‎Are we going to talk about women who had STD but wouldn't say? All kinds of infections and not get it treated?

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‎I dated a lot. All kinds of women. Which leads to all kinds of relationships.

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‎And eventually, it leads to all kinds of infection and treatment.

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‎My way of doing things is to walk up to a woman I found attractive. I don't really worried about personality.

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‎Tell her my name. Ask if she's free at the moment or she's busy. If she's free I will tell her we could have a date, right there.

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‎And if she said no, that she's busy. I will request for her phone number and let her know we could have a date later.

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‎I hardly waste time. It's a moral sort of a thing. If a woman want you, she won't lie about it and pretend. They always knew what they want.

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‎After first date we usually had $£x. Or the second date. I will never wait until third date. Never.

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‎I even got impatient as time goes on and started pulling for $£x at the first date.

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‎Which is exactly why I got infection more than you could use computer to count.

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‎Since most of those encounters with women is not something I already planned. It always result in unprotected $£x.

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‎Walking around ~ saw a beautiful girl ~ walk up to her and ask if she's free at the moment or busy ~ we have a date if she's free ~ and I somehow take her home or a short time at a cheap hotel.

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‎You don't really have condoms in your pocket at all times for such experience.

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‎My body is fast to react to both negative and positive change. Withing two or three days I am already feeling the changes.

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‎Urine that was always easy started felt like something is wrong.

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‎Itching.

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‎I will stared at the cap of my dîck in the bathroom checking and wondering. Trying to point out which girl it would likely be amongst ones I had sêx with during that period.

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‎Then called my nurse, Victoria and Johnson - the best friends I would ever got - and explain to them.

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‎After getting myself treated the next job for me is to confront the girl.

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‎But I have to be tactical.

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‎I can't just walked up to her and accused her of being the one that passed infection to me. So I always do it with sense. And consider the fact that she might not be the actual girl.

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‎Some girls will tell me the truth after feeling nervous and shameful. I would hug them. Then tell them no problem.

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‎Picked my phone and dialled Victoria and Johnson number. Booked a visiting time and get the girl treated ~ only if she's willing, some of those girls have pride and wouldn't follow my lead because of embarrassment.

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‎But Why Are Women Keeping That As a Secret?

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‎We are talking about infection here. In your body.

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‎Why would you stay silent about it?

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‎This thing is very dangerous. The more longer it stays in your body, the more harder it gets to treat.

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‎And a beautiful fine girl like yours shouldn't be taking your overall health for granted, isn't it?

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‎If you can't be honest with a man you just meet that you have infection. At least don't have sêx with him until you get it treated.

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‎But then that's another question right there. Why on earth would you lie about your body to any man? Why?

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‎If he thinks he's not happy that you're telling him the truth at least that showed you the kind of man he is.

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‎You're saving yourself a trouble. Because you're not supposed to be with a man who couldn't listen to your trouble anyway.

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‎Just don't put that trouble on him. Whether it's a toilet disease or you actually got it from having sêx with another man, that's not necessarily a concern.

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‎My own is, you have to be honest.

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‎'See, I have infection. And I don't want to transfer it to you' is a life saver speech you can alter to any man. Save that idîot from having to consult his nurses and doctors.

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‎If he walked away after learning from you. Shrug and walk on. That's an idîot you don't want to make as your boyfriend or future husband.

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‎Now Let's Talk About Men Who Have It But Wouldn't Say Either

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‎Those idïots.

Most men would rather look at their phones than approaching a lady who seems successful more than them.

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‎ It is not fear of rejection.

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‎They thought there's no way they can maintain a healthy relationship with such women.

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‎A woman who is making more money more than them.

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‎Spending up to a man's salary on pedicure and manicure.

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‎Nah!

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‎My brothers would rather talk to the girls around the corner than walking up to such women.

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‎More worse if the woman is driving her personal car.

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‎The greater the level of the car she's driving, and the apartment she's living in, the more they backed out from having a conversation with her.

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‎Relax brother!

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‎She's a woman.

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‎And a woman feels the same emotions like you.

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‎What models of a car she's driving had nothing to do with her ability to handle her emotions.

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‎And it is through emotions you have a serious conversation with anyone.

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‎Just like you're worried about food. She is also worrying about water.

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‎We all felt tired at some point.

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‎We want someone to share our feelings and experience with.

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‎And we want someone who is smart and emotionally intelligent, and can handle our unreasonable expectations about life.

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‎The more beautiful a woman is, the more likely she felt lost and confused when it remains only her.

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‎And it gets serious if she already had a kid or two.

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‎Why didn't she married their dad?

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‎You see! If you can think beyond the surface Lexus 360 she's driving, you will see that we all have ugly past.

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‎And if she's working as a receptionist.

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‎I want you to understand that they are one of the most unhappy people on earth.

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‎Sitting down all day had a way to destroy someone's life.

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‎And it will make them irritated.

