Do segulos really work? Can they guarantee a yeshuah? And how do we distinguish a genuine segulah from superstition?

From red strings and chai rotel to 40-day practices, visiting kivrei tzaddikim and paying others to daven on our behalf, segulos have become a familiar part of Jewish life. But where do these practices come from, what is their basis in Torah and Halachah, and how are they actually supposed to work?

In this fascinating and thought-provoking episode, Dayan Hool explores the origins, legitimacy and misconceptions surrounding segulos, including some surprising distinctions between accepted Jewish practices and forbidden superstitions.

And perhaps the biggest question of all: Are segulos a meaningful part of Yiddishkeit, or have we become so focused on finding shortcuts to a yeshuah that we're missing the point?

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction: What are segulos?

01:55 Defining segulos and distinguishing them from superstition

05:24 How mitzvos can bring specific rewards

09:02 Longevity and consistency in mitzvos

13:02 Rosh Hashanah simanim and symbolic foods

20:08 Kabbalah, false mystics, and exaggerated promises

28:04 Distinguishing healing practices from superstition

34:17 Red threads and their sources

37:37 Tehillim for someone who is ill

42:43 Paying others to daven and the role of tzedakah

47:50 The significance of forty days and a Kotel story

52:34 Rabbi Meir Baal Haness and lost objects

55:40 Providing food and drink as a segula

58:58 Segulos surrounding fertility and childbirth

01:04:04 Sandek and bris-related customs

01:04:28 Why a segula does not guarantee results

01:08:42 Prioritizing mitzvos and practical responsibilities

01:14:43 Final advice: how to evaluate a segula

We see a hechsher on a product and rarely stop to think about what it actually took to put it there.

In this episode, Mena Reisner is joined by Rabbi Yisroel Moshe Guttentag, Director of Certification and FedTech at KF Kosher, to go behind the scenes of modern kashrus.

What does a mashgiach really look for when walking through a factory? How do you certify products being manufactured across multiple countries, using complex ingredients, shared machinery and global supply chains? And why can foods that appear completely straightforward turn out to be anything but?

Rabbi Guttentag takes us inside the world of industrial kashrus — from ingredients and production equipment to factory inspections, dedicated machinery and the surprising problems that can emerge along the way. He explains how the level of supervision is determined, what goes into certifying major international food manufacturers, and why understanding how our food is actually made is so important.

We also explore the crucial distinction between a product that is “Certified” and one that is simply “Approved” — and what consumers should understand when relying on either.

A fascinating look at the extraordinary amount of work happening behind the scenes of something we encounter every single day: kosher food.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction

02:07 – Today’s topic: What really happens behind a hechsher

03:52 – What does a kosher certification actually certify?

14:08 – Which foods really need a hechsher?

16:43 – Gummy sweets, gelatin and dedicated kosher equipment

25:52 – Steam systems and hidden cross-contamination

33:11 – International ingredients and cooperation between kosher agencies

44:29 – Wrigley’s chewing gum, gum base and factory codes

49:21 – Red Bull and multinational kosher certification

55:55 – Why canned tuna can require supervision

63:14 – Fruit juice, grape juice and shared pasteurizing equipment

71:26 – Certified vs. approved kosher products

77:09 – When approved kosher lists may be relied upon

81:24 – Ice pops and choosing certified products

85:10 – Closing thoughts on modern kashrus

Timestamps:

