• What a Cup of Black Coffee Taught Me About How We Heal
    Feb 16 2026
    What happens when you walk into a café and only tell the barista what you DON'T want? You get exactly that. And what if your brain works the same way? In this episode of Serenity Rising, Bron explores the Black Coffee Theory, a viral social media metaphor that reveals something profound about how our brains process what we focus on. Using research, Bron unpacks why your brain can't tell the difference between what you want and what you don't want and why that matters deeply for anyone on a healing journey. SHOW NOTES In this science episode of Serenity Rising, Bron shares a story that's been circulating on social media, about a person who walks into a café and only tells the barista what they don't want. They get a black coffee. Every time. It's a simple metaphor, but it mirrors something many of us do in our healing: we focus so hard on what we're running from...the pain, the anxiety, the exhaustion, the fear, that our brains tune into exactly that. Not because we're broken, but because of how our neurology actually works. Bron breaks down the research (the famous "white bear" experiment), the reticular activating system, and the difference between approach and avoidance goals, all through the lens of compassion, self-awareness, and The Serenity Project philosophy. She also shares a simple, nervous-system-aware practice for noticing when you're caught in the "I don't wants" and softly redirecting, one moment at a time. In this episode, Bron explores: Why your brain can't process "don't" and what it hears instead The "white bear" experiment and the rebound effect of thought suppression How the reticular activating system filters your reality based on what you focus on The neuroscience of approach goals vs avoidance goals, and why it matters for healing How self-affirmation activates the brain's reward centres A gentle pattern interrupt practice, called the FLIP Framework: Feel, Label, Interrupt, Pivot Why this isn't about toxic positivity, it's about working with your neurology, not against it This episode is for anyone on a healing journey who has ever felt stuck in a loop of "I don't want this." For anyone recovering from burnout, chronic illness, grief, trauma, or simply feeling overwhelmed by their own thoughts. Because you deserve to receive what you're truly asking for. And it starts with knowing what to order. Make everyday count! JOIN THE COMMUNITY Website https://serenityproject.com.au/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/bronwatsonme Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bron_watson/ LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/bronwatson Have a question or feedback? You can leave a message here: https://fanlist.com/serenityproject
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    12 mins
  • What No One Tells You About Clichés, Fear, and Resting
    Feb 9 2026

    What do you do when "You've got this!" makes you feel more alone? When fear keeps you awake at 3 am? When rest feels like failure?

    SHOW NOTES

    In this Q&A episode of Serenity Rising, Bron responds to three powerful questions from real people navigating cancer — the kind of questions that get asked in support groups at 2 am but rarely answered with the depth they deserve.

    This episode tackles what happens when well-meaning clichésmiss the mark, when fear of mortality becomes a constant companion, and when the guilt of resting feels heavier than the exhaustion itself.

    Drawing on insights from thought leaders like Brené Brown, Jay Shetty, and Mel Robbins, alongside peer-reviewed research on self-compassion, death anxiety, and social support, Bron offers honest, grounded responses that validate what you're feeling and give you something practical to hold onto.

    In this episode, Bron explores:

    • Why platitudes often hurt more than they help and what "toxic positivity" really costs us
    • The difference between loneliness and solitude and why you can feel alone in a crowded room
    • Why fear and excitement are the same physical sensation and how to work with that
    • How to find meaning alongside fear, not instead of it
    • Why guilt about rest is often grief in disguise
    • The research on self-compassion and why it's not self-indulgence
    • Brené Brown's insight that exhaustion has become a "status symbol" and the cost of tying self-worth to productivity
    • Practical tools including the One Safe Person Text, the Three Good Things Practice, the Five Senses Anchor, and the Rest Prescription

    This is not an episode about positive thinking.

    It's about honest thinking. It's permission to feel what you're actually feeling and evidence that you're not alone in it.

    Enjoy and make everyday count!

