Ray and Parfait break down the five worst types of youth coaches and how bad coaching may be one of the leading reasons kids quit sports early. From daddy ball to toxic leadership, this episode explores how coaching shapes confidence, discipline, and long-term success for young athletes.

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In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait tackle a topic that hits harder than most men are willing to admit—friendship in adulthood.

Parfait shares a powerful experience reconnecting with lifelong friends during a meaningful golf tournament, reminding us what real brotherhood feels like when life slows down long enough to appreciate it. It’s more than nostalgia—it’s perspective.

Ray brings the other side of the conversation, opening up about something many men quietly deal with: not having that one person to call when life gets heavy. It’s honest, relatable, and something a lot of fathers—and men in general—don’t talk about enough.

Together, they break down:

• Why friendships change after marriage and kids
• The difference between old friends, new friends, and real friends
• How environments like sports, school, and the gym shape your circle
• Why many men feel isolated even when surrounded by people
• What it means to have friends who truly challenge and sharpen you

Built around the idea of Book of Proverbs 27:17 — “Iron sharpens iron”, this episode challenges you to evaluate your circle.

Do you have people in your life who make you better?

Or are you just staying comfortable?

This is a real conversation about brotherhood, growth, fatherhood, and finding your people again.

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In this powerful episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait sit down with guest Tony Maska for a deep, thought-provoking breakdown of Bible prophecy, the end times, and the true meaning of salvation.Tony Maska leads a comprehensive discussion connecting the Book of Revelation, the Book of Daniel, and Old Testament prophecy, revealing how these texts form a unified narrative about the end of the world. The conversation explores the end times timeline, including the rapture, tribulation, Antichrist, and the return of Jesus Christ, while clarifying common misconceptions that often confuse believers and skeptics alike.A central theme of the episode is the distinction between grace vs works, with Tony explaining how the Apostle Paul’s message of salvation through grace and faith differs from earlier biblical frameworks. This leads into a deeper discussion on dispensationalism, the “age of grace,” and why many believe we are currently living in a unique window of time where salvation is freely available to all.The episode also dives into advanced biblical concepts rarely discussed in mainstream conversations, including the divine council (spirit realm), the Tower of Babel, Psalm 82, and the role of spiritual forces influencing human history. By connecting ancient civilizations, false gods, and biblical accounts, Tony presents a compelling perspective on how spiritual rebellion parallels human history.Listeners will gain insight into the relationship between Daniel’s four kingdoms and Revelation’s beasts, the difference between the rapture and the second coming of Christ, and why the ultimate focus of Bible prophecy is not fear—but preparation and faith.Throughout the conversation, Tony challenges a common belief: that being a “good person” is enough for salvation. Instead, he emphasizes the biblical message that salvation comes through accepting Jesus Christ, understanding grace, and aligning with truth rather than relying on works alone.This episode is both intellectually engaging and spiritually grounded, offering a rare blend of biblical theology, historical context, and practical application. Whether you are exploring Christianity for the first time or seeking a deeper understanding of end times prophecy, Revelation explained, or the meaning of faith, this discussion delivers clarity, conviction, and perspective.If you’ve ever wondered what the Bible really says about the end times, the rapture, and your role in it—this episode is essential listening.✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & DiscountsTony Maska-anthonymaska@gmail.com💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #DadLife #NewDadOrder

In this episode of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray, Parfait, and returning guest Tony Maska, dive into a powerful conversation surrounding the Epstein files, global politics, and the growing questions around truth, power, and media narratives.The discussion begins with reactions to the Epstein documents and the frustration many feel about redacted information, missing details, and unanswered questions. Why do the files feel incomplete? Why are key names still hidden? The conversation explores the fear, legal pressure, and potential risks that may prevent victims from speaking out, even when given opportunities and support.From there, the episode expands into a broader discussion about power structures and influence. Tony shares insights from his background as an attorney, explaining how high-level individuals and institutions may operate behind the scenes, and why full transparency is often difficult to achieve.The conversation then shifts into global events, specifically the growing tensions involving Iran, U.S. foreign policy, and energy control. The hosts break down the connection between oil, economic strategy, and military decisions, questioning whether current events are driven by national security, financial interests, or a combination of both.A major theme throughout the episode is media trust. The hosts examine how narratives are shaped, how messaging can influence public perception, and whether Americans are being distracted from deeper issues happening both domestically and internationally.As fathers and leaders, Ray and Parfait bring the conversation back to its core purpose — understanding the world we live in so we can better guide the next generation. This episode challenges listeners to think critically, ask questions, and look beyond headlines to form their own informed perspectives.If you’re interested in the Epstein files, U.S. politics, Iran conflict, media influence, and real conversations about truth and accountability, this episode delivers a raw and thought-provoking discussion.✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & DiscountsTony Maska-anthonymaska@gmail.com💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#newdadorder #epsteinfiles #iran #iranisraelwar #trump