• [00:00] – Introduction; Elul Part 2 and Rosh Hashanah focus
• [00:39] – Rosh Hashanah as Yom HaDin and Yom Tov; fear vs simcha
• [05:23] – No vidui/confession in Rosh Hashanah davening
• [09:08] – Being “Mamluch Hashem” and defining essence as avdei Hashem
• [09:40] – Personal requests on Rosh Hashanah and “Hashem’s payroll”
• [13:06] – What shofar accomplishes; wake-up call and the Satan
• [18:13] – How shofar “confuses” the Satan; teshuva me’ahavah
• [19:32] – Why no shofar when Rosh Hashanah is on Shabbos
• [23:24] – Zechroinos/Yom Hazikaron – what Hashem is “remembering”
• [27:05] – From Rosh Hashanah to Aseres Yemei Teshuva
• [28:20] – What’s unique about Aseres Yemei Teshuva and beinonim
• [31:07] – What makes Yom Kippur so holy (kedusha)
• [34:06] – How Yom Kippur teshuva differs from year-round teshuva
• [37:18] – Bein adam lechaveiro: mechilah before Yom Kippur
• [42:26] – “I’m mochel everyone” – how that works
• [42:48] – Kol Nidrei and the power of speech
• [46:41] – Ne’ilah: final opportunity and special status
• [51:38] – After Yom Kippur: confidence and simcha
• [54:28] – Final message: “Ashreichem Yisrael” and closing

As the Three Weeks give way to the Nine Days and Tisha B'Av, Jewish life changes dramatically. The music stops, celebrations become more restrained, and we begin mourning the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash.

But what are we actually meant to be feeling? Why should we mourn something that happened nearly 2,000 years ago? What was truly lost, and what is the avodah of these weeks?

In this episode, Rabbi Zimmerman explores the meaning behind the Three Weeks, the real definition of sinas chinam, what it means to believe in the Geulah, how to approach Tisha B'Av, and how each of us can play a part in bringing the rebuilding of the Beis Hamikdash closer.

A timely and practical conversation to help transform the Three Weeks from a period we simply observe into one we genuinely understand.

Timestamps:

[0:01:46]–[0:06:31] – Three Weeks as opportunity, not just restriction [0:04:40]–[0:06:31] – Halacha as a “license” to mourn and yearn for Yerushalayim [0:06:31]–[0:09:11] – Avodah when you don’t “feel” the Churban [0:09:20]–[0:11:18] – Halachic framework of aveilus enabling everyone to mourn [0:11:28]–[0:14:27] – Churban as current reality, not only history [0:14:27]–[0:20:54] – What sinas chinam really is and how to work on it [0:23:18]–[0:28:05] – Torah: beyond “how-to” — valuing Torah itself [0:28:05]–[0:35:42] – Growing necessity and role of tefillah today [0:35:42]–[0:43:43] – Belief in and daily anticipation of Geulah/Moshiach [0:43:43]–[0:50:35] – How our broken generation can still bring Geulah [0:51:00]–[0:53:46] – Purpose of the Tisha B’Av fast: teshuvah like Yom Kippur [0:53:54]–[1:00:47] – Using kinnot and modern tragedies to understand and repair [1:00:47]–[1:02:13] – Personal bakashos and their root in geulah consciousness [1:02:33]–[1:07:24] – How to approach Tisha B’Av day; the Kaddish mashal [1:08:00]–[1:11:45] – Building ahavas Yisrael by expanding the self [1:11:45]–[1:16:12] – Shabbos Nachamu and the nature of nechama [1:16:50]–[1:18:39] – Final message: mourning as immediate kirvas Hashem

Can you leave your job and take your clients with you? If you transform your father's business, who really owns that success? When does healthy competition cross the line, and can schools or businesses actively poach staff?

In this episode of Asking for a Friend, Dayan Posen explores some of the most practical and misunderstood areas of Choshen Mishpat. From employees and employers to family businesses, partnerships and competition, we examine where halacha draws the line between legitimate business practice and unfair conduct.

Whether you're an employee, employer, business owner or simply interested in Torah's approach to business ethics, this episode offers practical guidance on navigating the workplace with integrity, fairness and emunah.

Timestamps:

**00:00–02:10** – Intro to the podcast, new Cheish Mishpat series, and definitions of *oni ha‑mehapech* & *hasagas gevul*.

**02:38–03:47** – Core scenario: Reuven the long‑term employee vs Shimon the employer; ultimatum of partnership or leaving with clients.

