First, they blamed our periods. Now they’re blaming our menopause. They’ve even coined a new term: Menodivorce.

Join Coach Kristy Lynn as she argues that blaming menopause for rising divorce rates among those 50 and older is ridiculous. She acknowledges that while overall divorce rates are dropping, divorces among those 50+ did rise from nearly 10% in 1990 to over 25% in 2019, but she attributes that to expanded legal and economic options and changing cultural expectations, not hormones.

She reviews cultural history of women’s economic oppression, marital rape legality, and past psychiatric institutionalization for “menopause insanity,” plus the shift enabled by no-fault divorce, noting these factors shaped women’s ability to leave.

She makes the case for menopause acting as a catalyst that unmasks long-ignored issues in health, careers, and relationships and cites other common drivers like men’s midlife crises and divorces for asset protection during illness as alternative contributors to the increase in divorce rates.

00:00 Menodivorce Myth Busted

00:44 Menopause Unmasks Truths

01:39 History of Women's Oppression

02:08 Marriage Control and Asylums

03:11 Grandmother Hypothesis and Freedom

04:52 Divorce Stats and Generations

06:30 Other Drivers of Gray Divorce

07:20 Menopause as Catalyst Not Cause

08:49 Clarity Across All Relationships

09:50 Wrap Up and Next Episode

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Aging Well Through Menopause

Coach Kristy Lynn discusses three aging metric; lifespan (how long you live), health span (how well you live), and strength span (how independently you live), as well as how menopause can affect all three through estrogen decline, accelerating muscle loss, bone density decreases, and metabolic changes that impact daily functioning.

Using 2024 data from the CDC, she notes the average US female life expectancy is 81.4 years (85.7 if reaching 65), yet many face chronic disease or disability by 65, potentially spending decades with declining quality of life, especially since strength loss begins in the forties. She emphasizes lifestyle influence, prioritizing strength training 2-3 times weekly and increasing dietary fiber and urges listeners to consider other wellness dimensions (finances, environment, time/social connection, and spirituality/creativity) because living longer matters most when living well.

00:00 Welcome

00:47 Lifespan vs. Health Span vs. Strength Span

01:47 Defining the Three Spans

03:33 The Numbers and Reality Check

04:23 How Menopause Changes It

05:30 What You Can Do Now

06:28 Wellness Beyond the Physical

09:01 Key Takeaways and Wrap Up

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Perimenopause doesn't just change your hormones, it changes you. And for many of us, that shift quietly ignites a question they've been afraid to ask: What if I started over?

In this episode, Coach Kristy Lynn explores what it means to enter your Elder Era. Spoiler alert, it’s not a specific age or milestone, but a mindset shift that happens when you stop trying to recapture your 20s and start building a life you're actually passionate about living.

Through her own story of going back to school mid-life (and mid-podcast launch), Kristy makes the case that menopause isn't the end of anything. It might just be the nudge you need.

If you've been daydreaming about a different life but are plagued by doubts, this one's for you.

00:00 Welcome and Disclaimer

00:38 Starting Over at Midlife

01:20 The Menopause Wrecking Ball

02:35 Dreams vs Self Doubt

03:16 One Email Changes Everything

05:53 Defining Your Elder Era

07:01 Choose Differently Today

07:44 Wrap Up and Next Episode

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Join Coach Kristy Lynn as she breaks down how the menopause industry has grown to $17.8B in 2024 (projected $24.3B by 2030), with the U.S. accounting for most revenue and supplements making up the vast majority, despite limited regulation.

She contrasts FDA-regulated hormonal and non-hormonal therapies with the “wild west” supplement market, and argues the boom arose from decades of medical neglect, including limited menopause training in OB-GYN programs and historical under-inclusion of women in research.

While awareness, benefits, legislation, and treatment options are improving, she warns about profit-driven marketing, influencers, and uncredentialed coaching, and shares red & green flags for providers and supplements, stressing evidence, third-party testing, and not dismissing symptoms as “just perimenopause.”

00:00 Welcome and Housekeeping

00:47 Meet Coach Kristy Lynn

01:15 Ignored to Exploited

02:41 Menopause Market Numbers

04:01 Treatments vs Supplements

05:41 How We Got Here

07:36 Real Progress and Options

09:50 Marketing Over Medicine

13:21 Provider Red Flags

16:16 Supplement Safety Checklist

17:23 Critical Health Reminders

19:26 Final Takeaways and Outro

What comes to mind when someone says “menopause?” What about “aging?” Are those thoughts positive or negative? Do you see menopause and life after it as a decline or do you see it as freedom?

Hi! I’m Coach Kristy Lynn, menopause life coach and host of The Menopause Alchemist Podcast and each week, we’ll look at the usual menopause things like symptoms and treatment options, but we’re gonna look at them from a different perspective.

We’ll be exploring:

• How menopause impacts your long-term quality of life in every way, not just physically
• How different cultures view menopause and how those views have changed over time, and
• What different treatment options can and can’t do to decrease the effect of menopause symptoms on day-to-day life

And ultimately, I’m going to challenge you to change how you think about menopause and even aging itself.

This podcast (and my coaching) is about considering the possibilities and embracing, rather than fighting, the transition to your Elder Era.

Join me every Wednesday, starting April 15th and don’t forget to follow today so you don’t miss a single episode.

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I’ll see y’all on April 15th!