• Don't Know Your Purpose? Do These 3 Things to Find It | John R. Miles - EP 843
    Nov 6 2026
    What if you don't have a passion, a special talent, or an obvious calling? What if you're simply trying to figure out what matters to you and how you can make a meaningful difference?In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles explores how to find purpose when you don't know what you're meant to do. Drawing on the remarkable story of Nicholas Winton, who helped rescue 669 children from Nazi persecution, John challenges the belief that meaningful lives begin with discovering an extraordinary calling.Instead, he shares three powerful clues to help you uncover what matters, recognize where you can contribute, and start building a life of significance. You don't have to discover your passion before you start living meaningfully. Sometimes, purpose emerges through the things you care about, the people you help, and the responsibilities you choose to embrace. In this episode, you'll discover:Why you don't need a calling, passion, or exceptional talent to matterHow our culture confuses achievement with significanceWhy ordinary acts of care can create extraordinary meaningWhat Nicholas Winton teaches us about purpose and follow-throughThe Three Clues for discovering what matters to youHow your personal history shapes what you notice and care aboutWhy responsibility and contribution can help you discover purposeHow losing an identity or title can reveal what truly mattersWhy mattering is about both feeling valued and adding valueHow to take one meaningful action within forty-eight hoursThank you to our sponsorsUncommon Goods: Discover unique, meaningful holiday gifts from independent artists and small businesses. Get 15% off your next order at uncommongoods.com/passionstruck.Shopify: It’s time to turn those “What Ifs” into SFX: CHA-CHING with Shopify today. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY DOT COM SLASH passionstruck. Explore "The Mattering Effect"Get your copy of The Mattering EffectWhat happens when you spend so much of your life showing up for everyone else that you start to disappear from yourself? Take the 90-second diagnostic to discover whether you're experiencing the signs of unmattering.New to Passion Struck?Explore the Passion Struck Starter PacksNot sure where to begin? Discover curated episode collections designed to help you explore the ideas, conversations, and questions that matter most.Connect with John R. MilesWebsite: johnrmiles.comSpeaking and Events: Book John to SpeakSubstack: The Ignited LifeChildren's Book: You Matter, LumaPassion Struck ResourcesPassion Struck Speakers: Discover speakers who inspire meaningful change.Passion Struck Speaking School: Develop your message and become a more impactful speaker.Passion Struck Podcast Network: Connect with a community committed to intentional living and personal growth.Support the Mattering MovementVisit Start MatteringEvery human deserves to feel seen, valued, and significant. Help make that belief visible. Wear it. Live it. Show it.Passion Struck with John R. MilesThe #1 Health & Fitness Podcast. More than 85 million downloads.DisclaimerPassion Struck is provided for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. Nothing shared on this podcast should be considered medical, mental health, or psychological advice, or a substitute for consultation with a qualified professional. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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  • The Hidden Reason We Fail to Eat Healthy and How to Fix It | Carleigh Bodrug - EP 842
    Nov 5 2026
    What if you don't have a motivation problem but a time problem?Most of us know we should eat healthier. But between work, family, responsibilities, and the demands of everyday life, preparing nourishing meals can feel like one more impossible task. When time runs out, convenience takes over, and the cycle of exhaustion, unhealthy choices, and frustration continues.In this episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles sits down with Carleigh Bodrug, founder of Plant You, bestselling cookbook author, and creator of a community helping millions make plant-based eating more approachable.Carleigh shares how her father's colon cancer diagnosis sparked her journey into plant-based cooking, why perfectionism can sabotage sustainable change, and how small, realistic adjustments can transform the way we nourish ourselves.Drawing from her new cookbook, Plant You Quickies (#1 New York Times Bestseller), Carleigh shares practical ways to eat healthier without spending hours in the kitchen, including her "Got This, Make That" approach to reducing food waste, simple meal-planning strategies, and SOS suppers that turn convenience foods into more nourishing meals.You'll also discover why fiber deserves far more attention, how plant diversity supports gut health, and why building a handful of dependable meals can be more powerful than following an elaborate diet.This conversation reminds us that taking care of yourself doesn't require a perfect routine. It requires choices that work for the life you're actually living.In this episode, you'll discover:Why healthy eating is often a time problem rather than a motivation problemHow small food changes can become sustainable habitsWhy fiber and plant diversity deserve more attentionHow to meal plan around the food you already haveHow to make healthier meals without spending hours cookingWhy perfectionism and shame can undermine behavior changeHow to get back on track when life disrupts your routinesCheck the full shownotes here.About Carleigh BodrugCarleigh Bodrug is the founder of Plant You, a bestselling cookbook author, and a leading voice in making plant-based cooking accessible and practical. Through her recipes, books, and online community, she helps millions discover approachable ways to eat more plants and build healthier habits.Explore her work at PlantYou.com and find her new cookbook, Plant You Quickies, wherever books are sold.Thank you to our sponsorsUncommon Goods: Discover unique, meaningful holiday gifts from independent artists and small businesses. Get 15% off your next order at uncommongoods.com/passionstruck.Shopify: It’s time to turn those “What Ifs” into SFX: CHA-CHING with Shopify today. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at SHOPIFY DOT COM SLASH passionstruck. Explore "The Mattering Effect"Get your copy of The Mattering EffectWhat happens when you spend so much of your life showing up for everyone else that you start to disappear from yourself? Take the 90-second diagnostic to discover whether you're experiencing the signs of unmattering.New to Passion Struck?Explore the Passion Struck Starter PacksNot sure where to begin? Discover curated episode collections designed to help you explore the ideas, conversations, and questions that matter most.Connect with John R. MilesWebsite: johnrmiles.comSpeaking and Events: Book John to SpeakSubstack: The Ignited LifeChildren's Book: You Matter, LumaSupport the Mattering MovementVisit Start MatteringEvery human deserves to feel seen, valued, and significant. Help make that belief visible. Wear it. Live it. Show it.Passion Struck with John R. MilesThe #1 Health & Fitness Podcast. More than 85 million downloads.DisclaimerPassion Struck is provided for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. Nothing shared on this podcast should be considered medical, mental health, or psychological advice, or a substitute for consultation with a qualified professional. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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    56 mins
  • Your Relationship With Food Is Really a Relationship With Yourself | Lee Cotton - EP 841
    Nov 3 2026

