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hey, wait

hey, wait

By: Jay Moon Fields
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If being smart could give you a better experience of yourself—in your relationships, your work, your life—you'd already be there. But you're not. From the outside, things probably look good. But internally, something's off. You're over-explaining, over-giving, and over-functioning. You're second-guessing yourself anytime another person is in the room. And you're performing a version of "having it together" that doesn't actually feel like you. Hey, Wait is about interrupting that. Because those two words—hey, wait—are the moment fawning, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment lose their grip, and something different becomes possible. Hosted by a somatic coach, this show looks at what's actually driving your relational patterns—not just in your thoughts, but also in your nervous system, your conditioning, and your body. Through solo episodes and candid conversations with people who understand somatics, nervous system regulation, and energy medicine, you'll start to see what it takes to stop losing yourself around others—and start responding from something more real and whole in yourself. If you're sensitive, smart and tired of understanding your patterns but still ending up in them—you're in the right place.2025 Personal Development Personal Success
Episodes
  • How to Trust your Inner Knowing | Ep #50
    Oct 22 2026

    If you have a hard time making decisions, or you've ever known what you wanted and talked yourself out of it, tune in as Jay breaks down how your body is constantly broadcasting loud-and-clear messages—if you can turn down the volume on your people-pleasing and fawning chatter!

    In this special solo season finale, host and somatic educator Jay Moon Fields brings deep insight into reconnecting with your inner voice, unlearning chronic fawning, and finally trusting your inner knowing.

    In this episode, you'll hear:

    * The exact 3-step somatic framework to hear, trust, and follow your inner knowing without constantly second-guessing yourself.

    * How to physically decode the distinct sensations of a bodily "yes" versus a "no" (and why past conditioning makes you override them).

    * How to dismantle the giant wall of fear, stories, and resistance that keeps you stuck when making hard decisions.

    * A genius somatic hack to get out of your head when you're caught in analysis paralysis—plus the subtle, powerful difference between inner knowing and inner guidance.

    For full resources, past episodes, and to learn more about coaching, visit: https://jaymoonfields.com

    Let Jay know you're interested in group coaching here: jaymoonfields.com/waitroom

    Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/jaymoonfields

    Grab your free copy of The Hey, Wait Phrasebook: 12 Things to Say When You'd Normally Fawn, Freeze, or Fight - https://yourstruly.kit.com/0be0a7d69c

    Credits: Produced by Viv – First Click VA | Original Music by Dalton Grant

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    45 mins
  • Go Only as Fast as Your Slowest Part with Robyn Posin | Ep # 49
    Oct 8 2026

    You won't want to miss listening to this remarkable elder's wisdom on slowing down and breaking the rules.

    Dr. Robyn Posin is an 87-year-old psychologist, artist, and author, who brings deep insight into nervous system healing, inner child work, and undoing a lifetime of self-abandonment.

    In this episode, you'll hear:

    ► Why the psychological survival strategies you developed early on usually expire by your 40s, and how to embrace the unraveling.

    ► The profound difference between striving to be a "real person" versus settling for an "ordinary person."

    ► How to identify your internal cast of characters to undo the conditioning that silenced your true self.

    ► The three wildly liberating life assignments given to Robyn by her spiritual "grandmothers."

    To learn more about Dr. Robyn L. Posin, her books, cards, and her work, https://robynlposin.com/

    Her books, including Go Only As Fast as the Slowest Part of You Feels Safe to Go, are also available on Amazon.

    For full resources, past episodes, and to learn more about coaching, visit: https://jaymoonfields.com

    Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/jaymoonfields

    Grab your free copy of The Hey, Wait Phrasebook: 12 Things to Say When You'd Normally Fawn, Freeze, or Fight - https://yourstruly.kit.com/0be0a7d69c

    Credits: Produced by Viv – First Click VA | Original Music by Dalton Grant

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • RE RELEASE - The Healing Power of Being Truly Known with Sarah Peyton
    Sep 24 2026

    If you've ever struggled to quiet a harsh inner critic or find a voice inside that offers genuine warmth and care, listen in to this transformative conversation.

    Sarah Peyton is a neuroscience educator, author, and relational neuroscience expert and brings deep insight into how emotional resonance can heal self-criticism, rewiring our brains for connection and self-empathy.

    In this episode, you'll hear:
    • Why cortisol is the hormone of loneliness and the specific emotion that spikes it most
    • The distinct differences between emotional resonance, empathy, and compassion
    • How childhood conditioning trains us to either over-attune to others or emotionally insulate ourselves
    • How to find your internal resonant voice and shift your perspective using the powerful phrase, "Of course I feel this way"

    Learn more about Sarah Peyton: https://sarahpeyton.com/

    For full resources, past episodes, and to learn more about coaching, visit: https://jaymoonfields.com

    Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/jaymoonfields

    Grab your free copy of The Hey, Wait Phrasebook: 12 Things to Say When You'd Normally Fawn, Freeze, or Fight - https://yourstruly.kit.com/0be0a7d69c

    Credits: Produced by Viv - First Click VA | Original Music by Dalton Grant

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    53 mins
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