

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‎Plenty times I will sit down one place asking myself.

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‎And What About Brothers Who Are Not Happy Being a Father?

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‎They wake up.

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‎Go to work.

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‎Come back home.

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‎Put food to the table.

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‎But full of resentment.

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‎Some of them knew their wives is having affairs with another man.

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‎They knew there's possibility they might not be the biological father of their children.

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‎And I wonder: Why are all these men doing this to themselves? Why?

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‎You Know Your Woman Is Che@ting and You're Still Keeping Up With Her

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‎You know there's nothing you can do to satisfy her and you're still working day and night to keep the relationship going?

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‎Shame on you brother!

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‎Because I can see your pain.

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‎But I will never support you and give you a path in the back.

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‎You've been riding Okada and Moruwa for how many years now?

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‎Feeding a woman that never cares about your happiness!

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‎I would rather remain single forever and live my life on my own terms.

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‎Than to be in relationship with a woman who is using me to fund her dream and achieve her goals.

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‎This is a wake up call.

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‎It is possible to never have the second chance and opportunity.