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A painting can look like a disaster right before it becomes beautiful, and that’s the most honest metaphor I’ve found for purpose. On a birthday trip to Rockland, Maine, I watch an artist struggle through an ugly middle stage on a lighthouse painting. What starts as two green blobs turns into a piece I can’t stop staring at. That change sparks a bigger question: what if our lives feel unfinished because we’re judging them mid process?

We take that “hot mess to masterpiece” moment and connect it to faith and Psalm 139: the idea that God knits us together with intention and that our lives have a design. I talk about the difference between a sketch and a finished painting, and why discovering God’s will is less about panic and pressure and more about relationship, trust, and daily movement. Purpose shows up in the gifts and talents you already carry, the work you’re drawn to, and the things that bring real joy instead of a quick hit of satisfaction.

Then we get practical. Every day we’re painting, not only on our own canvas but on other people’s lives too. Kindness adds color. Service adds light. But gossip, jealousy, anger, and constant negativity act like black paint that can stain a person for a long time. If you’ve been searching for meaning, trying to fill an empty hole with stuff, or wondering whether God is real, I offer a simple starting point: ask, and pay attention to what happens next.

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A buyer tells you, “We could never give you the business.” Most salespeople hear a wall and start pushing. I sit down with master sales trainer Steve Lentini and unpack why that moment is actually an opening, if you respond with curiosity, respect, and a real desire to help. Steve’s stories from the janitorial, packaging, and paper supply world turn “commodity sales” into a craft built on trust, not tricks.

We get concrete about what works in B2B sales: why price-list quoting often backfires, how walking the storeroom and reviewing top items creates a value conversation, and how territory management is really pruning so you can grow. Steve shares two unforgettable wins where partnership beats price, including a supplier-consolidation process that seemed impossible until the buyer finally felt understood. If you lead a sales team, you’ll hear coaching cues you can use immediately: watch body language, stop overselling, and honor the agenda the customer gave you.

Then the conversation takes a deeper turn. Steve opens up about a near-death experience that changed how he sees work, faith, and the “small voice” he calls the acorn brain. We connect spirituality and neuroscience in a grounded way: reacting versus responding, building new neural pathways, and bringing presence into sales calls and leadership. Whether you’re in sales training, account management, or just trying to live with less anxiety and more purpose, you’ll leave with language and practices you can try today.

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Most people treat closing like a finish line. In this episode, we break down a simple, repeatable way to move deals forward without pressure tactics or canned “power closes,” and I share the moments that taught me to sell like myself instead of chasing someone else’s style.

Start by reframing closing as any agreement to move forward—setting a meeting, asking for samples, requesting pricing—and why “singles” beat home runs in relationship-driven B2B sales. Then I walk through the 50-25-25 framework: How showing up and following up is half the battle; adding likability and credibility gets you to 75 percent; applying sales skills, product knowledge, and soft skills help you to finish strong. You’ll hear how consistency creates confidence, confidence becomes trust, and trust opens relationships that last.

From purpose to practice, staying focused on the buyer’s world: asking grounded questions, diagnosing real problems, and applying solutions that matter to their outcomes. We dig into one high-leverage behavior—ask for the next step, then stay silent—and show how that one habit exposes timelines, real objections, and true intent. When price pops up, we demonstrate how to uncover what’s underneath and address the full concern before asking for the start again. Finally, I talk about the power of gratitude as a growth strategy, why taking business for granted is the first step out the door, and how mutual accountability (including payment conversations) protects long-term partnerships.

If you want a closing process that feels natural, reduces anxiety, and builds trust at every step, this episode lays out the playbook. Subscribe, share with a teammate who hates “hard closes,” and leave a review with your favorite “single” that moves deals forward.

Link to my website: The Toilet Paper Salesman ™ – Who Says Selling Toilet Paper isn’t Glamorous? ™

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