    What if the way you eat has less to do with food than with how you feel about yourself?

    For registered dietitian and author Lee Cotton, the path to understanding nutrition began with her own struggles with food and body image. In this conversation, she shares how those experiences shaped her work helping people develop healthier, more compassionate relationships with food—and why nourishment begins with recognizing that we matter.

    On Episode 841 of Passion Struck, John R. Miles and Lee explore the emotional stories, childhood messages, cultural pressures, and personal experiences that influence how we eat. They discuss the connection between food and self-worth, the impact of trauma and stress on eating behaviors, and why body image challenges can become especially complicated during perimenopause and menopause.

    Lee also explains the importance of mindful eating, realistic nutrition goals, listening to the body's signals, and resisting the idea that one diet or eating pattern works for everyone. Drawing on her work with people experiencing disordered eating and eating disorders, she emphasizes the importance of professional support, individualized guidance, and approaching food without unnecessary fear or shame.

    In This Episode, You'll Discover
    • Why our relationship with food is often a reflection of our relationship with ourselves.
    • How childhood food rules and family messages can shape eating behaviors well into adulthood.
    • The connection between self-worth, body image, and the desire to control food.
    • How stress, trauma, and difficult life experiences can influence eating patterns.
    • Why mindful eating starts with pausing, listening, and recognizing your body's signals.
    • How realistic nutrition goals and small changes can build sustainable momentum.
    • Why perimenopause and menopause can bring new challenges around body image, nourishment, and control.
    • Why the most important affirmation may be: You are worthy of nourishment.