    Bron xx

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    16 mins
  • Fear → Flexibility: Why Bending Beats Breaking
    Feb 2 2026
    In business coaching, fear is often framed as a sign you're on the right path—that growth and clarity are coming. But with cancer, fear doesn't work that way. That vortex of fear doesn't go away. It's always there. In this episode of Serenity Rising, Bron Watson introduces the Serenity Now cards—a deck of 52 emotion cards designed to help you name what you're feeling and find a path through. Today's focus: the emotion of fear, with the reframe of flexibility. Drawing on research and her own experience navigating cancer, Bron shares the powerful metaphor of the gum tree versus the willow tree. When we meet fear with rigidity—white-knuckling, resisting, trying to control everything—we become brittle. But when we develop flexibility, we learn to bend without breaking. This episode includes five practical tools you can use when fear shows up, plus the framework Bron lives by: feel the feels, control the controllables, pause, reflect, respond, repeat. Enjoy! Bron xx Key Topics • What the Serenity Now cards are and how they work • Why "fear means growth" works in business but differs in cancer • What fear is neurologically (the amygdala as threat detector) • Why cancer-related fear doesn't "switch off" • The gum tree vs willow tree metaphor • Psychological flexibility and how it moderates fear of recurrence • 5 practical tools: breathwork, naming it, grounding, values-based action, thanking the fear. Join The Community Website https://serenityproject.com.au/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/bronwatsonme Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bron_watson/ LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/bronwatson Have a question or feedback? You can leave a message here: https://fanlist.com/serenityproject
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    12 mins
  • How Do You Win at the Game of Life?
    Jan 18 2026
    In this fireside-style episode of Serenity Rising, Bron reflects on a deceptively simple question: what does it really mean to win at the game of life? Using the metaphor of a card game — specifically UNO — Bron explores what happens when life deals you cards you didn't want, didn't choose, and can't put back in the deck. Cancer, diagnosis, caregiving, loss — the card that changes everything. This episode gently challenges the pull of comparison and the question so many people ask in hard moments: why me? Drawing on social psychology, lived experience, and the Serenity Prayer, Bron reframes life as a solitaire game. Not a competition. Not a race. A deeply personal journey where the only real loss comes from playing someone else's hand instead of your own. In this episode, Bron explores: Why comparison is so tempting and why it costs us peace How social comparison impacts mental health and self-worth Why life isn't about getting better cards, but playing your own differently The Serenity Prayer as a practical framework for everyday decision-making Acceptance, courage, and wisdom through the lens of psychological flexibility Holding grief and joy at the same time through both/and thinking How small, values-led choices become daily wins This conversation weaves together research on social comparison, dialectical thinking, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and prayer as a mental health resource — all translated into human language. This episode is an invitation to stop staring at other people's cards and come back to your own. To play what's in your hand with courage, care, and commitment to yourself. Because winning isn't about the outcome. It's about how you choose to play — one card, one day, one breath at a time. Your healing matters every day. Connect With Us Website https://serenityproject.com.au/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/bronwatsonme Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bron_watson/ LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/bronwatson Have a question or feedback? You can leave a message here: https://fanlist.com/serenityproject
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    13 mins
  • Healing Together: A Listener Q&A
    Jan 4 2026

    Healing Together: A Listener Q&A is a fireside-style episode of Serenity Rising, created in direct response to the questions and reflections shared by the community.

    Bron answers three deeply human questions that often go unspoken during cancer and survivorship.

    The first explores loneliness — particularly the pain of feeling unseen or misunderstood when people say things like "you look great," while missing the invisible realities of fatigue, fear, and scanxiety. Bron explains why mismatched support can increase distress, and how small, ordinary moments of connection can be powerfully regulating for the nervous system.

    The second question turns toward caregivers — the partners, family members, and friends often described as the "invisible patients." Bron reflects on the emotional load caregivers carry, the sudden role changes that occur, and why listening without fixing, offering choices, and showing up consistently matter more than saying the perfect thing.

    The final question explores uncertainty — the ongoing challenge of living without guarantees. Bron unpacks why uncertainty feels so destabilising, how the nervous system responds to not knowing, and how acceptance, meaning-making, and psychological flexibility can soften fear without denying reality.

    Throughout the episode, Bron shares zero-cost, low-effort practices to support both patients and caregivers, including simple language for asking for help, grounding techniques, and the Serenity Prayer as a lived framework for daily life.

    This episode is not about toxic positivity or getting it right. It's about presence, compassion, and remembering that healing happens together.

    Your healing matters every day.

