"Number our days" isn’t about living in anxiety or regret. It means to pay attention to them…God has created character, relationships, opportunities, disciplines into the next chapter for you. You don’t open up to a clean slate; you open up to the power of God at work in your life.

Look back at your last chapter. What sits in your heart that you are delighted to share? What hidden challenges did you overcome? Where did you avoid going sideways—either by good judgment or sheer grace? Number those days, and give thanks, then apply those lessons to what is to come – what are my next, most faithful steps in light of that truth?

Number tomorrow, too. Have big plans, but have small ones, too. What small habit will you practice tomorrow to move toward the person God is shaping you to be? Whatever the season you are entering—whether it’s college, a new job, retirement, or a season of waiting—God is already preparing a path for you and a purpose for you. Wise living isn’t about predicting or shaping the future; it’s about being awake to the present and trusting the story God is writing.

Martha asks, “Am I doing the right thing?” The Corinthians asked, “Is this allowed?” Paul asks a different question entirely, “What kind of person and community are we becoming?” He wants us to use a new filter: Does it build up? Does it give life? Does it deepen love in Christ?

We live in a world that is constantly competing for our attention, but the deepest question is not what captures our attention—it is what deserves it. Increasingly, what keeps us from the life of Christ himself – that resurrected, powerful life filled with the Spirit – isn’t the BAD stuff. It’s filters. Distractions. The world is eager to tell us where fullness can be found. More achievement. More consumption. More visibility. More urgency. More power. More of whatever keeps us moving fast enough that we never stop long enough to ask whether we're becoming wise.

When all the while, the call of Jesus is simply to sit and be. The work will come in due time.

Wisdom realizes we’re shaped less by what we think, and more by what we love. So before Scripture tells us what to do, it is serious about calling us to examine what we want.

Which means wisdom is this: Decide today who you want to be tomorrow. Because the person you become tomorrow is being formed right now.

Christ has never stopped working on you. Christ can see in you what you cannot see in yourself. The Christian faith is not a story about people who always got it right. It's a story about a Savior who keeps calling people back to the right path. And when Christ calls us back, he does more than forgive us. He teaches us how to live. He invites us into a wise way.