• The Science of Social Intelligence:

  • 33 Studies to Win Friends, Be Magnetic, Make an Impression, and Use People's Subconscious Triggers
  • By: Patrick King
  • Narrated by: Gregory Sutton
  • Length: 2 hrs and 59 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook
  • Release date: 09-10-17
  • Language: English
  • Publisher: Patrick King
  • 2.5 out of 5 stars (3 ratings)

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Summary

Scientifically-proven methods to create connection with anyone you meet. This is your blueprint for social success.

Humans are unpredictable...or are we? Through decades of research, scientists have shown consistent patterns in human behavior and thought that can lead you us to very predictable outcomes. In other words, there are genuine ways to forge better relationships that take advantage of human psychology and behavioral patterns.

Learn the elements of magnetic charisma.

In The Science of Social Intelligence, you'll have over 30 studies, new and old, broken down in a way that answers the question, "How can I use this science in my everyday life?" Rely on findings from psychology, cognitive science, and behavioral economics, rather than one person's anecdotal advice of what works.

Learn why conventional "small talk" advice is flat-out wrong.

This book is a truly in-depth look at the concept of being socially intelligent, maximizing the social opportunities you are given, and leveraging your unique strengths to have the relationships you want. In a time where most advice takes the form of "make more eye contact" and "smile more", this book stands out.

Learn how to make a powerful first impression.

The Science of Social Intelligence pairs the raw human behavioral data and findings with the insight and emotional intelligence of Patrick King, sought-after social skills coach and internationally best-selling author. The result is half textbook, half field guide for whatever your social goals may be.

Understand what makes people tick (even if they don't).

  • What popularity in high school really requires.
  • The true psychology of being positive.
  • The two way street of perception and how it impacts your relationships.

Be likable without appearing manipulative.

  • The three things everyone wants to talk about (as well as what to always avoid).
  • How to be emotionally calibrated and attuned to people.
  • The toxic habits you need to break for social success.

©2017 Patrick King (P)2017 Patrick King

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  • Anonymous User
  • 09-02-18

5 star book

This is a great book and very concise. Topics covered are on point . New age version of dale carnage win friends and influence people

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  • Lidia
  • 09-12-17

Great work!

I love it, it almost sounded like it was written gor me. I have applied sone of the suggestions and they work.

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  • JACKIE RIVERA
  • 27-11-17

Great relatable examples & personalized tools!

This book made so much sense to me. Many examples and subjects in this book connected to my own life. I have much more understanding about how to and not to socialize. Healthy vs Unhealthy behaviors. Social cues ro make me more personable. Very happy I read this!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 22-04-18

Awesome Sauce

Loved it from start to finish, can't wait to listen again and put these things to practice

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  • Mario Lopez
  • 29-03-18

Social Intelligence

Very useful and valuable information. Loved how the examples were easy to understand and connect to.

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  • Nicholas Mirro
  • 13-03-18

Informative but very limited and not uplifting

Lots of useful information but in my view quite a bit doesn't make sense. for example the study that relies on cell phone usage to demonstrate that we all have three very close friends at one time and that it's destined to be that way. sure we will all probably top out at 3 very close friends, but the point made by the author completely ignores the likelihood that many people have less than three close friends.

research shows that around 30% of the entire population is lonely at any one instant. that doesn't seem at all consistent with the idea that we have three very close non-family friends, whether we try to have them or not.

a large chunk of the population does not use a cell phone as primary means of communication, so I would think that makes it a very unreliable medium.

to say that we all have 3 very close friends at one time seems way off base. A study in 1985 show the average number was 3. A follow-up study in 2004 showed that 37% had three or more.

regarding the advice that you only keep friends who reciprocate with you seems naive. I honestly don't know anyone who can brag of a friend that reciprocates or with them reciprocate fairly. I'd guess that relationships are more imbalanced in which one person needs the other enough to be accommodating while the recipient appreciates the accommodation and accepts the new friend.

the book completely ignores the idea that people judge other people at first glance based on things like age, color of skin, height and weight, etc. this means many people start off with an enormous handicap.

how about the proximity rule of friendship? in effect, the best friend you will ever have is your next door neighbor.

how about the idea that too get someone to like you, you almost always only have to like them?

the book felt mostly informative but not really uplifting, which I guess should be it's primary purpose.

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  • KP
  • 13-08-18

One book that i was waiting for years

Such a great book in social and communication skills area. simple and straight forward. Must read if you are looking to improve the quality of your social interactions and likeability. I have definately understood my mistakes and i can see i am more confident already. with the knowledge i have now, i not only know more about myself, i instantly understood and very clear about the strengths and limitations, in terms of social smartness, in my close friends and loved ones, meaning why they are more likeable or why they lack the close and intimate relationships.

Thanks very much Mr.King for writing this book. I am planning to read all of your books or as many as i need to.

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  • Kevin McNurlin
  • 07-08-18

great tips

easy listening. it helped me take a look at a few of the things I may be doing wrong in my trade as a Chef

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-08-18

❤ This 📖

great book I felt like it was talking to me honestly all the stuff I need to change about myself

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  • Anonymous User
  • 29-07-18

It was O. K.

There were a few ahhhhh ok moments but by and large, it was just ok for me. Sometimes it seems the concepts contradicted itself. I wonder what the world would look like if everyone followed these principles.