You love your teen. So why does it sometimes feel like the harder you try to help, the farther apart you become?

Most moms don’t struggle because they don’t care enough.They struggle because the communication habit that feels the most loving can unintentionally create the very distance they’re trying to avoid.

In this episode, we’re uncovering one of the biggest reasons conversations break down—not because your intentions are wrong, but because your communication style may be sending a message you never meant to send.

You’ll walk away with a fresh way to think about your conversations, practical communication skills you can begin using today, and one simple shift that will help you and your teen experience more understanding, safety, and trust.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why good intentions don’t always build connection.
• The communication habits many moms naturally fall into without realizing it.
• What your teen may actually be hearing beneath your words.
• One simple change that can help build trust and strengthen your relationship.

As moms, God’s given us a unique opportunity to shape the kind of relationship our teens carry with them into adulthood. We won’t do it perfectly, but every conversation is an opportunity to reflect His grace, patience, and love helping our teens feel seen, valued, and deeply loved.

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My heart is for you to leave with more clarity than you came with. More hope than you walked in with. And practical next steps you can use the very next time you talk with your teen.

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Every conversation with your teen starts before either of you says a word.

Most moms don’t realize what’s shaping those conversations—or why the same patterns keep repeating. If you’ve been trying to build connection and build trust, but still feel like you’re missing each other, there may be something happening long before the conversation even begins.

In this episode, you’ll discover a simple shift that can strengthen your communication skills, improve family communication, and deepen your relationship with your teen. It’s a perspective that can change the way you approach everyday teen communication this school year—before you ever say a word.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why communication begins long before either of you says a word.
• The hidden factor that shapes your tone, responses, and expectations.
• Why today’s behavior doesn’t have to define your teen.
• One simple prayer to help you build connection this school year.
• A memorable way to approach your next conversation with your teen.

As followers of Christ, we’re invited to see people the way God sees them—not defined by today’s struggles, but by who He is continuing to shape them into becoming. When we begin seeing our teens through that lens, our communication naturally becomes more grace-filled, hopeful, and life-giving.

What if one small shift in the way you see your teen could change the conversations you have all year long?

👉 Join us for our free monthly Connect With Your Teens Support Group, where you’ll find encouragement, practical coaching, and a community of moms who understand what you’re’re walking through. Reserve your spot at connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup.

I pray this episode blesses you!

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Have you been using the wrong scorecard to measure yourself as a mom?

Parenting teens is challenging and if you’ve ever wondered if you’re doing enough, you’re not alone. Building trust and connection during the teen years isn’t about getting every conversation right. Sometimes the greatest growth is happening in ways you can’t yet see.

In this episode, you’ll discover why your willingness to keep learning communication skills, seeking God’s wisdom, and showing up with love is one of the strongest signs you’re doing better than you think. If you’re looking for practical parenting tips to build connection, strengthen trust, and improve communication with your teen, encouragement is on the way so that you can see yourself—and your parenting—through God’s perspective instead of your own scorecard.

I pray this episode is a blessing to you and your family, reminding you that God is still at work in you—and that you’re doing far better than you think.

If you’d like personalized support as you navigate your unique situation, I’d be honored to walk alongside you through a one-on-one Communication Coaching Call. You can learn more and schedule your call at the link below.

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You love your teen and want the very best for them. So why do your conversations sometimes leave them feeling criticized, controlled, or misunderstood when your heart was trying to encourage, protect, and help?

Terri shares a powerful coaching story that reveals one of the biggest communication blind spots in parenting teens: the gap between our intentions and our teen’s experience and why they take what you say the wrong way. You’ll discover why your teen may react differently than you expect, how one simple perspective shift can strengthen communication with your teen, and a practical way to build trust with your teen while creating a deeper, lasting connection.

If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking, “That isn’t what I meant,” this episode is for you.

I pray it's a blessing to you and your family!

✨Ready for personalized support?

If you find yourself replaying conversations, wondering what went wrong, or wishing you knew how to respond differently, I’d love to help. In a 1:1 Communication Coaching Call, we’ll identify what’s creating distance, strengthen your communication, and create a personalized plan to help you build lasting connection and trust with your child.

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Join my free monthly support group for moms of teens — a safe, faith-led space for guidance, connection, and encouragement.

Learn more here: https://connectwithyourteens.com/supportgroup

🎧Would you like inspiring worship music to anchor you in your journey?

This is a collection of songs that have brought me peace and helped me anchor my heart in Christ. You can go straight to this link to get my Anchoring Spotify Playlist (no sign up required): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0pmOIQvAH6dibMmAxQzbGf?si=WZ8bE23YQfWdY5lbBM_2pA&nd=1&dlsi=e9c329d0073a4b3b

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What if one of the most frustrating things your teen says is actually an invitation… not a rejection? If you’ve ever heard, “You don’t understand,” this episode may completely change how you hear those words.

If your teen has ever said, “You don’t understand,” or shut down when you were trying your best to connect, this episode is for you. Sometimes the biggest breakthrough in teen communication isn’t finding the perfect words—it’s learning what your teen may really be asking for underneath the words they’re saying.

