The heart of Dad’s Code. Jamie grew up with a father whose love arrived as money, not presence — and at ten years old made a silent vow to be different. This is the story of becoming the dad he never had: four kids under four, choosing to show up through the hard days, and the wordless “air cuddle” that says everything. Being present beats being perfect, every single time. (Contains brief mention of depression and family loss — support: Lifeline 13 11 14 · Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636 · MensLine 1300 78 99 78.)