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Mum, Can You Lend Me Twenty Quid?

What Drugs Did to My Family

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Elizabeth Burton-Phillips is a teacher, an ordinary middle-class mother who had always tried to do the best for her children. She never imagined that her identical twin sons, who had been doing so well at school, would become involved in drugs. She was shocked when they were suspended from school for smoking cannabis, but this was just the start of a terrible, unimaginable journey - culminating in the knock on the door in the early hours by the police.

They gave her the devastating news that her son Nick had killed himself in despair at his heroin addiction. Since his death, Elizabeth has campaigned tirelessly to make parents aware of the pain and suffering caused to families by drug addiction and her surviving twin, Simon, now drug-free, has contributed his own thoughts to this inspiring and moving book.

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Heart breaking but important to hear story . Unfortunately the reading of it was somewhat stilted but I persisted as I realised this was the mother herself not a voice actor .

Sad but inspiring story

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I bought this audiobook to see how closely this would match my own experience with my son in a developing country. Circumstances are entirely different but the grooming of the addict and all the behaviour by both addict and parent that ensues was depressingly similar. Luckily our son is not (yet) dead.

The book served as therapy for me, though I recommend it to all with or without experience of drug addiction.

Depressingly similar to my own experience

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Thank you for breaking down stereotypes that addiction only happens to certain families. it's happening to all of us. The stigma that accompanies it is born out of nothing more than ignorance! my AS remains respectable and thus far it's not visibly evident it has however landed him quite the criminal record. I've broken my heart along with you as you've described so many situations. I'm so sorry that Nick couldn't fight the fight anymore. I believe some people just need to return to the mothership. Massive well done to Simon and his recovery. We know it's a daily fight and he's winning his battle. Your husband must be quite the man to have stayed around the devastation.

Thank you for sharing 💔

Love one another

Heartbreaking reality of parenting an addict!

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absolutely loved listening to the story but ever so sad, could be any one of us
the story is told with so much honesty and emotion

very moving

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Awful story, very sad. Listening has me more patient to the drug takers I encounter. Terribly sad for everyone. Excellent book. Incredibly brave of the author to.be so honest and raw

Excellent book

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