We Must Keep Moving Forward No Matter What

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From “Surviving Anti-LGBT Politics Part 10”: Keep Building Utopia

“During the darkest days of the AIDS crisis, we buried our friends in the morning, we protested in the afternoon, and we danced all night. The dance kept us in the fight because it was the dance we were fighting for. It didn’t look like we were going to win then and we did. It doesn’t feel like we’re going to win now but we could. Keep fighting, keep dancing.” -Dan Savage

We Must Keep Moving Forward No Matter What

For many of us there has always been a fight. For most of us there will be a fight ahead. We must have something worth fighting for, a win in our days worth the blood, sweat and tears. In the fight we must never forget to keep building our lives as we have always wanted them to be. We must not lose ourselves in the fight.

Continue reaching for your dreams, knowing these trying times will cement them deep in your foundations of life. Take new opportunities to educate yourself, learn new skills, try new things – build your better self. Come out on the other side of these times with a stronger passion, skill set, purpose and direction.

Keep building community. Build new alliances and friendships with the people we meet in the battles, share your passions and your energies with them. Join in the celebrations, the fights, and the communion of your brothers and sisters. Welcome new friends into these circles and give them the support they need too. We all need each other now more than ever.

Never stop creating beauty and celebrating our culture. We are beautiful people who express our color and vibrancy in ways many on this earth wish they could. It’s our superpower, and the one many of those who oppose us are most afraid of. Art, culture, color and celebration of life is why we are who we are. Full speed ahead.

Be who you are without shame or apology. Our beauty and capacity to love is the thing that makes us special. We need to be visible, vibrant, colorful and joyous. Our example of a good life is the one we must never hide, edit down, discount or put in the closet. Be seen, be heard, you are good.

We deserve our place on this earth and in the fabric of society. We are worthy of equality, love, respect, freedom, and our place at the table of life. In this fight, keep your eyes on the main goal of your life and never top building toward your utopia.

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Why gay cruising is back, taking our pride back from the MAGA and the corporations.

Daily Inspiration: Freeing yourself was one thing, claiming ownership of that freed self was another.” — Toni Morrison

Social: Five Reasons Cruising Is Back – Leo Herrera

Leo Herrera’s book “Analog Cruising”, a romantic ode to our sacred history and rite of cruising for sex outlines the top seasons cruising is back. We are in a sexual revolution, act accordingly.

* Apps keep getting shittier

* Weapons against disease

* A new appreciation for IRL

* A love for our history

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Pride Month: Will the corporations come back after MAGA?

* Who the fuck cares! They are not our friends. They dumped us when the going got tough. We should not be seeking their money or their validation in the future.

* We need to self fund and self organize. We have the capability to raise money within our own community, support our local organizations, and create our own opportunities.

* We need to get back to our roots of protest and advocacy. Pride is about power, about unity, about progress, and about advocacy. It was never meant to be a circuit party.

Pride Month: California county rejects Pride with Traditional Nuclear Family Month

* On Tuesday, the Fresno County Board of Supervisors voted 3 to 2 in favor of the resolution, which defines the nuclear family as “consisting of one husband, one wife,” along with children, as “God’s design.”

* The resolution was introduced by Chairman of the Board Garry Bredefeld, who announced the plan on June 6, the same day as the Fresno Pride Parade.

* This resolution is modeled after similar measures in Republican-led states, including Indiana, Tennessee and Alabama, that celebrate the “traditional” nuclear family in June, despite the month long being associated with LGBTQ+ pride celebrations.

* More at

https://www.sfgate.com

Event: Cumunion Summer

* Cumunion sex parties all over the world, all the time

* We are in a sexual revolution, act accordingly.

* https://www.cumunion.com/

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We remember dear friend Regina Wells (Regina Gazelle), navigating Pride Month sober, and July’s Up Your Alley event in San Francisco.

Daily Inspiration: Accept no one’s definition of your life, define yourself – Harvey Fierstein

* We were all programmed to some level by family and society to fit a mold

* Parents, church, friends, work, school and media all tell us who we should be

* Unsubscribe from all of that

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Social: Remembering Regina

* Regina Gazelle/Wells

Health: Sobriety during Pride Month

* Social pressure to be elevated

* Pride doesn’t have to be about bars and clubs

* Seek out sober friends, groups, and events.

* If you’re in nightlife while in recovery:

* Be honest about your triggers.

* Go slowly.

* Find ways to be useful instead of just there.

* Keep a drink in your hand—it reduces pressure more than you’d think.

* Sobriety doesn’t have to mean never going out again but it does mean learning when to leave.

Event: Up Your Alley Fair – San Francisco – July 26th, 2026

* Dore Alley is a heavily authentic, sex-positive environment featuring rubber, sportswear, heavy leather, and BDSM gear. Legal nudity is permitted within the event footprint.

* Streets are lined with dozens of adult vendors, multiple sound stages with live DJs, go-go dancers, and kink performance areas.

* The main Sunday fair is accompanied by a massive weekend of related LGBTQ+ nightlife parties, leather events, and club takeovers running from Friday through Monday.

* https://www.folsomstreet.org/up-your-alley

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