In this episode, we’re simply catching you up on life lately.

We share a school update, some emotional struggles that were unexpected during a planned psych meeting, and the realities of navigating challenges that many autism families will understand. We also chat about sleep (because when is sleep not part of the conversation?), our latest adventures creating stuffies, and one of those surprisingly deep discussions about what happens after I die.

It’s a little bit serious, a little bit funny, a little bit random—and a very honest look at what’s been happening behind the scenes.

Thanks for spending some time with us.

Before kids, we were perfect parents… at least in our heads.

In this episode of Autism Unmuted, we’re talking about all the things we swore we would NEVER do as parents — co-sleeping, relying on screens, negotiating with toddlers, leaving places mid-meltdown, making separate meals… and how autism parenting completely changed our perspective.

This episode is funny, honest, relatable, and a reminder that parenting isn’t about looking perfect — it’s about doing what works for your child and your family.

We’re sharing the rules we let go of, the judgments we outgrew, and the ways autism parenting taught us flexibility, compassion, and survival.

If you’ve ever caught yourself saying “I never thought I’d be this parent…” this episode is for you.

There are so many “rules” that come with autism parenting that nobody ever talks about… but somehow, parents all end up learning them.
Rules like always knowing where the exits are. Never assuming a quick trip will actually be quick. Understanding that recovery time is just as important as the outing itself. Celebrating things other people might never even notice.
In this episode, we talk about the unspoken survival rules autism parents slowly learn through love, adaptation, exhaustion, and experience. The things that become second nature when you’re raising a child with different sensory needs, routines, emotions, and ways of experiencing the world.
Some parts are funny. Some are emotional. Most are deeply relatable.
If you’ve ever felt like autism parenting comes with an invisible handbook nobody gave you… this episode is for you.

Sleep struggles in autistic households are often misunderstood.

In this episode, we’re talking honestly about what autistic sleep can actually look like — the middle-of-the-night wakeups, the sensory overload, the nervous systems that won’t switch off, and the parents quietly surviving on broken sleep while still showing up every day.

This isn’t a conversation about perfect routines or quick fixes. It’s about regulation, co-regulation, exhaustion, and the emotional reality of parenting through sleepless nights.

If you’ve ever felt alone at 2am, questioned yourself, or wondered why sleep feels so much harder in your home… this episode is for you.

You’re not failing.
And you’re definitely not the only one awake.

It can feel like everything is going fine… and then suddenly it isn’t.

In this episode, we’re talking about why those moments aren’t actually random. What looks like one small trigger is often a buildup of things happening underneath the surface—sensory overwhelm, transitions, expectations, and more.

We break down what’s really “filling the cup,” why meltdowns can feel so sudden, and how understanding the build-up can shift the way you respond in those moments.

If you’ve ever sat there thinking “what just happened?”—this one’s for you.

What does it actually feel like to be “always on edge” as a parent?
In this episode, we’re talking about the reality of living in a constant state of readiness—the kind that doesn’t come from anxiety, but from experience. The quiet scanning, the mental load, the way your nervous system never fully switches off… even on the good days.
We get into what “walking on eggshells” really means, why it’s so often misunderstood, and how parenting in this space isn’t about being overly cautious—it’s about being deeply attuned.
Because when you know your child the way we know Clark, you start to see the smallest shifts before anyone else does.
This episode is honest, raw, and grounded in the in-between—where love, exhaustion, connection, and survival all exist at the same time.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly bracing, adjusting, or carrying more than people can see… this one’s for you.

*Sorry the sound in this episode isn’t great, it gets better in further episodes**

The questions are asked causally.

But they don't land casually.

In this episode, we're responding to some of the comments parents of neurodivergent children hear.

And- what is missing when they ask them.

This episode is a look at the weight behind the words.. and the reality most people don't see.