Ever wish you could ask the person you're dating what they actually mean? We brought in comedian, podcast host, and author Jared Freid to help decode the behavior driving you and your group chat insane. From mixed signals and situationships to commitment, labels, and all the phrases people use instead of saying what they really mean, we're asking the questions you're too afraid to ask and getting some honest answers.

Check out Jared's new book, Walking Red Flag

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Dessert is delicious. But if it's the only thing on your plate, eventually you're going to get sick. Somewhere along the way, we started treating relationships like the main event. Like life begins when you get the boyfriend, the ring, the wedding, the happy ending.

Meanwhile, we're hurtling through space on a floating rock with entire lives to build, people to meet, places to see, and stories to collect.

Love is beautiful. Love is worth wanting. But life is happening now, not after you find it.

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Ever heard of the butterfly effect? It’s never the big, obvious moment that changes your life. It’s the random night you almost cancel. You say yes instead of “another time,” and it turns into a relationship, an opportunity, a new best friend… or something that changes everything.

This episode is about how the moments you almost talk yourself out of are usually the ones you need the most.

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