Why are kids quitting sports at record levels? In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons behind youth sports burnout—and what parents, coaches, and kids are getting wrong.From shocking statistics like 70% of kids quitting by age 13 to the pressure of travel sports, specialization, and rising costs, this conversation dives deep into the hidden factors driving kids away from sports. The guys also explore the difference between team sports vs individual sports, how identity and pressure impact young athletes, and whether quitting is ever the right decision.One of the most powerful moments in this episode centers around accountability—should a parent pull their child from a team for poor attitude, even if the team is winning?If you're a parent, coach, or athlete, this episode will challenge how you think about commitment, failure, and long-term development in youth sports.

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In this New Dad Order conversation, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons youth athletes walk away — from rising costs and travel ball pressure to divorce, scheduling conflicts, and parental influence.Is it burnout? Is it money? Or are parents unknowingly pushing kids out of sports?This episode dives into:The true cost of youth sports todayHow divorce and parenting schedules impact commitmentThe pressure kids face from adults and competitionWhy quitting looks different now vs the 80s and 90sWhen it’s okay to quit… and when it’s notIf you're a parent, coach, or former athlete — this is a conversation you need to hear.👇 Drop your experience in the comments — should kids be allowed to quit sports?✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #gymbags #DadLife #NewDadOrder

In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons kids are quitting youth sports at record levels. From travel ball burnout and parent pressure to time demands and the rise of gaming, we dive into what’s driving this trend—and whether quitting is always a bad thing.We also compare today’s youth sports culture to past generations, discuss rec vs travel vs school sports, and talk about the importance of motivation, coaching, and development.Is this a youth sports crisis—or just reality?#YouthSports #Parenting #KidsSports #NewDadOrder #sportsdebate 🧱 Time Stamp0:00 – Hook (STAT)0:30 – Intro (fast, minimal)1:00 – The Comparison (80s vs now)3:00 – Main Causes-Travel ball burnout-Parent pressure-Time demands7:00 – System Problems Rec vs travel Coaching differences9:00 – Debate Layer Is quitting actually bad?11:00 – Takeaway “Teach commitment… but allow growth”✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #gymbags #DadLife #NewDadOrder

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive deep into one of the biggest debates in youth sports today — should kids be allowed to quit?From travel baseball and soccer to burnout, pressure, and parenting philosophies, this conversation breaks down the real reasons kids walk away from sports. Is it lack of passion? Too much pressure? Or are we raising a generation that avoids hard things?Ray shares his firm rule: if you start something, you finish it — a mindset rooted in discipline, accountability, and long-term character building. Meanwhile, the discussion explores real-world scenarios where quitting might actually be the right move, including toxic coaches, unhealthy team environments, and talent mismatches.The episode also dives into:Travel sports culture and year-round commitmentBurnout risks for young athletesThe impact of parents and coaching environmentsWhen quitting is justified vs when it’s a mistakeHow sports build mental toughness and resilienceWhether you’re a parent navigating youth sports or a former athlete reflecting on your own journey, this episode will challenge your perspective and spark real conversations.👍 Like, Subscribe, and Comment your thoughts:Should kids finish what they start… or is quitting sometimes the right move?⏱️ UPDATED TIMESTAMPS 0:00 – Intro: Kids & Quitting Sports1:05 – Gym Talk & CrossFit (Relatable Hook)3:30 – Travel Sports Lifestyle Begins5:30 – Winning, Losing & Team Mindset7:30 – Burnout Concerns (Daily Practice)9:15 – “Have Your Kids Wanted to Quit?”11:00 – Finish What You Start Rule13:30 – When Quitting IS Acceptable16:00 – Toxic Coaches, Parents & Environment18:30 – Final Thoughts: Commitment vs Reality20:30 – Wrap Up ✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #gymbags #DadLife #NewDadOrder