‎It's Okay to H@te Your Kids

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‎Majority of us don't have kids when we want to. It was a mistake.

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‎And we don't like the mother.

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‎It happened to me. I was about to graduate secondary school.

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‎And to be honest, up till now I can't say for sure if I am the biological father of the son.

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‎But that is not where I'm going today.

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‎It's Okay If You're Feeling Like You Don't Like Your Kids

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‎And it's okay if you don't like the mother either.

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‎The only problem is, saying the truth will make people look down on you.

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‎Which to me, is okay. It is better if people shook their heads when looking at you.

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‎Than to spend your life lying to yourself.

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‎Marriages are failing because the husband thought he married the wrong person or the wife assumed she shouldn't be there.

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‎Without telling each other.

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‎And it turns to resentment.

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‎One person thinking he made the wrong decision while the other assumed the man she married shouldn't have be her husband.

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‎When I was around 20-something years old I traveled a lot.

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‎I saw friends of mine getting married with women they liked and women they h@ted.

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‎It made me question myself.

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‎And then question their morals.

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‎'Why are they doing this? Is it by force to get married?'

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‎Plenty times I will sit down one place asking myself.

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‎And What About Brothers Who Are Not Happy Being a Father?

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‎They wake up.

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‎Go to work.

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‎Come back home.

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‎Put food to the table.

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‎But full of resentment.

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‎Some of them knew their wives is having affairs with another man.

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‎They knew there's possibility they might not be the biological father of their children.

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‎And I wonder: Why are all these men doing this to themselves? Why?

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‎You Know Your Woman Is Che@ting and You're Still Keeping Up With Her

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‎You know there's nothing you can do to satisfy her and you're still working day and night to keep the relationship going?

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‎Shame on you brother!

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‎Because I can see your pain.

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‎But I will never support you and give you a path in the back.

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‎You've been riding Okada and Moruwa for how many years now?

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‎Feeding a woman that never cares about your happiness!

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‎I would rather remain single forever and live my life on my own terms.

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‎Than to be in relationship with a woman who is using me to fund her dream and achieve her goals.

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‎This is a wake up call.

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‎It is possible to never have the second chance and opportunity.