We all want to feel like we matter. Most of us just don't say it out loud. Host Paul D Low is joined by Aimee Mosco — author, intuitive channel and co-founder of Intentional Healing Systems — and Kristin Johnson, prize-winning writer, screenwriter and author of the social media essential Ain't "U" Got No Manners, for a conversation that goes right to the heart of one of the six core human needs: significance. From hoarding toilet paper during a pandemic to feeling invisible despite showing up every single day, the discussion gets honest about how the need for validation quietly shapes relationships, identity, and the ladders we choose to climb. There's warmth, laughter, and some genuinely profound moments around pain versus suffering, the wisdom of children, and why turning the lens inward is always where the journey begins. You are significant. You matter. Just for today, that's enough. 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS Significance is one of the six core human needs, yet most people never consciously recognise they're driven by it — and that blind spot creates real friction in relationships. Seeking validation from external sources places unfair expectations on others. The real work is finding ways to feel significant from within, rather than waiting for the world to confirm it. Pain is a useful signal telling you something needs to change. Suffering is what happens when you ignore the signal for too long. Recognising the difference is everything. When significance becomes your entire identity — through a career, a role, a relationship — losing it can feel like losing yourself. Awareness of this is the first line of defence. Children are natural teachers here. They pursue things with curiosity, fall down, get back up, and stay present. Rebuilding that relationship with play and wonder is a genuine antidote to suffering. QUOTES "It's not necessarily about sources — it's about seeking out ways to feel significant without putting expectations on others." "It wasn't about them at all. It was about me and how I felt about myself. That was the only way to dig myself out of feeling totally invisible." "When you lose that significance, you lose your identity — and that can be very painful." "Suffering means that we've missed the cues. We haven't paid attention to the rung that's missing." "Just remember that you are significant and you matter. Just for today — that's all that really counts." ABOUT THE GUESTS Kristin Johnson is a prize-winning/prize-finalist writer, blogger, ghost-writing/creative writing consultant, screenwriter, and editor. A graduate of the former Master of Professional Writing Program from the University of Southern California, she has published/ collaborated on seven books. Her current book AIN’T “U” GOT NO MANNERS has been called ‘the Bible for social media’. She is a member of the Desert Screenwriters Guild, Society of Children’s Books and Illustrators, and Palm Springs Women in Film and Television. Website Aimee Mosco is an author, intuitive channel, and co-founder of Intentional Healing Systems, LLC. Over the course of 10 years, she developed a healing system called SACRED after mapping the components of the human energy field, based on channelled communications. She conducts practitioner certification for SACRED and teaches classes based on the system, as well as her books… ‘Gratitude + Forgiveness x Love = Happiness’ ‘Daily Agreements, Guidelines & Intentions’ Aimee is a co-host of the global community group ‘Evolve Through Love’, and she works as an intuitive who specializes in facilitating healing of the body, heart, mind, and spirit. She has dedicated her journey to teaching others how to shift their beliefs, thoughts, and emotions to unearth innate personal power. Her passion for helping others to help themselves inspired the collaborative project and global healing movement, IHS Unity, created with her co-author, Donald Ferguson. Website THIS HUMAN LIFE Inspiring Stories | Elevating Lives | Leaving Legacies This Human Life is a reflective podcast exploring what it means to live, change, and make sense of experience over time. Hosted by Paul D. Lowe, Life Architect & Storyteller, the podcast offers a calm, thoughtful space where people share insight after life has been lived — not while it is being performed. Through unhurried conversations shaped by love and loss, courage and consequence, reinvention and meaning, guests reflect on the moments that have quietly shaped who they have become. There is no teaching, no persuading, and no expectation placed on the listener. Just lived experience, shared with honesty, humility, and care. More than a podcast, This Human Life is an invitation to pause, to listen more deeply, and to reflect on the lives we are shaping simply by living them. Paul-Lowe.com mailto:Paul@Paul-Lowe.com
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