This week, I share a slice-of-life experience fresh from becoming a grandfather—again. What do you do when the day unfolds in unexpected ways, and how do you decide what kind of experience you'll have? From waiting in the hospital with a bag of burgers to navigating the shifting schedules of new parents and growing families, I found myself reflecting on how we can choose our reactions, no matter what comes our way.

The heart of this episode is about agency—the power to select the experience we want, whether that's a day filled with joy, frustration, learning, or even a bit of introspection. I open up about supporting my daughter during her baby's arrival and embracing the role of quiet, unobtrusive encouragement. It's a reminder that sometimes the sweetest moments come from simply being present, letting others shine, and celebrating their journeys.

So as you dive into this week, consider what kind of day you want to have. Whether it's amazing or hard, there's goodness to be found in deciding for yourself how you'll experience each moment. And maybe, as the episode wraps up, you'll think of someone who could use a chocolate cake—or at least some kindness—today.

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This week, I dive into a question that’s sparked discussion both in my YSA Institute class and in my own study: What’s the real difference between doctrine, policy, practice, and commandments—and why does it matter for our faith? From stories in the Old Testament to examples drawn straight out of modern Latter-day Saint experience, I explore why putting our confidence in eternal, unchangeable truths (doctrine!) can create a stronger, more resilient foundation for our spiritual life.

If you’ve ever wondered why certain commandments and practices shift with time, but some truths never do, this episode is for you. We talk about how policies and commandments—like dietary laws or Sabbath customs—are designed to highlight deeper doctrines that never change, such as God’s love for His children and the importance of caring for our bodies as temples of the Spirit. It’s all about helping you find peace and clarity when church practices inevitably evolve.

So as you refocus for a new month, let’s dig deep and build our faith on those simple, profound doctrines at the heart of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I want to hear your thoughts—how do you keep your foundation strong when everything else seems to shift? Let’s keep the conversation going and, of course, don’t forget to share some chocolate cake with someone who needs a little sweetness today.

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In this reflective solo episode, Ken dives into the powerful idea that “nothing changes until something changes”—and that “something” is usually us. Drawing from personal experience, client conversations, and scriptural insight from the Book of Mormon about things to act and things to be acted upon, Ken challenges listeners to stop waiting for external circumstances, revelations, or perfect timing to transform their lives. Instead, he invites us to recognize the subtle “rules” we’ve accepted—beliefs that masquerade as obligations—and to question whether they truly serve us.

Ken explores how unexamined rules shape our behavior at work, at home, and in spiritual life. From the fear of appearing like a “job hopper,” to absorbing others’ stress by default, to believing church activity earns God’s love, he reveals how these stories can quietly limit our freedom and growth. The invitation is simple but profound: identify the rules you don’t have to follow, take ownership of who you want to become, and act accordingly—because the change you’re waiting for starts with you.

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