Why did so many of us end up crying in the bathroom growing up? This episode talks about the role of the one who learned to hold everything together for now and fall apart later, alone. The one who became “fine” during the chaos… and emotional only after the day was over.

We talk about delayed emotions, crying quietly, emotional survival, and why some people don’t even realize how overwhelmed they are until they’re finally alone.

And yes… we’re also talking about why the bathroom floor heard absolutely everything..

Written and Edited by: La Dama Del Desmadre

This episode talks about the role of the child who learned to stay quiet, process things internally and handle emotions alone.

Case reference: Phoebe Handsjuk

Sources referenced include case coverage related to Phoebe Handsjuk.

Written/Researched/Edited by: La Dama Del Desmadre

Was your house the one that looked fine… even when it wasn’t?

This episode breaks down the role of the one who learned how to perform—how to smile, act normal, and keep things looking okay, even though something didn't feel right.. We talk about what happens when appearances matter more than the truth, and how that turns into people pleasing and emotional hiding as an adult, and why being “easy” isn’t always what it seems.

Not judging. Just keeping it real.

Sources referenced include documentaries, public interviews, and case reporting related to Gypsy Rose Blanchard and Dee Dee Blanchard.

Written by: La Dama Del Desmadre

Reasearch and Editing by: La Dama Del Desmadre