What if the thing you've been carrying was never yours to carry alone?
In this episode of Igniting Inspired Inquiry, I sit down with John Van Huenen to explore fatherhood, trust, self-responsibility, and the powerful shift that happens when we stop trying to control everything and learn to surrender.
We are here to open the door to reflection, resonance, and revelation.
John shares the profound transformation that came with becoming a father and the inner work required to prepare for that role. Together we explore the belief that "it's all up to me," how it creates pressure, overwhelm, and hypervigilance, and what becomes possible when we create space for life to support us.
This conversation moves through breathwork, nature, presence, healing, and the importance of creating room to "defrag" from the noise of modern life.
This is a space for truth, trust, and the kind of insight that comes from simply being human — raw, alive, and transformative.
In this episode, we dive into:
• Fatherhood and identity
• Letting go of the belief that it's all up to me
• Trust, surrender, and creating safety within
• Breathwork as a pathway to healing
• The importance of pause, presence, and nature
• Supporting young people to reconnect with their bodies
• Celebrating progress rather than perfection
About John Van Huenen:
John is a trauma-informed breathwork therapist based in Christchurch. Through breathwork therapy, coaching, and embodied practices, he supports people to move through overwhelm, reconnect with themselves, and create lasting transformation. His work blends years of personal development, nervous system awareness, body-based healing, and practical wisdom.
Connect with John:
Instagram:
@johnvanhuenen
Website:
www.navigatingbreath.com
About the Podcast / Season 2:
Season 2 of Igniting Inspired Inquiry is a courageous return to what is real. Alongside powerful guest stories, I share my deeper knowings and the honest journey toward inner peace. This season is for brave inquiry, unfiltered conversations, and insights that come from simply being human.
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