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The Unexpected Joy of the Ordinary

By: Catherine Gray
Narrated by: Catherine Gray
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About this listen

From the Sunday Times best-selling author.

We're told that happiness is in the extraordinary. It's on a Caribbean sun lounger, in the driving seat of a luxury car, inside an expensive golden locket, watching sunrise from Machu Picchu. We strive, reach, push, shoot for more. 'Enough' is a moving target we never quite reach.

When we do brush our fingertips against the extraordinary a deeply inconvenient psychological phenomenon called the 'hedonic treadmill' means that, after a surge of joy, our happiness level returns to the baseline it was at before the 'extra' event.

So, what's the answer?

The Unexpected Joy of the Ordinary theorises that the solution is rediscovering the joy in the ordinary that we so often now forget to feel. Because we now expect the pleasure of a croissant, a hot shower, a yoga class, someone delivering our shopping to our door, we no longer feel its buzz. The joy of it whips through us like a bullet train, without pause.

Catherine Gray was a grandmaster in the art of eye-rolling the ordinary and skilled in everlasting reaching. Until the black dog of depression forced her to rethink everything.

Along the way, she discovered some surprising realities about the extraordinaries among us: that influencers risk higher rates of anxiety and depression, high rollers are less happy and huge frothy weddings increase the likelihood of divorce.

Learning how to be exalted by the everyday is the most important lesson we can possibly learn. In Catherine Gray's hilarious, insightful, soulful (and very ordinary) next book, you may learn to do just that.

©2019 Catherine Gray (P)2019 Octopus Publishing Group
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Catherine reads so well and this book has been so refreshing to listen to. Has really helped me in my self healing journey. Catherine is realistic in her advice and isn't at all pushy or judgemental. She also shares her own journey which is endearing and relatable.
I'll be recommending this to all of my friends.
A must read!!

Amazing, absolutely loved this book!

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I honestly feel like I understand myself a little bit better after reading this beautifully relatable, utterly charming, brave and honest, audited account of a life lived, loved and saved. ✌️

You! But in a way that makes sense!

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This book is a great reminder to appreciate what you have. It has helped me to be grateful for all I have.

I've love this and recommended to all my friends

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Well, I’m truly sad this book has finished. I loved it and sympathised with so much of what Catherine has beautifully written about. It was full of wonderful tales, really interesting findings and I really enjoyed listening to the author reading it to me whilst I unloaded the dishwasher or drove to collect my little boy from nursery. Thank you for writing this book and inspiring me to take my aspirations and view of myself down a notch and enjoy the wonder of every day. I will absolutely read this again and have already bought a friend a copy. Thank you, Lily from Norwich

Best book I’ve read for a long time...

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I love your mind, I love your words. Thank you so much for writing this and the unexpected joy of being sober. They've brought me joy and hope in some dark times.

You brought be hope.

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