    At the heart of the conversation is a powerful reminder: nourishment is about more than fueling the body. It expresses care, and everyone deserves it.

    As Lee puts it: You are worthy of nourishment.

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    Passion Struck is provided for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. Nothing shared on this podcast should be considered medical, mental health, or psychological advice, or a substitute for consultation with a qualified professional.


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    57 mins
  • The Tapes You’re Still Playing: How to Rewrite the Stories That Hold You Back | John R. Miles - EP 840
    Oct 30 2026

    What if the story you've been telling yourself about who you are was never really yours?

    In 1979, a collection of interviews with college students disappeared into the archives. Decades later, Harvard developmental psychologist Alexis Redding helped uncover the recordings—and found young people wrestling with many of the same questions we face today: Who am I? Where do I belong? Am I doing enough?

    On Episode 840 of Passion Struck, John R. Miles connects Redding's discovery with insights from author Jon Acuff on procrastination, identity, and the mental soundtracks that keep us stuck. Together, their ideas reveal how family expectations, schools, workplaces, and influential people can shape beliefs we carry long after the original moment has passed.

    From the pressure to appear effortlessly successful to the childhood labels that limit our ambitions, this episode explores how we can mistake an old message for an enduring truth.

    John introduces The Tape Check, a three-question exercise to help you identify the belief you're replaying, understand where it came from, and test whether it still holds up. Drawing on the Wright brothers' willingness to question accepted data, he shows why small experiments can be more powerful than simply trying to think positively.

    Because you may not have chosen every story that shaped you—but you can decide what plays next.

    In This Episode, You'll Discover
    • What decades-old student recordings reveal about the beliefs and pressures that persist across generations.
    • How family, school, and workplace environments shape the stories we tell ourselves.
    • Why labels like “not a natural leader” can influence decisions for decades.
    • How perfectionism and the pressure to look successful can keep people from taking meaningful risks.
    • Why procrastination can begin with identity beliefs before showing up in our actions.
    • How to use the three-question Tape Check to challenge an inherited belief.
    • Why small experiments can help you discover what you're capable of without committing to a lifelong path.
    • How sharing the messy middle of your own story can help someone else rewrite theirs.
    The Big Idea

    The beliefs that shape your life may have originated in a room you left years ago. Recognizing where they came from gives you the opportunity to question them, test them, and choose a different way forward.

    You can't unhear it once you've heard it. And you get to decide what plays next.

