Secure Parenting

From internationally renowned family consultant Kim John Payne comes an eloquent guide that seeks to help parents reclaim for their children the space and freedom that all kids need for their individuality to flourish.

Today's parents are constantly pressured to be perfect. But in striving to do everything right, we risk missing what children really need for lifelong emotional security. Now the simple, powerful "Circle of Security" parenting strategies that Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert Powell have taught thousands of families are available in self-help form for the first time. Filled with vivid stories and unique practical tools, this book puts the keys to healthy attachment within everyone's reach - self-understanding, flexibility, and the willingness to make and learn from mistakes.

Struggling to connect with your child or help your teen navigate their emotions? This two-part guide provides the proven strategies you need to build a strong parent-child bond and give your teen the emotional tools they need to succeed.

Nachdem er unser Verständnis von Bindungsstilen revolutioniert hat, kehrt der Psychiater und Neurowissenschaftler Dr. Amir Levine mit einem brillanten, paradigmenverändernden Werk über die Wissenschaft der sicheren menschlichen Bindung zurück. Wie Dr. Levine in Secure erklärt, fühlen sich Menschen mit einem sicheren Bindungsstil nicht nur in ihren Beziehungen, sondern auch in ihrer eigenen Haut am wohlsten. Und erstaunlicherweise zeigen die neuesten Forschungsergebnisse, dass jeder, unabhängig davon, wie unsicher er sich fühlen mag, lernen kann, sich ein sicheres Leben aufzubauen.

-Are you finding it hard to be close and open in your relationships?- Do you often find yourself withdrawing emotionally, maintaining a rigid self-sufficiency that ultimately leaves you feeling isolated and disconnected?- Are you on the quest for a sense of true emotional independence while still fostering deep and meaningful relationships?

Learn how to effectively raise kids with a narcissistic ex and ensure your kids are emotionally secure, mentally strong, confident, and happy. It can be done, but you need to utilize specific strategies.

'The Secure Attachment Style Solution: How Anyone Can Transform Anxious, Avoidant, or Disorganized Attachment Styles and Thrive in Relationships' is your roadmap to understanding and changing the patterns that have held you back from the love and security you deserve.

With this unique and highly practical guide, you'll learn the science of attachment theory, and how to apply it to your coparenting relationship. Secure attachment refers to the bond between a parent and young child, which gives that child a stable and secure basis from which to negotiate life going forward. A child with a secure base can weather the storms of trauma and life changes—such as those caused by divorce—much more easily than a child who doesn't.

Nick Lavery is an active-duty Green Beret within the United States Army Special Forces. Although injuries sustained in combat resulted in the above-the-knee amputation of his leg—Nick not only remained in the Army, he returned to his Special Forces detachment and continues conducting combat operations to this day. Objective Secure is the methodology Nick employed to return to operational status. It is also the methodology he uses today as he continues this unprecedented journey in service to his country. It is a battle-tested guide forged by fire—literally.

Building on the foundational insights of "Anxious Attachment and Avoidant Detachment," this sequel opens a new chapter in your quest for deeper, more resilient relationships. It's more than a book—it's your guide to a world of secure attachment, offering pathways to enrich your connections and embrace the strength of emotional resilience and enduring love.

You open up. You try to get closer. But the more you reach out… the more they pull away. They need space. You need reassurance. And suddenly, what should be a relationship—feels more like a chase. You overthink every message. Every pause. Every “I’m fine” that doesn’t feel fine at all. And deep down, you wonder: “Is it me? Am I too much? Or not enough?” This is what it feels like to live with an anxious attachment style—especially when you're in a relationship with someone emotionally avoidant. The connection feels real… but so does the pain. And the confusion. And the exhaustion.

What if the greatest influence in your daughter’s life… is you? Your daughter is watching. She sees how you love, how you lead, how you listen. And through your steady presence, through the small, everyday moments, you are shaping her self-worth, her emotional security, and her belief in what she deserves from the world. Strong Fathers Raise Strong Daughters is an essential guide for every dad who wants to raise a confident, emotionally secure, and empowered young woman.

Introducing "Loving an Avoidant Partner," a groundbreaking guide that takes you deep into the enigmatic maze of an avoidant person's inner world like never before. Armed with remarkable insights, you'll decode the guarded secrets and fears of your elusive partner, shattering the barriers that have kept you apart.

Moths that get too close to the light burn their wings. Men and women who become too attached to their partners tear their relationships apart. Your relationship doesn't have to end in heartache like so many others.

Ever feel like you're walking on eggshells in your relationship, feeling worried your partner might lose interest or even leave you? If constantly waiting for your love interest to text you or feeling uneasy when your partner's not around sounds familiar, you might be dealing with anxious attachment. And if your partner leans towards avoidant attachment, brace yourself – these triggers can become overwhelming. But fear not; understanding these dynamics is the first step to finding peace and connection in your relationship.

Do you constantly worry that your partner will lose interest in you or leave? Do feelings of inadequacy and fear of abandonment make it difficult to trust and build lasting relationships? If so, you're not alone. Millions are navigating anxious attachment, but it doesn't have to hold you back from true love and connection. Here's the truth: Anxious attachment can be transformed into secure relationships. Inside Anxious Attachment Recovery, you'll find actionable steps, compassionate advice, and research-backed strategies to achieve emotional stability and satisfaction.

Attachment parenting is the beloved, yet often misunderstood, philosophy of ensuring your children grow up with their needs completely fulfilled. Modern Attachment Parenting gives you all the information you need to choose your own AP adventure. Modern Attachment Parenting doesn't overload you with parenting rules, but rather empowers you with information. It is an evolution of the science, free of any guilt, misgivings, or judgment on your formal parental role, and an open philosophy of finding the version right for you - an a la carte buffet of AP.

Relationship anxiety can make even deep connections feel unsafe. You overanalyze every word, fear rejection, and try to control love—just to feel secure. But control doesn’t create safety. Self-trust does. In this empowering guide, author and emotional healing mentor Ellis D. Mercer blends attachment healing with the transformational power of divine feminine energy—helping you shift from survival mode to deep emotional confidence.

What if you could reach the most innocent part of yourself and treat that essential being with kindness? Author Natasha Levinger teaches how to locate this inner child, get to know them, and parent this most vulnerable part of yourself so that you can self-soothe even when the world around you is chaotic. By eliminating false personal narratives and creating a nurturing inner voice, you can heal past traumas and live in the present with understanding and grace

Do you ever feel like you care more, worry harder, and love deeper—only to be left feeling unseen, anxious, or on edge?