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‎They are likely going to feel proud in the public but feel worse back home in their room.

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‎ If she's running her own business, you still have greater chance at it.

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‎Don't go to her pretending you want to buy market or do business with her.

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‎Go to her and tell her exactly what you thought about her.

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‎If she disrespect you for approaching her. Just know that she's unworthy of a woman.

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‎A woman with sense would never ever talk to you without manner.

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‎So far you're not talking to her with your brain on the ground.

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‎You understand what I mean?

‎It's Okay to H@te Your Kids

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‎Majority of us don't have kids when we want to. It was a mistake.

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‎And we don't like the mother.

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‎It happened to me. I was about to graduate secondary school.

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‎And to be honest, up till now I can't say for sure if I am the biological father of the son.

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‎But that is not where I'm going today.

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‎It's Okay If You're Feeling Like You Don't Like Your Kids

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‎And it's okay if you don't like the mother either.

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‎The only problem is, saying the truth will make people look down on you.

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‎Which to me, is okay. It is better if people shook their heads when looking at you.

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‎Than to spend your life lying to yourself.

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‎Marriages are failing because the husband thought he married the wrong person or the wife assumed she shouldn't be there.

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‎Without telling each other.

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‎And it turns to resentment.

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‎One person thinking he made the wrong decision while the other assumed the man she married shouldn't have be her husband.

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‎When I was around 20-something years old I traveled a lot.

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‎I saw friends of mine getting married with women they liked and women they h@ted.

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‎It made me question myself.

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‎And then question their morals.

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‎'Why are they doing this? Is it by force to get married?'

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‎Plenty times I will sit down one place asking myself.

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‎And What About Brothers Who Are Not Happy Being a Father?

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‎They wake up.

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‎Go to work.

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‎Come back home.

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‎Put food to the table.

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‎But full of resentment.

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‎Some of them knew their wives is having affairs with another man.

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‎They knew there's possibility they might not be the biological father of their children.

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‎And I wonder: Why are all these men doing this to themselves? Why?

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‎You Know Your Woman Is Che@ting and You're Still Keeping Up With Her

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‎You know there's nothing you can do to satisfy her and you're still working day and night to keep the relationship going?

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‎Shame on you brother!

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‎Because I can see your pain.

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‎But I will never support you and give you a path in the back.

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‎You've been riding Okada and Moruwa for how many years now?

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‎Feeding a woman that never cares about your happiness!

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‎I would rather remain single forever and live my life on my own terms.

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‎Than to be in relationship with a woman who is using me to fund her dream and achieve her goals.

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‎This is a wake up call.

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‎It is possible to never have the second chance and opportunity.

‎You Will Still Have $£x With Your Ex

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‎Major reason I am not totally support the idea of celebrating wedding is because of how fast people go back to their ex.

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‎Nobody will ever admit it. Which is another problem entirely.

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‎You spend millions on a wedding. But another guy is sitting there waiting for your woman to come back.

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‎And she will. This is not whether you're caring or not.

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‎Because one day you will lack something the other guy have.

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‎Not necessarily money. In fact, it is not money.

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‎Women don't leave men because of money.

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‎But we all assumed women don't know what they want.

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‎Which is why we're having emotional problem with them.

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‎I can even argue that it is majority of men that don't know what they want.

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‎Not women.

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‎... ... ...

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‎Both of you have someone you've dated and you still have feelings for that person.

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‎The level of quarrels between you and that person is not really necessarily.

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‎But the fact that there's higher percentage that you will go back to that person.

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‎And it had nothing to do with your marriage.

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‎... ... ...

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‎If you can sit well with that reality.

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‎You can live a life full of emotional understanding and ability to process information.

‎Our Parents Didn't Like Us, That's the Truth

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‎But they assume they do. You know, just because they are the ones who fathered us and mothered us.

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‎Their love is not unconditional, even though we all think it is.

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‎A mother loves a child because of her own reasons and expectations. Not because of the child itself.

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‎You ever see parents asking their children what they want to become?

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‎Hardly.

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‎Instead, you'd see them wanting their children to be lawyers, pilots, soldiers, doctors, accountants, and many more.

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‎Parents don't sit down and ask themselves: Am I forcing my way into these children's paths?

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‎And here is where it gets hard.

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‎I don't believe you are guiding your children well if you want your kids to become what you want instead of what they want.

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‎Check my website, Calm Mind Novels .Com .Ng to book 1:1 coaching with me if you have a problem you want to solve.

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‎Or download any of my 5-page PDF books.

‎If You Can't Listen to Your Man, Don't Get Married

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‎I don't have interest in talking about feminism. Anyone is free to believe in whatsoever they choose.

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‎Feminist, and feminism. I don't care.

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‎My own take is; if you're not willing to listen to your man, don't get married.

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‎Let's leave morality and who is right or wrong aside.

