Jillian Ramirez Chaves’s life took an unexpected turn when she faced the painful discovery of infidelity by her soon to be fiance. This life altering experience shattered her self-confidence and left her questioning her ability to make healthy relationship choices. Refusing to let this define her, she embarked on a profound journey of healing, discovery, and personal growth. Jillian is a dynamic visionary who has pioneered transformative changes in the dating and relationship health landscape as the founder and CEO of Clara. For daters, she leads a revolution that empowers individuals to make informed purposeful choices in their dating lives. Her journey from a successful career in the male dominated automotive industry to becoming a trailblazing entrepreneur in the tech world is a testament to her resilience and passion. As a female minority founder and CEO, Jillian embodies the spirit of resilience and innovation. She is a staunch advocate for mental wellness in the context of dating, a subject often overlooked but of paramount importance in today's society. Her mission is to guide individuals in embracing intentional dating thereby enhancing their overall wellbeing.

What You Will Hear in This Episode:

2:30 - Jillian’s Personal Journey

10:20 - Bouncing back & finding your mission

20:45 - Jillian’s dating app, Clara for Daters

28:09 - Challenges for women in dating

Quotes

“I had to figure out how to learn from my mistakes and not let them happen again on an expedited level.”

“We have all these ways to meet people, dating apps, social media, yet we're still facing a loneliness epidemic because we're not actually converting them into social connections.”

“When it doesn’t work out that means that you learn something and you’re going to keep going.”

“Being hopeful is not a bad thing, but we have to be smart and hopeful”

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Mentioned:

• The Rules of Love by Jay Shetty

• Esther Perel

• Clara For Daters

• Instagram

• Jillian's Instagram

• Jillian's LinkedIn

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As a clinical psychologist, Dr. Joshua Klapow recognized a pattern of professional women attempting to navigate a workplace culture that was never set up for them to succeed. Inspired to affect change, Dr. Klapow re-focused his career and is making an impact in that culture through performance coaching. Dr. Klapow is a clinical psychologist, behavioral scientist, and performance coach who helps women in leadership positions leverage their unique style and build influence to successfully navigate the male dominated culture in which they work. Josh is a Phi Beta Kappa alumnus of University of California, L.A. with a Ph. D. in clinical psychology from UCLA San Diego. He's authored over 100 scientific publications and is the author of Living Smart:Lifestyle Change Made Simple. He's also the co-founder of Chip Rewards, a privately held company with proprietary software that delivers incentive offers to influence population health behaviors. The success of this venture led him to be one of the top entrepreneurs 2020 by Yahoo Business.

What You Will Hear in This Episode:

1:53 Dr. Klapow’s journey into performance coaching

5:47 Gender biases in corporate culture

10:09 Where the culture stands now,

18:51 Authenticity and humanity

23:18 Toxicity, insecurity and balance

33:23 The benefits of working with a male coach

Quotes

“ As a clinical psychologist, I can't unsee what I'm trained to see.”

“It's a no win situation because we're asking you to be “more like men”, but when you are, that scene is threatening.”

“I see a lot of women that I work with who absolutely get lost because they are literally forced to play all of these different roles, many of which are not true to their own persona.”

“We all have these different personas that are who we are.”

“ There are a lot of scared men, this is part of the problem, who are in leadership positions who have no clue how to be. They have all the power in the world in that organization, and they don't know how to leverage it in a supportive way because they're insecure.”

“Look for the healthy psychology or psychological adjustment in the person. Not necessarily the gender.”

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Mentioned:

mentaldrive.com

Mental Drive (Facebook)

Mental Drive (Instagram)

Mental Drive (TikTok)

Dr. Joshua Klapow (LinkedIn)

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Sparked by the tragic loss of her father, Judy Wilkins Smith set out on an unexpected journey as a writer that developed into much more. Judy is a highly regarded Family Patterns, Systemic Work, constellations expert, transformational coach, motivational speaker, and author who is passionate about individual growth, visionary leadership, and positive, accelerated, global change. The Founder of System Dynamics for Individuals and organizations, she has 18 years of expertise assisting high-performance individuals, Fortune 500 executives (Chevron, JP Morgan, Kellogg's, ExxonMobil), and legacy families end limiting cycles and create lasting breakthroughs and transitions into peak performance. She is a regular guest on TV news and entertainment shows and is the author of Decoding Your Emotional Blueprint: A Powerful Guide to Transformation Through Disentangling Multigenerational Patterns.

What You Will Hear in This Episode:

1:55 Judy’s personal story

5:20 Constellation work defined

12:26 What we can learn about money from our generational DNA.

15:33 Our relationship with money

19:49 Gender and money

26:55 Common blocks regarding our relationship with money

Quotes

”Money is not a commodity, it is a relationship, and the way you show up for money is the way it will show up for you.”

“It’s really creating the environment to have a healthy relationship with money that opens up the ability for money to flow to you.”

“You've gotta invest in money, if you want money to invest in you.”

“When you start to realize that you are valuable and you can add value and you have something to give and you offer it, the money will flow.”

“You are as valuable as you think you are.”

Mentioned:

JudyWilkins-Smith.com

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Gendered Ageism Survey Results

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