• Breaking Free From Enmeshment: A Conversation with Therapist Lauren Auwood
    Feb 3 2026

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    In this episode, the hosts delve into the complex topic of enmeshment, particularly focusing on the dynamics between mothers and their sons. They explore the definition of enmeshment, its impact on individuality, and the blurred emotional boundaries that can arise in parent-child relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of fostering independence in children, recognizing the signs of enmeshment, and the necessity of setting healthy boundaries. The hosts also discuss the concept of parentification, where children take on emotional responsibilities that belong to their parents, and how this can lead to unhealthy family dynamics. Throughout the discussion, practical advice is offered for parents to navigate these challenges and promote healthier relationships within the family. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of parenting, particularly focusing on the themes of enmeshment, emotional dependencies, and the importance of establishing healthy attachments. They discuss the impact of these dynamics on family relationships and the necessity for parents to recognize their emotional placements on their children. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication and the practice of being uncomfortable in order to foster healthier family interactions. The speakers also provide actionable steps for parents to take in order to improve their relationships with their children and themselves.

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    33 mins
  • The Art of Being a Grandparent with Dee Dee Moore
    Jan 27 2026

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    In this episode of the Grey Roots podcast, host Kathy Eggers and guests DeeDee Moore, Kari Oakley-Miller, and Alecia Warneke discuss the nuances of grandparenting. They explore the importance of healthy relationships between grandparents and parents, the common mistakes made by grandparents, and the significance of communication and understanding in family dynamics. DeeDee shares insights from her experience as a grandparent and offers practical advice for building strong connections with both adult children and grandchildren. The conversation emphasizes the need for grandparents to support parents, cherish their grandchildren, and continuously learn and adapt in their roles.

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    33 mins
  • Navigating the MIL Role as a Mom of Only Boys with Shawn Helton
    Jan 20 2026

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    In this episode of Gray Roots, hosts Alecia Warneke, Kathy Eggers, and Kari Oakley Miller engage in a heartfelt conversation with guest Shawn Helton, a mother of two sons who recently became a mother-in-law. The discussion revolves around the unique dynamics of mother-son and mother-daughter relationships, particularly focusing on the challenges and joys of integrating daughters-in-law into the family. Shawn shares her experiences with her sons' relationships, the importance of building a strong rapport with her daughters-in-law, and the evolving role of a mother-in-law. The conversation highlights the significance of communication, understanding, and the shared experiences that come with family gatherings and celebrations.

    As the episode unfolds, the hosts and Shawn explore the differences in parenting boys versus girls, the emotional aspects of wedding planning, and the joy of creating new family traditions. They also touch on the importance of maintaining one's identity as a mother while embracing the new roles that come with having daughters-in-law. The episode concludes with reflections on the blessings of family and the excitement of future gatherings, emphasizing the importance of nurturing relationships across generations.


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    35 mins
  • Daughter-in-Law Stories
    Jan 13 2026

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    This conversation explores the experiences and insights of several daughters-in-law as they navigate their relationships with their mothers-in-law. The discussion covers preconceived notions, first impressions, the importance of honesty and communication, and the dynamics of family relationships. Each daughter-in-law shares personal stories, advice for newcomers, and what they appreciate about their mothers-in-law, highlighting the complexities and joys of these familial bonds.


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    59 mins
  • Yellow Butterflies: New Year, New Beginnings
    Jan 6 2026

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    Summary

    In this episode, the hosts discuss the theme of 'New Beginnings' for 2026, focusing on the difference between New Year's resolutions and intentions. They emphasize the importance of setting realistic goals, practicing gratitude, and fostering meaningful connections. The conversation explores the Butterfly Theory, the significance of a positive mindset, and the value of self-care and boundaries. The hosts encourage listeners to embrace being beginners in new experiences and to celebrate small progress throughout the year.


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    42 mins
  • A Conversation with a Therapist - Going No Contact
    Dec 9 2025

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    In this conversation, Alecia, Kari, and Kathy discuss with therapist, Lauren Auwood the process involved of going no contact and its impact on personal relationships, particularly marriage. She emphasizes the importance of taking time away from stressful situations to gain perspective and improve emotional well-being.


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    35 mins
  • Passing the Baton to the Next Generation
    Dec 2 2025

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    In this conversation, the hosts discuss the importance of passing the baton between generations, particularly focusing on the roles of mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law. They explore how family traditions and heritage can be preserved through open communication and healthy boundaries. The kitchen is highlighted as a space for teaching and learning, while the art of letting go is emphasized as crucial for maintaining strong family dynamics. The conversation also touches on the significance of kindness and preparation for future relationships, culminating in a call for meaningful conversations before marriage.


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    29 mins
  • Pushing Pause - Caring for YOU During this Holiday Season
    Nov 25 2025

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    In this episode of Gray Roods podcast, the hosts discuss the challenges and stressors that come with the holiday season, particularly focusing on Thanksgiving. They explore the importance of self-care, understanding the nervous system's response to stress, and practical tools to manage anxiety and expectations during family gatherings. The conversation emphasizes the significance of gratitude, lowering expectations, and prioritizing mental health to create a more enjoyable holiday experience.


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    26 mins