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    26 mins
  • Procrastination Expert: The Real Reason You Keep Getting in Your Own Way | Jon Acuff - EP 839
    Oct 29 2026
    What if procrastination isn't a problem with your time, but a problem with what you believe you're capable of doing?You know what you want to change. You have ideas, ambitions, and goals. Yet somehow, you keep waiting for the right moment, the perfect plan, or the confidence to begin.On this episode of Passion Struck, I sit down with Jon Acuff, bestselling author of Procrastination Proof, to explore why so many capable people get stuck between intention and action. Drawing on his work helping people overcome procrastination and build more remarkable lives, Jon explains how fear, perfectionism, comparison, and the stories we tell ourselves can quietly limit what we attempt. We also discuss why the desire to do something meaningful often creates the discipline needed to pursue it, rather than the other way around.In this conversation, you'll discover:Why procrastination isn't just a time-management problem: Jon defines it as the gap between your intentions and your actions.How fear disguises itself as preparation: Why overthinking, perfectionism, and waiting for the perfect starting point can keep you stuck.The power of giving yourself permission: How remarkable people learn to talk themselves into trying instead of talking themselves out of it.The four permissions: How to dream, plan, do, and review your way toward meaningful goals.Why identity shapes action: How beliefs such as “I'm not a writer” or “I'm not a natural leader” can become limitations we carry for decades.How comparison makes you feel behind: Why someone else's success doesn't mean your own opportunities have passed.The signs you carry through life: How messages from parents, teachers, and coworkers can shape what you believe you're allowed to achieve.Why believing you matter changes what you attempt: How small wins can restore a sense of agency and help you move beyond the soundtrack of “Why bother?”How to discover what motivates you: Why Jon recommends auditioning a goal for 15 minutes a day over seven days instead of waiting for a perfect life plan.Jon also shares the advice that helped him expand his own ambitions, why he believes we often underestimate our potential, and how to build a life that feels rich across career, finances, relationships, health, and fun.You don't need to have your entire future figured out before you begin. You need to identify the next step you're willing to take, give yourself permission to try, and learn from what happens.Check out the full show notes. Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/. Take the 90-second diagnostic to see if you're disappearing.Explore the Show: https://passionstruck.com/starter-packs/. New to Passion Struck? Start with the best episodes curated for you.Connect with JohnWebsite: https://johnrmiles.comBook John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it.Passion Struck — #1 Alternative Health Podcast. 85M+ downloads.DisclaimerThe Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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    52 mins
  • Harvard Psychologist: College Students Have Always Struggled. So What Has Changed? | Alexis Redding – EP 838
    Oct 27 2026
    What if today's young people aren't as different from previous generations as we think?When Alexis Redding and her colleagues uncovered interviews with college students from the 1970s, they found familiar stories of loneliness, academic pressure, family expectations, and uncertainty about the future.In this episode of Passion Struck, the Harvard developmental psychologist and editor of Mental Health in College: What Research Tells Us About Supporting Students explores what has changed across generations, why belonging matters to student well-being and success, and how parents, educators, and institutions can create environments where young adults feel seen, heard, valued, and encouraged.Together, Miles and Redding examine the pressure to achieve, the myth of effortless perfection, the importance of student voices, and why learning to pivot may be one of the most valuable skills young adults can develop.In This Episode, You'll DiscoverWhat archival recordings reveal about the similarities between college students across generations.Why blaming “kids these days” gets in the way of meaningful solutions.How belonging influences academic performance, help-seeking, persistence, and graduation.Why colleges need a campus-wide culture of care—not just a crisis-response model.How parents and educators can share their own failures and uncertainties to help young people feel less alone.Why perfectionism and achievement pressure make it harder for students to take risks and explore.How small changes in language can encourage curiosity rather than prescribe a single path.Why career pivots and reinvention are normal parts of adulthood, not signs of failure.The Bigger IdeaYoung people don't need adults to pretend that life follows a predictable path. They need environments where they can struggle, ask for help, take risks, and learn to find their way. When students feel that they belong, they have more freedom to grow.Alexis Redding's work reminds us that the question isn't simply what's wrong with young people. It's what we can change about the environments surrounding them. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexisredding/Get the full show notes here. Explore "The Mattering Effect"Get your copy of The Mattering EffectWhat happens when you spend so much of your life showing up for everyone else that you start to disappear from yourself? Take the 90-second diagnostic to discover whether you're experiencing the signs of unmattering.New to Passion Struck?Explore the Passion Struck Starter PacksNot sure where to begin? Discover curated episode collections designed to help you explore the ideas, conversations, and questions that matter most.Connect with John R. MilesWebsite: johnrmiles.comSpeaking and Events: Book John to SpeakSubstack: The Ignited LifeChildren's Book: You Matter, LumaSupport the Mattering MovementVisit Start MatteringEvery human deserves to feel seen, valued, and significant. Help make that belief visible. Wear it. Live it. Show it.Passion Struck with John R. MilesThe #1 Health & Fitness Podcast. More than 85 million downloads.DisclaimerPassion Struck is provided for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. Nothing shared on this podcast should be considered medical, mental health, or psychological advice, or a substitute for consultation with a qualified professional. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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    59 mins
  • 3 Questions to Stop Letting Other People Define Your Worth | John R. Miles - EP 837
    Oct 23 2026
    What happens when the next achievement matters more than the one you just reached?Even after The Mattering Effect landed on the USA Today bestseller list, John caught himself immediately checking where it might rank on the NYT bestseller list. That instinct revealed how deeply conditioned even the most intentional leaders are to let external scorecards dictate internal worth.In this solo series finale, John connects the dots across three essential conversations:Dr. Nir Halevy (Stanford): How tournament theory and stacked rankings pull teams apart and breed learned helplessness.Dr. Kristin Neff (UT Austin): How the environment's scorecard moves inside your head as a ruthless inner critic—and why self-compassion provides the safe soil for true agency.Heather Monahan: What it looks like to recognize you built your own cage, stop shrinking yourself, stand tall, and know when to change your room versus change your mindset.Drawing on a timeless parable from Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s The Little Prince, John examines our cultural obsession with "the figures" and delivers The Blueprint Check: a concrete, three-question diagnostic framework to run on your workplace, your social feeds, and your daily life.Key TakeawaysThe Scorecard Trap: Why rankings, quotas, and follower counts tell us where we stand relative to others—but not who we are.Tournament Theory at Work: How outsized rewards for top performers can fuel destructive competition, while others disengage or begin to experience what Martin Seligman called learned helplessness.Self-Esteem vs. Self-Compassion: Why constantly evaluating yourself keeps you on the achievement treadmill, while self-compassion helps you respond to setbacks with greater clarity and agency.The Worcester Academy Realization: How Heather Monahan discovered that the room hadn't changed—her perception of herself had—and why it's equally important to recognize when a genuinely toxic environment needs to change.The Three-Part Move: How to reclaim agency by changing your response, working to change the environment, or leaving a system that refuses to change.Your worth was never meant to be a number on someone else's scorecard. The goal isn't to stop measuring your progress. It's to stop confusing your performance with your value as a person.Click here for the full show notes. Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/. Take the 90-second diagnostic to see if you're disappearing.Explore the Show: https://passionstruck.com/starter-packs/. New to Passion Struck? Start with the best episodes curated for you.Connect with JohnWebsite: https://johnrmiles.comBook John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it.Passion Struck — #1 Alternative Health Podcast. 85M+ downloads.DisclaimerThe Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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  • Why You Keep Doubting Yourself and How to Rebuild Your Confidence | Heather Monahan - EP 836
    Oct 22 2026

