watch my new YouTube video!!!: https://youtu.be/99U72jcjJOo

Dear My Beloved Ladies,

happy almost valentines day! <3 one of my favorite holidays! in today's episode i discussed a ~highly~ requested topic: how to get over a break up. within the episode, we also discussed some life updates for me, what i've been centering in my life lately, and sisterhood. if you'd like to get straight to relationship/dating advice, skip to minute 20. if you'd like to hear about me, start from the beginning!

i love you girls so much!

xoxox,

Victoria de Vall

my recent YouTube video: https://youtu.be/2v5NVk2KDlg

*disclaimer: there are many people who genuinely engage in and love polyamory and for whom polyamory is their authentic relationship style. this episode is discussing women who do not authentically resonate with polyamory, but contort and coerce themselves into it in an attempt to keep a man.

Watch my recent YouTube video: https://youtu.be/qFpbffRzssY

*note: i did not mean to say that all romantasy was not serious literature - as i would qualify my book itself as a romantasy, and some romantasy books are some of the best stories i've ever read. but overall there's many romantasy books that are not trying to be serious novels but instead just bring joy and fun to our lives, and this is totally wonderful; my point was they, too, have a responsibility to no longer play into the dominator model - not just "serious" works of fiction.

Books mentioned (buy second hand or from your local indie bookstore!):

The Chalice and The Blade by Riane Eisler

Emergent Strategy by Adrienne Maree Brown

Ask and It Is Given by Esther and Jerry Hicks

enjoy :)

imagine how many bodies you have had...you have dwelt in thousands and millions. and though you should love them, honor them, and cherish them...just as the wave is not the ocean, they were not you.

I am now officially back open for coaching!! book your appointment directly through my website at: https://www.victoriadevall.com/bookacallwithme

if you need a specific time that I'm not offering, send me a message on IG and I'll accommodate you :)

thank you girls so much for listening <3

Book Referenced: https://www.amazon.com/Emergent-Strategy-Shaping-Change-Changing/dp/1849352607

rambled a little bit on this one but hope u enjoy hehe. love u girls.

Making Peace With Aging YT Video: https://youtu.be/4NN1WlRzdNk