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‎If I'm dating a woman who always believes we both have equal authority, I will break up with her.

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‎I will just see that as a total dealbreaker.

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‎I mean, why would a woman think and believe we are the exact same?

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‎Arguing and nagging every time we're having a conversation?

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‎Actually, that's a deal I wouldn't sign with anyone.

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‎So if a woman thinks relationships should be run on 50/50 equal parts, and you're a man reading my stuff or listening to me and maybe watching my video, just walk away from the deal immediately.

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‎I know some men can endure that stress! Where their girlfriends are controlling and a little bit commanding.

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‎And it is majorly because either those men lack experience with women or they're coming from a flawed doctrine about how men should behave in marriage.

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‎Worst of all, they believe too much in some of those cultural and religious fundamental ideas.

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‎You must never talk down to your woman. Yeah, as a man, I agree with that.

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‎But you must never tolerate disrespect either.

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‎Book a 1:1 coaching session with me and I will take you around for two or three days approaching women.

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‎If where you live is far away we can do a video call as you move and I will guide you on how physically you should be when it comes to women.

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‎It's a mindset shift.

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‎The greater your approach, the more you see the absolute reality about women's capacity and how their inner mind works.

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‎They will connect with whomever they like, and it doesn't matter whether you're financially okay or poor.

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‎Just avoid the ones chasing superficial lifestyles though.

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‎Those are not the type of women to walk around talking to.

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‎Most of those types are running a misguided mindset.

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‎Check my website (Calm Mind Novels .Com .Ng) to download my 5-page PDF guide or scroll down on the website to talk to me 1:1.

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‎You only have one life brother, don't waste it listening to people and accepting their flawed philosophy about life and relationships.

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‎A huge majority of modern partners operate on bad advice.

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‎Many are emotionally wrecked.

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‎A lot will look elsewhere whenever they like, and it never matters whether they're in a relationship with a serious boyfriend or they have a partner at home.

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‎Your job is to find your woman out of the remaining small percentage.

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‎Because in my experience, those are the only women that can make your life less miserable and manage to add more peace of mind to your daily dose of emotional understanding and awareness.

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‎That remaining small percentage—those are the only women to build a healthy relationship with.

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‎And yeah, they're happy even if you say you're going to build a traditional polygamous home.

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‎Since they're not selfish. They already believe a man can handle that dynamic.

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‎I go into more details in my 1:1 coaching session. (Calm Mind Novels .Com .Ng)

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‎When you get to the website just scroll up and down a little and you will see all my great (but unconventional) ways of dealing with women.

‎Why You Should Never Believe What a Woman Says

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‎This is going to be a little bit çräzy.

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‎We are stripping away all the bûllshît awesome lies.

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‎Women are smart. They knew how to get away from $hît. And they can make you feel like you're special doing it.

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‎I have dated women who lied about their boyfriends being this and being that but ended up spending a night with me.

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‎Of course they will go back to their boyfriends. But do you know what that means?

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‎It mean trusting women is at your own risk.

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‎You don't have to go around glaring at women. You just have to understand what you're dealing with.

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‎👉 Make sure you don't put any woman on a limbo jumbo.

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‎She's beautiful. She's excellent. She's good and better on bed.

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‎Treat her as just exactly as what she is: woman.

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‎She can wake up tomorrow and think why they hêll did she fall in love with you? She must have been drinking too much of âlcøhól, right?

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‎Or maybe she was just hørñy back then. All kinds of excuses.

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‎It's a woman's nature. They can drive bûllshît out of where it doesn't existed at all.

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‎So far they don't love you anymore - you're over. If you like be the next Elon Musk or Mark Zuckerberg.

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‎To a woman it never matters. Who you are can go f'ück itself.

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‎But you have a choice.

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‎👉 Be the only guy who understand he can never satisfy a woman.

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‎Be a millionaire. A thousandnaire. Whatever! Someone who is emotionally drained can still kñāçk your woman and she will feel proud about it.

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‎But if you're a guy who already know you can never satisfy a woman, you have already saved yourself all the future àgôñizîng päîn and emotional support animalistic incompetent.

‎I Don't Believe In Gõing to Çhürçh

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‎This is not a debate about religion. This is a personal take. And I don't care about anyone sharing my belief.

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‎Gõin to çhürçh does not making you better than anyone. Nor is it making you less valuable of a person.

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‎But I h@té the idea of how people turn rëlïgïon and attending çhürçh to. I just hate it!

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‎Making it feel like people who don't gø to çhürçh don't have heaven.

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‎Who's heaven? You mean your father's heaven?!

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‎You people should stop complicating things. Rëlîgîoñ is something we heard about after we're born not even a single person out of us was there when the $hît was hitting the fans.

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‎So stop running around thinking you're better than anyone else just because you gò to çhürçh every Sunday and respect some göddämñ human-beings (a human being like you) just because they studied theology and came out with distinction in protocol arranging leadership.