**05:58–08:10** – Employee’s mindset: “I built this; I want to own something for my family.”

**08:10–10:46** – “Partner in profits” explained as **commission, not real ownership**; crop‑share analogy.

**10:46–13:22** – Pros and cons of profit‑share: good incentive but no true security or equity.

**13:22–16:54** – Leaving and taking clients: contracts, non‑compete/non‑solicit; whose clients are they?

**16:54–22:22** – Source and nature of *oni ha‑mehapech* in Chazal; being called a *rasha*; public “naming and shaming” in theory.

**23:47–29:08** – Practical application: approaching former employer’s clients, direct vs indirect; general advertising vs targeted contact.

**29:08–32:36** – WhatsApp status, circulars, email farewell messages – what’s allowed, what’s too direct.

**32:36–35:12** – Employers’ fear of training someone who later “takes the business”; possibility of halachic contracts.

**35:12–42:08** – Poaching rabbeim/teachers; *metziah* concept; Ashkenazi vs Sefardi angles; *ba’al nefesh yachmir*.

**42:08–48:02** – Fisherman/net story; when competition crosses into destroying someone’s parnassa.

**48:02–56:22** – *Hasagas gevul* today: normal competition vs wiping out a niche business; monopolies and community benefit.

**57:25–01:04:52** – Family business case: child grows parents’ business, ownership, siblings, and inheritance tensions.

**01:04:52–01:09:07** – Children asking parents about expectations; importance of written clarity in family businesses.

**01:09:07–01:13:19** – Closing hashkafa: *nasata v’nasata be’emunah*, link to learning the halachos, business as a daily arena for emunah.

Electric scooters have become a familiar sight in many communities. For some, they're a convenient way to get to school, shiurim, friends' houses and local activities. For others, they're a growing source of concern.

In this special mini episode, Rabbi S F Zimmerman addresses one of the most discussed topics affecting children, teenagers and parents today.

Are electric scooters simply a modern convenience, or is there a deeper issue at stake? How should parents respond when "everyone in the class has one"? Who bears responsibility – parents, schools, rabbonim, or the wider community? And what should a family do if a child has already spent hundreds of pounds of Bar Mitzvah money on a scooter?

A concise but important discussion offering Daas Torah and practical guidance on a topic generating debate across the UK, the USA and beyond.

Sponsored anonymously by someone who believes this episode could save lives.

When King Charles III recently visited Golders Green, hundreds of members of the local Jewish community lined the streets to catch a glimpse of the monarch. The visit sparked widespread discussion: why does Yiddishkeit place such importance on kings and royalty, and what is the Torah perspective on monarchy in the modern world?

In this special episode, Dayan Hool explores the halachic and hashkafic questions raised by the King's visit. Can one make a brachah upon seeing King Charles? Should a person make a special effort to see a king? What is the concept of כבוד מלכות? Can one shake the King's hand? And why is Hashem so often described throughout our tefillos as a King?

Drawing on sources from Chazal, Halachah and Jewish history, this fascinating discussion sheds light on a topic that captured the attention of so many in the community and reveals what earthly kingship can teach us about מלכות שמים.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro: King Charles visits Golders Green

01:09 – Why frum Jews are excited to see a king

03:17 – The brocha on seeing Jewish and non‑Jewish monarchs

06:03 – Does the brocha apply to King Charles III and presidents?

09:50 – Can a monarchy be abolished? Acceptance by the people

16:14 – Seeing the king from afar: entourage, cars, and the brocha

22:31 – How often can you say the brocha on a king?

23:33 – Must you go out to see a king? Bitul Torah and mitzvah

29:30 – Kavod malchus: honoring even non‑Jewish and wicked kings

36:13 – Shaking hands with royalty: halacha and real‑world strategies

43:28 – Praying for the welfare of the kingdom in golus

50:29 – Queen Wilhelmina and the Munkatcher Rebbe

54:23 – Dutch royalty, Rav Katz, and modern royal brachos

1:00:00 – Why we call Hashem “Melech”: kindness and authority

1:04:06 – Dina de’malchusa dina and UK land law

1:05:20 – Closing: Malchus shel chesed and Malchus Shamayim