Thinking about adoption? There are beautiful moments ahead, but there are also myths, pressure, and realities most people never talk about.

In this deeply personal episode, Jamie and Jim Sheils share their own adoption journey as a blended family of five children, including adoption at birth and adoption at older ages. They break down the misconceptions, emotional pressures, bonding challenges, and hard conversations every couple needs to have before starting the process.

Adoption is not a rescue mission. It is not a shortcut. It is a sacred commitment that requires alignment, preparation, boundaries, and honesty.

If you are considering adoption, or know someone who is, this episode is essential listening.

Key takeaways to listen for

• The biggest myths about adoption that create unnecessary pressure
• Why adoption must be two clear yeses from both partners
• How trauma, identity, and trust shape the bonding process
• Why love alone is not enough and what preparation really means
• The importance of boundaries in open and closed adoption
• What real attachment looks like and why it takes time

Resources

If adoption is on your heart, begin by educating yourself on trauma-informed parenting and attachment. Join adoptive and foster support groups, read widely, and connect with families who have walked this path before you.

To explore more conversations on intentional parenting and family leadership, visit www.18summers.com
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About Jamie & Jim Sheils

Jamie and Jim Sheils are the founders of 18 Summers, a movement dedicated to helping families build stronger connections and raise confident, capable kids. As parents who have experienced blended family life, adoption, foster care, and biological parenting, they share honest conversations rooted in real experience. Their work centers on strengthening family culture, developing emotional intelligence, and preparing parents for the responsibilities that truly shape a child's life.

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Email: info@18summers.com

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