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We're In One

We're In One

By: Jennifer Morgan
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In the hockey world, "we're in one" signifies when things have officially gone sideways. If you've ever lived this life, you know that's just a regular Tuesday. This podcast offers a backstage pass to the chaos, comedy, and reality of the hockey world, primarily through the eyes of the women who keep it all together. We're talking surprise trades, packing a house in 24 hours, babies born in the playoffs, and stories that truly deserve their own reality show. It's funny, honest, and unfiltered, and nothing is off-limits. So grab a coffee, or something stronger – you're in one now, too! Before you go, don't forget to swing by and follow our fresh new Instagram, @wereinonepod and catch some behind-the-scenes, sneak peeks and all the fun!2025 Hockey Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • 19: How Bryce Reddick Forged His Own Path Beyond His NHL Father's Legacy
    May 26 2026

    What does it mean to grow up as the son of an NHL Stanley Cup champion and then carve out your own 13-year professional hockey career across two continents? For today's special guest, Bryce Reddick (son of former NHL goalie Eldon "Pokey" Reddick), it meant navigating the constant pressure of living up to a legendary name while building his own identity one contract at a time!

    Bryce takes us behind the scenes of a journeyman's reality: the constant uncertainty of one-year contracts, learning to enter new locker rooms without fear, and the mental challenge of never quite knowing where "home" is. He shares candid insights about the pressure of being "Pokey's son" everywhere he went, the decision to forge his own path without relying on his father's NHL connections, and why the relationships matter more than the stats.

    Now transitioning into coaching with the USHL's Green Bay Gamblers, Bryce reveals why he walked away from playing at 35, the shocking difference between coaching and playing hours, and what he's learned about the mental side of the game. From early morning summer skates with his dad to finding "home" after years of constant movement, this is a story about adaptability, self-awareness, and knowing when to shift gears.

    Did something in this conversation I had with Bryce resonate with you? I'd love to hear about it, so let us know over on Instagram, @wereinonepod, and we'll see you back soon for another hard-hitting episode!

    (Before you hit play on this one, if you missed last week's episode with Bryce's mom, Melissa, be sure to go back and hear her side of the Reddick family's hockey journey)!

    Just some of the highlights you'll hear:

    • The challenge Bryce faced being the son of NHL Stanley Cup winner Eldon "Pokey" Reddick and forging his own identity in professional hockey

    • How growing up in a hockey family across multiple cities taught him the social skills and adaptability that shaped his adult life and coaching career

    • What made Bryce walk away from playing at 35 to pursue coaching and why he felt the pressure to start immediately despite still being able to play

    • The brutal honesty about how long-distance relationships destroyed two meaningful partnerships and the mental toll it took on his playing career

    • A fascinating look at the father-son dynamic between Bryce and his dad, including early morning summer skates and the decision to let Bryce forge his own path without NHL connections

    • How winning three championships in Cardiff created lifelong bonds and why those relationships remain some of the most important ones in Bryce's life

    • The shocking reality of coaching hours compared to playing and why he now understands what players never see behind the scenes

    • What Bryce learned about the mental side of hockey being 90 percent of the game and why he says that confidence comes from what you do when no one is watching

    • The struggle to call anywhere "home" after 13 years of constant movement and how he's learning to be present for the first time in his coaching career

    LINKS:

    Bryce's Hockey Profile

    Pokey's Hockey Profile

    18: How Melissa Rach Built a Legacy of a Connected Family After the NHL

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    59 mins
  • 18: How Melissa Rach Built a Legacy of a Connected Family After the NHL
    May 12 2026

    How do you react when the life you've spent years building is suddenly uprooted by a news bulletin on your car radio? For Melissa Rach, the ex-wife of former NHL goalie Pokey Reddick, it was finding out about a trade to Edmonton while driving home to her newborn baby was the moment she truly entered the hockey life. Today, Melissa gives a look back at an era long before the "WAG" label was popular, recalling a time of wives' rooms, superstitious rituals, and the silent strength required to move a family across the country at a moment's notice.

