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The author of this blog post describes her experience hiking naked in a cedar forest near the Idaho/Montana border. She discusses the initial fear and self-consciousness she felt but ultimately discovered a sense of empowerment and connection with nature by shedding her clothes. The experience allowed her to feel more present in the moment, appreciate her body without judgment, and overcome her insecurities. The post concludes by advocating for naked hiking as a way to embrace vulnerability, challenge societal norms, and find personal growth.

The Mindful Modern Mistress uses a story from a social media post about a husband who is gone 77% of the time to illustrate the importance of love as an action, rather than an object. The writer argues that the husband's constant absence in the relationship is unethical, as he is not fulfilling his vows to his wife, while expecting her to meet his needs. The piece also highlights the societal bias against women who stray from monogamy, as well as the often-unacknowledged conditions of relationships, suggesting that love requires both parties' active participation to thrive.

Explore communication necessities, obstacles, and destroyers in relationships.

The author, a self-proclaimed "Mindful Modern Mistress," explores the intricate dynamics of long-term affairs from the mistress's perspective. Through evocative imagery of Alice in Wonderland, the author compares the experience of a long-term affair to a confusing, often exhilarating, and always emotionally demanding world. The author emphasizes the complex emotional entanglements that can arise from these unconventional relationships, emphasizing that denial of feelings is both damaging and ultimately futile. The author argues that these affairs are often filled with love but can also lead to...

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Open relationships, nonmonogamy, affairs, hall passes and everything in between. This discussions are here.

Explore a variety of topics on the BDSM lifestyle.

The author, a member of the BDSM community, compares and contrasts their experiences with dating and lifestyle sites like Tinder, Bumble, AdultFriendFinder (AFF), and Fetlife. They give Fetlife a positive review for its respectful community and specific profiles, while criticizing Tinder and Bumble for their prevalence of "fuckboys" and emotionally immature users. The author expresses disappointment with the current state of AFF, finding it difficult to use and potentially unsafe for women, particularly due to the lack of communication features with a free account. However, they fondly recall ...