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Asking For A Friend - Timely Issues. Timeless Torah.

Asking For A Friend - Timely Issues. Timeless Torah.

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Summary

Asking For A Friend is a podcast where real life dilemmas meet clear, thoughtful Torah perspective.

Hosted by Mena Reisner, each episode features conversations with Rabbi Zimmerman, Dayan Hool, or Dayan Posen, Rabbonim with decades of experience in mediation, dinei Torah, shidduchim, family dynamics, business disputes, and the complex situations people face every day.

It’s not personal psak and it’s not a shiur.
Just honest, grounded discussion on the issues people grapple with behind closed doors, and how timeless Torah principles guide us through them.

New episodes every two weeks.
Questions or suggestions: podcast@federation.org.uk.

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Episodes
  • #22: Segulos: What's Real and What's Not? - With Dayan Hool
    Oct 25 2026

    Do segulos really work? Can they guarantee a yeshuah? And how do we distinguish a genuine segulah from superstition?

    From red strings and chai rotel to 40-day practices, visiting kivrei tzaddikim and paying others to daven on our behalf, segulos have become a familiar part of Jewish life. But where do these practices come from, what is their basis in Torah and Halachah, and how are they actually supposed to work?

    In this fascinating and thought-provoking episode, Dayan Hool explores the origins, legitimacy and misconceptions surrounding segulos, including some surprising distinctions between accepted Jewish practices and forbidden superstitions.

    And perhaps the biggest question of all: Are segulos a meaningful part of Yiddishkeit, or have we become so focused on finding shortcuts to a yeshuah that we're missing the point?

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Introduction: What are segulos?

    01:55 Defining segulos and distinguishing them from superstition

    05:24 How mitzvos can bring specific rewards

    09:02 Longevity and consistency in mitzvos

    13:02 Rosh Hashanah simanim and symbolic foods

    20:08 Kabbalah, false mystics, and exaggerated promises

    28:04 Distinguishing healing practices from superstition

    34:17 Red threads and their sources

    37:37 Tehillim for someone who is ill

    42:43 Paying others to daven and the role of tzedakah

    47:50 The significance of forty days and a Kotel story

    52:34 Rabbi Meir Baal Haness and lost objects

    55:40 Providing food and drink as a segula

    58:58 Segulos surrounding fertility and childbirth

    01:04:04 Sandek and bris-related customs

    01:04:28 Why a segula does not guarantee results

    01:08:42 Prioritizing mitzvos and practical responsibilities

    01:14:43 Final advice: how to evaluate a segula

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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • #21: Kosher: What Really Happens Behind the Scenes? With Rabbi Y.M Guttentag
    Oct 11 2026

    We see a hechsher on a product and rarely stop to think about what it actually took to put it there.

    In this episode, Mena Reisner is joined by Rabbi Yisroel Moshe Guttentag, Director of Certification and FedTech at KF Kosher, to go behind the scenes of modern kashrus.

    What does a mashgiach really look for when walking through a factory? How do you certify products being manufactured across multiple countries, using complex ingredients, shared machinery and global supply chains? And why can foods that appear completely straightforward turn out to be anything but?

    Rabbi Guttentag takes us inside the world of industrial kashrus — from ingredients and production equipment to factory inspections, dedicated machinery and the surprising problems that can emerge along the way. He explains how the level of supervision is determined, what goes into certifying major international food manufacturers, and why understanding how our food is actually made is so important.

    We also explore the crucial distinction between a product that is “Certified” and one that is simply “Approved” — and what consumers should understand when relying on either.

    A fascinating look at the extraordinary amount of work happening behind the scenes of something we encounter every single day: kosher food.

    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Introduction

    02:07 – Today’s topic: What really happens behind a hechsher

    03:52 – What does a kosher certification actually certify?

    14:08 – Which foods really need a hechsher?

    16:43 – Gummy sweets, gelatin and dedicated kosher equipment

    25:52 – Steam systems and hidden cross-contamination

    33:11 – International ingredients and cooperation between kosher agencies

    44:29 – Wrigley’s chewing gum, gum base and factory codes

    49:21 – Red Bull and multinational kosher certification

    55:55 – Why canned tuna can require supervision

    63:14 – Fruit juice, grape juice and shared pasteurizing equipment

    71:26 – Certified vs. approved kosher products

    77:09 – When approved kosher lists may be relied upon

    81:24 – Ice pops and choosing certified products

    85:10 – Closing thoughts on modern kashrus

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    1 hr and 27 mins
  • #20: Elul II - Rosh Hashanah & Yom Kippur - What Should We Actually Be Thinking About? - With Rabbi Zimmerman
    Sep 6 2026
    We know what we do on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. But what are we actually supposed to be thinking and feeling? In the second part of this special Elul series, Mena Reisner continues his conversation with Rabbi S. F. Zimmerman, exploring the meaning behind the Yamim Noraim. Why do we celebrate on the Day of Judgment? Why is there almost no mention of teshuvah in the Rosh Hashanah tefillos? What is the shofar actually meant to achieve? What changes during Aseres Yemei Teshuvah, and what makes Yom Kippur fundamentally different from every other day? From Rosh Hashanah through Ne’ilah, a thought-provoking conversation about how to approach the most important days of the Jewish year and what we should actually be trying to achieve.

    Timestamps:

    • [00:00] – Introduction; Elul Part 2 and Rosh Hashanah focus
    • [00:39] – Rosh Hashanah as Yom HaDin and Yom Tov; fear vs simcha
    • [05:23] – No vidui/confession in Rosh Hashanah davening
    • [09:08] – Being “Mamluch Hashem” and defining essence as avdei Hashem
    • [09:40] – Personal requests on Rosh Hashanah and “Hashem’s payroll”
    • [13:06] – What shofar accomplishes; wake-up call and the Satan
    • [18:13] – How shofar “confuses” the Satan; teshuva me’ahavah
    • [19:32] – Why no shofar when Rosh Hashanah is on Shabbos
    • [23:24] – Zechroinos/Yom Hazikaron – what Hashem is “remembering”
    • [27:05] – From Rosh Hashanah to Aseres Yemei Teshuva
    • [28:20] – What’s unique about Aseres Yemei Teshuva and beinonim
    • [31:07] – What makes Yom Kippur so holy (kedusha)
    • [34:06] – How Yom Kippur teshuva differs from year-round teshuva
    • [37:18] – Bein adam lechaveiro: mechilah before Yom Kippur
    • [42:26] – “I’m mochel everyone” – how that works
    • [42:48] – Kol Nidrei and the power of speech
    • [46:41] – Ne’ilah: final opportunity and special status
    • [51:38] – After Yom Kippur: confidence and simcha
    • [54:28] – Final message: “Ashreichem Yisrael” and closing
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    57 mins
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