What if the things you're desperately trying to force are already making their way to you?

In this episode, I'm taking you behind the scenes of how my newest retreat came to life, and trust me, I never could have planned it the way it unfolded!

Although this retreat has only just sold out, the truth is its story began over four years ago. Looking back now, I can see the seemingly random conversations, unexpected opportunities, courageous decisions, and intuitive nudges that slowly led me here. At the time, none of it made logical sense. But in hindsight, every single step was preparing me for this moment.

I also share the powerful reminder that some of the greatest opportunities, relationships, abundance, and experiences in my life haven't arrived because I controlled every detail. They arrived because I was willing to pay attention to the breadcrumbs, trust my intuition, and keep taking the next aligned step, even when I couldn't yet see where the path was leading.

This episode is an invitation to zoom out and reflect on your own life. What if the delays, detours, and unexpected turns aren't setbacks at all? What if they're part of something far greater than you can currently see?

If you've ever questioned your timing, felt frustrated by uncertainty, or wondered whether life is really working in your favour, I hope this conversation reminds you that divine orchestration is often only visible in hindsight.

Sometimes your only job is to trust the next breadcrumb.
ENJOY X

Sometimes your biggest breakthroughs are waiting for you in the pause.

In this episode, I share what happened after I intentionally gave myself three days to completely switch off. No pushing. No forcing. Just rest.

What followed was a wave of clarity, creativity, renewed energy and some of the biggest downloads I've had in months.

We explore why rest isn't something you have to earn, but a powerful part of the creative and healing process. I also share how I've been creating space for a new chapter by simplifying my life, physically, emotionally and energetically. From clearing out my wardrobe and cutting my hair to pruning my rose bushes, every act became a reminder that growth often requires release before expansion.

And at the end of the episode, I share one of the most symbolic things I've ever done: why I decided to burn years of my journals and what that ritual taught me about letting go of old identities, honouring the woman I've been, and making space for the woman I'm becoming.

If you've been craving a reset, feeling burnt out, or sensing that life is asking you to slow down before your next leap, I hope this conversation gives you permission to trust the season you're in.

Because your next upgrade might not come from doing more.

It might come from finally allowing yourself to rest.

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Many women assume a lack of desire is a hormone problem.

But what if it's actually a reflection of chronic stress, self-abandonment, nervous system dysregulation and a life that no longer feels nourishing to your soul?

As an energetic healer, embodiment coach and somatic practitioner, I've noticed a common thread amongst women who feel disconnected from their sexuality.

More often than not, they're not disconnected from sex.

They're disconnected from themselves.

Their joy.

Their creativity.

Their pleasure.

Their playfulness.

Their truth.

In this episode, we're diving into the connection between the sacral chakra, nervous system regulation, self-abandonment and desire. We'll explore why so many women struggle to access pleasure when they're living in survival mode, constantly over-giving, people-pleasing or abandoning their own needs.

We'll also unpack why desire isn't something you force, but something that naturally emerges when the conditions are right.

Inside this episode we explore:

• The sacral chakra and its connection to pleasure, sensuality, creativity and receiving

• Common signs your sacral energy may be depleted or blocked

• Why self-abandonment slowly disconnects women from desire

• The nervous system's role in pleasure, intimacy and sexual expression

• How chronic stress impacts your capacity to receive and feel

• The link between integrity, self-trust and feminine magnetism

• Why your partner can't give you what you're unwilling to give yourself

• Practical ways to reconnect with pleasure, play, creativity and your life force energy

If you've been telling yourself that you have a low libido, this episode invites you to ask a different question:

What if your body isn't broken?

What if it's simply asking for more truth, more pleasure and more of you?

Because sometimes the path back to desire isn't found in the bedroom.

It's found in the way you live your life.

Connect with Davina:

Instagram: @davvyxx

Website: www.theupgradebydavina.com

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a woman who needs this reminder and tag me on Instagram so I can hear your biggest takeaway.

With love,

Davina x