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Making The Time: Well Being Through Compassionate Self-Care

Making The Time: Well Being Through Compassionate Self-Care

By: Pamela Van Nest
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What if self-care was less about another thing to “do” and more about becoming who you're meant to be?

Making The Time is a podcast for anyone who's ever felt the quiet pull to live more intentionally, more authentically — and wondered where to start.

In each episode, we go beyond the obvious and explore the full landscape of self-care: the emotional, the creative, the financial, the spiritual, the relational — and the parts of ourselves we don't always talk about. Guests bring their real-world wisdom and lived experience, sharing how caring for themselves in their area of expertise has transformed not just their own lives, but the lives of those around them, and beyond.

And woven through every conversation? The Making The Time oracle card deck — a tool for reflection that helps us name our inner wisdom, recognize what holds us back, and commit to meaningful action.

Because self-care isn't indulgence, it’s necessary. It's how we show up — for ourselves, and for everyone we love.

New episodes weekly. Mark your calendars, set the alarm.

Make the time.

2026 Pamela Van Nest
Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • LifeWork Self-Care episode 7
    Jun 24 2026

    In this episode of the Making the Time Podcast, Pam Van Nest explores the vital connection between self-care and life fulfillment with Lois Tuffin, a journalist, community builder, and passionate advocate for compassionate self-care. The conversation offers practical insights on balancing personal satisfaction with social contribution, the importance of vulnerability, and nurturing a mindset of boldness and creativity.

    keywords

    self-care, life work, boldness, volunteering, community, vulnerability, creativity, well-being, personal growth

    key topics

    Defining self-care and life work

    The importance of boldness and actualization

    Balancing work, volunteering, and self-care

    The significance of vulnerability and asking for help

    The impact of creativity on well-being

    key frameworks

    Self-care as a holistic approach

    The importance of internal dialogue and saboteurs

    The ripple effect of community engagement

    Titles

    The Power of Boldness in Self-Care and Community Impact

    How to Balance Life Work and Self-Care After 40

    sound bites

    "Speak up and stay true to your moral compass"

    "Be bold and stand up for what matters"

    "Solve problems rather than ruminate in stress"

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Compassionate Self-Care

    01:42 Defining Life Work and Self-Care

    06:26 The Importance of Relationships in Life Work

    08:27 Asking for Help and Vulnerability

    11:03 Overcoming Internal Obstacles to Self-Care

    14:46 Boldness and Actualizing Heart's Desires

    18:27 Embracing Change and Creativity

    22:28 Creating Ripples of Change in Community

    24:44 The Role of Creativity in Self-Care

    26:43 Storytelling and Authentic Connections

    resources

    Lois Tuffin on Substack - https://loistuffin.substack.com/

    Volunteer Peterborough - https://volunteerpeterborough.ca/

    Canadian Quilter Magazine -https://canadianquilter.com/

    guest links

    Substack - https://loistuffin.substack.com/

    LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/loistuffin/

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    29 mins
  • Digital Self-Care Episode 6
    Jun 17 2026

    Incorporating digital self-care into your routine is essential for maintaining your well-being in today's technology-driven world. By assessing your digital habits, setting boundaries, being mindful of content, limiting screen time, and embracing digital detoxes, you can enhance your overall quality of life. Remember, technology is a tool, not a lifeline—use it intentionally to support your self-care journey.

    In our fast-paced digital world, we often forget to check in with ourselves. Just like we nourish our bodies, we need to nourish our minds.

    Digital self-care isn't just a buzzword; it's about being intentional with our tech use. Are you mindlessly scrolling or actively engaging?

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    29 mins
  • Relationship Self-care/Community Episode 5
    Jun 10 2026

    In today's episode, we explore the delicate balance of self-care while being active in our communities. Janet McCloud shares her insights on how to nurture yourself while caring for others. From finding gratitude in daily moments to attending local events that not only feed your spirit but also support your community, it's all about making time for what matters.

    Remember, self-care isn't selfish—it's essential! Take those small steps and make a big difference in your life and the lives of those around you.

    Still figuring out how to balance caring for yourself and others? You're not alone! 💖

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    41 mins
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