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The Stranger on the Bridge

My Journey from Suicidal Despair to Hope

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'In my world, the word inspirational gets bandied around a lot, but Jonny Benjamin is truly deserving of that adjective.' – HRH The Duke of Cambridge

'Jonny Benjamin is the most inspirational man I know. His book shows us how remarkable the human spirit is.' Bryony Gordon, bestselling author of Mad Girl

In 2008, twenty-year-old Jonny Benjamin stood on Waterloo Bridge, about to jump. A stranger saw his distress and stopped to talk with him – a decision that saved Jonny's life.

Fast forward to 2014 and Jonny, together with Rethink Mental Illness launch a campaign with a short video clip so that Jonny could finally thank that stranger who put him on the path to recovery. More than 319 million people around the world followed the search. ITV's breakfast shows picked up the story until the stranger, whose name is Neil Laybourn, was found and – in an emotional and touching moment – the pair re-united and have remained firm friends ever since.

The Stranger on the Bridge is a memoir of the journey Jonny made both personally, and publicly to not only find the person who saved his life, but also to explore how he got to the bridge in the first place and how he continues to manage his diagnosis of schizoaffective disorder. Using extracts from diaries Jonny has been writing from the age of thirteen, this book is a deeply personal memoir with a unique insight on mental health.

Jonny was recognised for his work as an influential activist changing the culture around mental health, when he was awarded an MBE in 2017. He and Neil now work full-time together visiting schools, hospitals, prisons and workplaces to help end the stigma by talking about mental health and suicide prevention. The pair ran the London Marathon together in 2017 in aid of HeadsTogether. Following the global campaign to find the stranger, in 2015 Channel 4 made a documentary of Jonny's search which has now been shown around the world.

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Critic reviews

In my world, the word inspirational gets bandied around a lot, but Jonny Benjamin is truly deserving of that adjective. (HRH The Duke of Cambridge)
Jonny Benjamin is the most inspirational man I know. His book shows us how remarkable the human spirit is. (Bryony Gordon, bestselling author of Mad Girl)
This moving memoir, which includes a contribution from his rescuer, Neil Laybourn, is a hugely inspiring account of how Benjamin became an activist and mental-health campaigner. (Sunday Express)
Brave and honest and interesting (Cathy Rentzenbrink, author of Manual for Heartache and The Last Act of Love)
Of the many books on personal experience The Stranger on the Bridge stands out in its entirely holistic approach. The reader is exposed to all angles of a complex journey - through good as much as through bad in a beautifully genuine and raw style. This book will be added to my suggested reading list to everybody interested in the field. (Adrian Garcia, The Black Dog Campaign, SANE)
You gain a unique understanding of someone living with mental illness (OK Magazine)
A personal appeal against the cultural entrenchment of the stigma that still surrounds male mental health. (Men’s Health)
His work and book shows that continuing to talk about mental illness and extending that opportunity to others, really can make the biggest difference. (Happiful)
A moving memoir looking back over these incredible achievements, as well as the many challenges that led Jonny to contemplate taking his own life. (Jewish News)
Important and life-affirming memoir. (The Bookseller)
One of the most important depictions of what it’s like to live with a mental health problem that I’ve ever read. I went away feeling empowered and reassured that I wasn’t alone. (Bryony Acketts, Mind Media)
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The Stranger on the Bridge is one of the most real, raw and honest books I’ve listened to in a long time. Narrated perfectly, Jonny’s journey is told in a real and honest way. You feel as if you’re on the journey with him. The way it has been written is brilliant and a testament to his own mind, ability and life story. There is hope in the book, love and humanity which I think is fantastic!

Incredible | Heartwarming | Honest | Real

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What a book! Loved it from the start and some of the life experiences were so descriptive it was brilliant to listen to and so hard to stop, even made me go a longer route one time on the way home just so I could get the end of the chapter in.
Would love to see live or will try and invite to a Mental Health day at work. Thanks for your account Jonny and take care 😎

Moving story

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This showed the variety of circumstances that affect mental health and treatment that is available.

Great insight into mental health

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I loved this book, it made me smile and cry and most importantly it made me think about mental health differently. I’ve finished this book rooting for Johnny to continue to do well, being more aware of those around me and what they can be secretly going though and with so much hope.
Thank you Johnny for your openess and honesty, you and Neil are true inspirations

A must read/listen

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I'm delighted the author was also the narrator, as that added to the experience . An incredible story, by a truly incredible man. A great tool for those that want to educate themselves, and an inspiration for those with a particular interest in mental health.

Life changing

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