    What happens when you spend years proving yourself, only to find that the people around you are making you question your worth?

    Heather Monahan knows that experience firsthand. After rising to the C-suite as a chief revenue officer, she was fired from the company where she had built a successful career. Instead of hiding what happened, she shared it publicly, asked for help, and began building something new.

    In this conversation, Heather explains why confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build through the decisions you make, the risks you take, and the way you respond when life doesn’t go according to plan.

    Together, we explore how to recognize toxic environments, stand up for yourself without losing your integrity, and stop letting other people’s judgments become your identity.

    In this episode, you’ll discover:

    • Why self-doubt can persist even when you’re successful.
    • How your environment can either strengthen your confidence or slowly erode it.
    • Why Heather believes you should never take a no from someone who can’t give you a yes.
    • What toxic workplace dynamics can cost you, and when it’s time to walk away.
    • How Heather turned being fired into a career-changing opportunity.
    • Why confidence is built through small actions, not one defining moment.
    • How to use fear as a signal to move forward instead of retreat.
    • How journaling can help you identify the beliefs and relationships holding you back.
    • Why setting boundaries is essential to protecting your growth.

    You don’t have to wait until you feel confident to make a change. You build confidence by taking the next step, especially when it scares you. And sometimes, the environment you’re afraid to leave is the very thing keeping you from becoming who you could be.

    Grab the full show notes here.

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    Pre-Order The Mattering Effect: https://matteringeffect.com/. Take the 90-second diagnostic to see if you're disappearing.

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    Connect with John

    • Website: https://johnrmiles.com
    • Book John to Speak: https://johnrmiles.com/speaking/
    • Substack: https://www.theignitedlife.net/
    • Children’s Book — You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/


    Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it.

    Passion Struck — #1 Alternative Health Podcast. 85M+ downloads.

    Disclaimer

    The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice.


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    59 mins