In this episode, I’ll help you see those frustrating conversations through a different lens so you can respond in a way that helps build connection, build trust, and create greater emotional safety in your relationship.

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• Why “You don’t understand” usually means something deeper
• One simple communication shift that can completely change the direction of a conversation
• How to use practical communication skills that help your teen feel heard
• Why understanding comes before influence in healthy family communication
• How small moments of connection today can strengthen your relationship for years to come

As followers of Christ, we’re called to listen with humility and value others above ourselves. When we choose to understand our teen before asking them to understand us, we begin reflecting the heart of Jesus—and that’s often where healing, trust, and connection begin.

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Have you found yourself replaying the conversation with your teen over and over, wondering what you could have said differently?

The truth is, helping your teen feel heard isn’t about having the perfect words. It’s about creating the kind of conversation where they feel safe enough to share what’s really on their heart. When teens feel heard, trust begins to grow—and where trust grows, connection and influence often follow.

In this episode, I’ll share a simple four-step conversation you can begin using today to strengthen your relationship with your teen, improve your communication skills, and build trust one conversation at a time.

• Why listening builds trust more effectively than rushing to solve the problem
• What Jesus modeled on the road to Emmaus that can transform your communication with your teen
• A practical way to build connection during everyday conversations
• The four-step conversation that helps your teen feel heard
• How helping your teen feel understood often leads to deeper, more meaningful conversations

As we look at the way Jesus walked alongside the disciples on the road to Emmaus, you’ll be encouraged to slow down, listen well, and trust that God can use your faithful presence to prepare your teen’s heart in ways you may not see right away.

Still replaying conversations in your mind? Wondering what to say or how to respond differently in your unique situation?

🎉 To celebrate the one-year anniversary of the Connect With Your Teens podcast, I’m offering a special anniversary rate on my 1:1 Communication Coaching Call through Sunday at midnight! If you’d love personalized guidance, practical Christ-centered communication tools, and a clear plan to help you reconnect with your teen, I’d be honored to walk alongside you.

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Why do you keep reacting the very way you promised yourself you wouldn’t?

Maybe your teen rolled their eyes, ignored you, or answered with “Whatever,” and before you knew it, your frustration took over. You weren’t trying to yell. You weren’t trying to make things worse. But somehow the conversation ended with both of you feeling hurt, misunderstood, and even more disconnected.

In this episode, you’ll discover that the real issue often isn’t your teen’s behavior or even the conversation itself. It’s what your reactions may be revealing about what’s happening in your own heart—and how God can meet you there so you can respond with greater peace, wisdom, and confidence.

You’ll learn:

• Why reacting usually starts long before the conversation begins.
• How your emotions can reveal what’s really driving your communication.
• Three practical steps to respond instead of react.
• Simple communication skills that help build connection and build trust with your teen.
• How an anchored heart leads to calmer, more effective teen communication.

As followers of Christ, we don’t have to parent from fear or carry the weight of changing our teens. God invites us to anchor ourselves in His presence, receive His peace, and respond with the wisdom and grace He promises to give. As our hearts change, our communication skills begin to change—and that opens the door for stronger relationships and lasting connection.

Are you ready to stop reacting and start building the relationship you’ve been praying for, I’d love to walk alongside you?

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Ever feel like you’re doing everything you know to build connection with your teen… but somehow you feel farther apart than ever?

Sometimes the biggest barrier to building connection isn’t a lack of love—it’s the assumptions we make before we’ve taken the time to truly understand what’s happening in our teen’s heart and life. Fear can quietly fill in the blanks, causing us to react instead of respond in ways that strengthen trust.

In this episode, I share a personal story about my oldest daughter that reminded me how easily fear and assumptions can keep us from truly understanding our teens—and how choosing curiosity instead can strengthen trust, connection, and communication.

You’ll discover why choosing curiosity over assumptions can transform your relationship and how small shifts in the way you communicate can lead to greater trust, deeper connection, and lasting influence.

In this episode you’ll discover:

• Why fear often shapes our conversations more than we realize.
• The simple communication shifts that helps build trust with your teen.
• How to choose understanding over agreement without giving up your values or boundaries.
• Practical communication skills that create emotional safety and stronger relationships.
• Why curiosity is one of the most powerful ways to build connection with your teen.

As followers of Christ, we don’t have to let fear determine how we respond. God invites us to bring our concerns to Him first, seek His wisdom, and love our teens the way He continually loves and pursues us—with grace, truth, and understanding.

Listen now, and discover how small shifts toward curiosity can begin changing the direction of your relationship with your child.

💛 I’d love to invite you to join our free monthly online Support Group on July 14th!

If you’re looking for encouragement, practical help, and a community of moms who understand what you’re walking through, we’d love to have you with us.

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More Resources:

✨ Want to work 1:1 with me?

Schedule a 60-Minute Communication Coaching Call, and let’s talk through your situation, identify what’s keeping you stuck, and create a clear path toward greater connection and trust with your child.

👉 https://connectwithyourteens.com/1-hour-communicationcoaching

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