The holidays can be magical, messy, and a little bittersweet. Sometimes, they bring up feelings we didn't even realize we were carrying.

In this episode, we're talking about grief and the holidays, and why this time of year can bring so much to the surface. And we're not just talking about grief after losing someone we love. We're talking about missing the people who aren't here anymore, the people who are still here but no longer part of our lives, the childhood holidays we can never get back, and the seasons of motherhood that seem to pass way too quickly.

From the empty chair at the table to the traditions that look different now, we're getting into the complicated feelings that can come with a season that tells us we're supposed to be happy. Because sometimes, the holidays hold joy and sadness, gratitude and longing, all at the same time.

We're talking about:

• Why grief can feel especially heavy during the holidays

• Missing people, relationships, and versions of life that have changed

• The memories, music, recipes, and traditions that bring it all back

• The bittersweet reality of watching our kids grow up and realizing we're living the good old days

• Navigating changing family dynamics, estrangement, divorce, and traditions that no longer look the same

• Letting ourselves feel the hard stuff without feeling guilty for the good stuff, too

Grief is often the price we pay for loving deeply. And maybe the goal isn't to avoid the sadness or recreate the holidays exactly as they used to be, but to make room for what we're missing while still embracing what we have.

As always, we're here for the messy middle, the big feelings, and the reminder that even when the holidays don't look the way they used to, you can still find moments of magic in them.

In case no one's told you today, you handled that perfectly. 💖

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This week we're talking all things skincare. We share our favorite products, walk through our morning and nighttime routines, and separate skincare myths from facts.

In this episode:

• Our skincare routines
• Favorite products & brands
• Common skincare myths
• Sunscreen, collagen & moisturizer
• How often to exfoliate

Products Mentioned
Affiliate and non-affiliate links may be included.

HERBIVORE Lapiz Oil (Carly’s absolute FAVE!!)
HERBIVORE Bakuchiol
HERBIVORE Green Magic
HERBIVORE Cloud Jelly
HERBIVORE Aquarius Cleanser
HERBIVORE Pink Cloud Jelly Cleanser
HERBIVORE Aquarius Face Cream
evanhealy Rose Geranium HydroSoul
evanhealy Tea Tree Gel Cleanser
evanhealy Blemish Purifying Serum
evanhealy Balancing Ritual (great starter set)
Indiefog Naturals

Remember: handling it perfectly isn't about being perfect.

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What if a midlife crisis isn't really a crisis at all?

In this episode, we're talking about the reality of midlife and why the experience is often very different for women than it is for men. While both tend to experience major life shifts around ages 47-48, women often aren't trying to relive their younger years - they're finally stepping into themselves.

We discuss the impact of hormones, confidence, identity, relationships, careers, and why so many women reach a point where they're no longer willing to stay small, settle for less, or tolerate what isn't serving them.

Because maybe this chapter isn't about falling apart. Maybe it's about finally putting yourself back together.

In this episode:
• What defines a midlife crisis
• How men and women experience midlife differently
• The role of perimenopause and andropause
• Why confidence often grows during midlife
• Setting boundaries and leaving behind what no longer serves you
• Prioritizing yourself without guilt
• Wanting more from your relationships, career, and life
• Kelly's unexpected craving for colorful hair, tattoos, and another piercing

The second half of your life doesn't have to look like the first. In many ways, it can be even better.

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