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New year energy fades fast, and that’s exactly when most health plans fall apart. We’ve been there—patients telling us “I can’t stay motivated,” and our own early alarms that sometimes lose the argument. So we take a fresh, practical look at motivation: not as a trait you’re born with, but as a state you can design by meeting three basic needs—choice, capability, and support.
We start by ditching the willpower myth. Fear and guilt can get you moving once, but they rarely carry you through February. Instead, we walk through how to create autonomy by making health changes feel like your choice, not a chore. Then we shrink the mountain with competence—tiny, repeatable wins that build evidence you can do this. Finally, we highlight relatedness, the social fuel most of us ignore, from a partner’s quick “you got this” to a clinician who helps you tailor goals to real life.
You’ll hear everyday examples that translate theory to action: reframing exercise from “the doctor said so” to “I feel clearer after a 15‑minute walk,” turning “I need to lose weight” into “steady meals give me steady energy,” and linking medications to the life you want to lead. We cap it with a fast self‑audit you can do today: Does this feel like my choice? Do I feel capable most days? Do I feel supported? Wherever you answer no, you’ll learn how to adjust the plan rather than abandon it.
If you’re ready to turn external pressure into internal purpose and make habits stick without white‑knuckling, press play. Then share this with someone who could use a gentle reset, subscribe for next week’s deep dive on building systems that support your goals, and leave a review to tell us the one small change you’re making first.
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Production and Content: Edward Delesky, MD, DABOM & Nicole Aruffo, RN
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Vantage Design Works (Vanessa Jones)
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