    We dive into the highs and lows of a professional career that stretched from the Winnipeg Jets to a historic Stanley Cup victory with the Edmonton Oilers. Melissa opens up about the isolation of being a 23-year-old mother in a new city, the exhausting "up and down" of the minor leagues, and the pivotal choice she made to leave the traveling lifestyle behind to give her children the stability they deserved.

    Beyond the highlights on the ice, this is a story about the intentional work of building a healthy family after the cheering stops. Melissa shares how she moved past the divorce to build a genuine friendship with her ex-husband's new wife, ensuring their children grew up in a supportive, unified environment. From watching her son, Bryce, chase his own professional dreams to the emotional 2024 reunion in Winnipeg, her perspective shows that while the career is temporary, the legacy of a connected family is permanent!

    Did something in this conversation I had with Melissa resonate with you? I'd love to hear about it, so let us know over on Instagram, @wereinonepod, and we'll see you back soon for another hard-hitting episode!

    Just some of the highlights you'll hear:

    • The jarring moment Melissa learned of a life-altering trade via a sports broadcast while navigating life with a four-month-old baby

    • A rare look at the superstitions shared by the 1989-90 Oilers wives and the story of her son Bryce and the prestigious Stanley Cup

    • How Melissa chose to make Las Vegas a permanent home base to protect her children's friendships and education from the constant cycle of relocation

    • What the move from having the identity of a hockey wife to a dedicated hockey mom looked like for her and her children

    • How and why Melissa intentionally fostered a relationship with her ex-husband's second wife

    • A very emotional experience that occurred when she visited Glasgow, Scotland, and saw a fan wearing her son's jersey

    • A humorous memory she has watching Bryce as an 8-year-old playing hockey

    • How the unique challenges of the hockey world equipped her children with the kindness and resilience needed to thrive in any culture or country

    LINKS:

    Melissa's Instagram

    Pokey's Hockey Profile

    Bryce's Hockey Profile

    15: Beyond the Spotlight: Brittany Lucic on Navigating NHL Life, Tragedy, and the Power of Reclaimed Grace [Part One]

    16: Beyond the Spotlight: Brittany Lucic on Navigating NHL Life, Tragedy, and the Power of Reclaimed Grace [Part Two]

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • 17: How Tina Tuzzolino Navigated the Identity Shift from Player's Wife to Coach's Spouse
    Apr 28 2026

    The move from the playing years to the coaching staff changes more than just a schedule, it changes the entire dynamic of a hockey household! My special guest Tina Tuzzolino has spent twenty years navigating this life alongside her husband, Nick, through two dozen cities and every level of the game, and I can't wait for you to hear her story.

    In this conversation, Tina talks about the logistical reality of the "Traveling Gong Show" and she breaks down the transition from the relatively carefree life of a player's wife to the high-pressure responsibility of being a coach's spouse. We discuss the unseen mental load of recruitment, the reality of solo-parenting three young athletes without a local support system, and a whole lot more.

    From their favorite chapters in Salt Lake and Savannah to the way the rink served as a sanctuary, this is a look at the grit and resilience required to build a life on the move!

    Did something in this conversation I had with Tina resonate with you? I'd love to hear about it, so let us know over on Instagram, @wereinonepod, and we'll see you back soon for another hard-hitting episode!

    Just some of the highlights you'll hear:

    • Tina's identify shift of moving from the carefree player's wife to the responsibility of the coaching life

    • The "duct-tape" bond and why being isolated in new cities creates a family resilience you can't find by staying in one place

    • A look at the unseen mental load of coaching and why the game never truly stays at the rink, even on Christmas Day

    • Her insights on navigating the moment children are old enough to understand the stakes of a loss and question job security

    • How Nick's journey through 20 cities turned him into a mentor who prioritizes a player's mental health

    • Managing the logistical challenge of three kids in travel sports without a local village to lean on

    • Tina shares about the unique craving for the "wind to change" and why staying in one city for more than two years feels like a creative dead end

    • Her direct response to a common stigma about this lifestyle and why a pro-hockey career is a 50/50 venture that requires a full household commitment

    • She reflects on the specific chapters of life where the weather, the community, and the stage of motherhood aligned perfectly

    • How the structure of the game provided a healing space for the family during times of grief

    LINKS:

    Tina's Instagram

    Nick's Hockey Profile

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    1 hr and 43 mins
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