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    20 mins
  • Finding Serenity Together: The Caregiver's Journey With Paul Watson
    Nov 26 2025
    What does it mean to walk alongside someone you love through a cancer diagnosis? And where do caregivers find their own peace when the floor keeps dropping away? In this deeply personal episode of Serenity Rising, Bron is joined by her husband Paul Watson for a raw, honest conversation about caregiving, resilience, and finding serenity in the midst of chaos. After eight years and multiple diagnoses, Paul shares what it's really like to be the 'invisible patient'—the one holding it all together when everything feels uncertain. SHOW NOTES In this fireside-style episode of Serenity Rising, Bron welcomes a guest who has been with her through every scan, every waiting room, and every unexpected turn—her husband of nearly 30 years, Paul Watson. Paul opens up about what it means to be a caregiver—the silent patient who often feels like a pebble one moment and a mountain the next. He shares the internal work he does to find peace: the early morning spa moments, the gratitude practice, and the pause that allows him to choose how to respond rather than simply react. Together, Bron and Paul explore the reality that cancer is never just one person's journey—it's a family affair. They discuss the vortex of fear that comes with diagnosis, the importance of advocating for time and space within the medical system, and why 'being strong' isn't about having all the answers. Bron also shares a powerful metaphor from a chapter she wrote before her own diagnosis—about expecting a holiday to Tahiti and finding yourself with a ticket to Nepal, headed for Everest base camp without the right gear. It's a vivid picture of what it feels like to be thrust into a life you didn't plan for. In this episode, Bron and Paul explore: What it means to be the 'invisible patient' as a caregiver How Paul defines serenity—as peace, confidence, and control over thoughts and emotions The power of the pause: acknowledging emotions before choosing how to respond Why caregivers need their own 'serenity moments'—gratitude, presence, and small rituals The importance of advocating for time and space after a diagnosis Why healing matters more than fixing, and living matters more than curing The Serenity Prayer as a lived framework for navigating uncertainty This episode is for every caregiver who has ever felt invisible, every family navigating cancer together, and anyone searching for peace in the middle of the unknown. Because healing is not a solo journey. And serenity moments? They become the memories that make every day count. JOIN OUR COMMUNITY Website https://serenityproject.com.au/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/bronwatsonme Instagram https://www.instagram.com/bron_watson/ LinkedIn www.linkedin.com/in/bronwatson Have a question or feedback? You can leave a message here: https://fanlist.com/serenityproject
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    23 mins
  • When Everything Changed – A Love Letter to the Diagnosed
    Nov 19 2025

    Do you remember the exact moment your life split into "before" and "after"?

    On 23 February 2023, former nurse educator and mother of five, Bron Watson, received a second cancer diagnosis. The first was breast cancer. This time, it was incurable, but treatable. In this opening episode of Serenity Uprising, Bron tells the unvarnished story of what happened between that phone call, the specialist's room, and the long weeks of waiting in between.

    If you have ever sat in the silence after a terrifying result… if you have struggled to explain what is happening to family and friends because you do not have the answers yet… or if you are living with the weight of a "chronic, not curable" diagnosis, this episode is for you.

    Key takeaways:

    • What it is really like to move from a "curable" to an "incurable but treatable" cancer diagnosis

    • The cost of putting everyone else first, and the moment she realised she had ignored her own body's warning signs for a year
    • Why she now separates "healing" from "curing" – and how that shift became the foundation of The Serenity Project and this podcast

    • An honest invitation to step away from "fighting" language and explore serenity as an ongoing practice, even in the middle of fear and uncertainty

    This is not a list of tips. It is a story. And it is a love letter to anyone who has heard the words "you have cancer," to carers who do not know what to say, and to survivors who still feel their stomach flip every time a scan is booked.

    Serenity Uprising: Healing with Cancer exists to walk beside you in that space – with honesty, compassion and the reminder that healing is not a destination you reach, but a practice of returning to yourself, again.

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    15 mins
  • Pause. Breathe. Decide. with Jo Muirhead
    Oct 23 2025

    What if the boldest move you can make in cancer care isn't acting fast — but slowing everything right down?

    In this episode of Serenity Rising, Bron speaks with rehabilitation counsellor, business owner, and cancer survivor Jo Muirhead about the quiet but powerful skill of pausing in moments when the medical system moves faster than the human heart can follow.

    Jo was diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer at 47, right as the world was entering the uncertainty of a pandemic.

    What unfolded was not only a clinical journey, but a profoundly human one.

    Jo found herself navigating rushed decisions, complicated treatment options, medical trauma and a complete reshaping of daily life. Through it all, she learned that slowing down was not a luxury. It was a necessity.

    Her ability to pause, breathe, and decide became the foundation for her own healing.

    Key Take-Aways

    In this conversation, Jo and Bron explore:

    • What it feels like when the medical system moves at a pace that leaves no room for thought

    • Why self-advocacy can begin with a single pause

    • The difference between informed consent and pressured consent

    • How medical trauma can shape the recovery experience

    • Spoon Theory, chronic migraines, and learning to live within new energetic boundaries

    • Jo's personal definition of serenity and how contentment became her anchor

    • The women who inspired Jo to imagine a future beyond survival

    • How to honour your body, your voice and your pace, even in moments of crisis

    This episode is an invitation to reclaim your own timing. To trust that spaciousness, not urgency, creates clarity. To remember that your body belongs to you, and you are allowed to pause before making decisions that affect your future.

    If you would like to ask a question for an upcoming episode or share your reflections, you can connect with Bron via the below.

    Your healing matters every day.

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    1 hr and 7 mins