In this episode of Water Into Wine, Father Charleston Wilson reflects on why control is one of the greatest sources of stress in our lives and how faith invites us into something freer and more peaceful. Over a glass of Pinot Grigio from Friuli, Italy, the conversation moves from the careful balance required in winemaking to the deeper spiritual work of surrendering our need to manage outcomes. Drawing from pastoral care, Scripture, and personal experience, Father Charleston offers insight into why letting go is so difficult and why trust in God’s timing can bring real relief. This episode is thoughtful, practical, and encouraging for anyone feeling overwhelmed by responsibility or pressure.
Timestamps:
(00:00) Welcome to Water Into Wine
(01:20) Wine of the Day: 2024 Pierpaolo Pecorari Pinot Grigio, Friuli, Italy
(06:00) Does the topic of “Control” come up a lot?
(07:00) Tasting the wine
(09:35) Problems boiling down to control
(12:15) How can Type A’s deal with control?
(15:30) Why do people “play” God?
(19:40) If we surrender control, what do we replace it with?
(23:50) Listener Question: How can we balance surrendering control to God and personal accountability?
(28:15) Final tasting notes
(29:00) Bonus Question: When did you realize God was in control?