You are the most strategic woman in every room — and somehow, your love life has been the one place you forgot to bring a plan. In this episode, Amanda Carroll breaks down the Strategy Over Hope play: why high-achieving women default to hope in dating, where that rule came from, and exactly how to replace it with the same framework you've used to build everything else.

Key Takeaways:

• The unspoken rule that taught you to leave love to chance — and why it's costing you
• Why "staying open" is not a strategy, it's being undirected
• The three things that replace hope with a real framework: Clarity, Process, and Vetting
• The three-step play you can run this week
  

Links:

• 🎯 Win at Dating Challenge (June 23–25, live with Amanda): https://amanda-pedone.lpcontent.net/fO9M0JrFzZ
• 📋 Free Dating Profile Cheat Sheet: https://www.bravesinglemoms.com/pl/2148446153
• 📞 Free Dating Strategy Call

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You think you’re being smart on dates.

Careful. Observant. Protecting your time.

But what if the very thing you believe is keeping you safe…
is actually the reason nothing is working?

In this episode of The High Value Woman’s Playbook, Amanda Carroll breaks down the pattern that’s quietly sabotaging your dating life:

👉 Overanalyzing men before you even meet them
👉 Looking for red flags instead of connection
👉 Turning every interaction into a test

And without realizing it…

You’re pushing good men away before they ever get the chance to know you.

Instead of dating like a prosecutor building a case…

You’ll learn how to show up:

• Warm
• Curious
• Fully present
• With zero attachment to the outcome

👉 Your only job on a first date:
See if you enjoy being around him.

• Why overanalyzing is killing attraction
• The “friend test” that replaces overthinking
• When to use discernment (and when it backfires)
• How to create real connection on a first date

Book your free dating strategy call and get a personalized plan:

👉 https://singlemomcollective.lpages.co/dating-strategy-call/

Download the Free Dating Profile Cheat Sheet:

👉 https://www.bravesinglemoms.com/pl/2148446153

Send this to the woman who’s overthinking everything and ready for a different result.

You are not broken. You are not bad at dating. You are dating as the wrong version of yourself.

And after this episode — that changes.

In this episode of The High Value Woman's Playbook, I'm giving you The Sasha Fierce Play — the exact exercise I run with every single one of my VIP coaching clients that finally breaks the pattern of attracting the same man in a different body.

You're going to discover why the little girl inside you has been making your biggest adult decisions — and how to gently, powerfully take the wheel back.

You're going to meet Grace, who spent 38 years giving her inner child what she needed — and is now learning to date as the woman she has become.

And you're going to walk away with a real play to run today. Not someday. Today.

Because the healed version of you — your Sasha Fierce — she already exists. She's just been waiting for permission.

This is that permission.

🎯 Run The Play: → Book your free Dating Strategy Call: → CLICK HERE
Download the free Dating Profile Cheat Sheet:
CLICK HERE

⏱️ Highlights:

• Why Beyoncé's Sasha Fierce is more than an alter ego — and what she has to do with your dating life
• The 8-Year-Old Self Exercise that reveals whose story you've been living in
• Why smart, successful, self-aware women still end up in the same patterns
• How to create YOUR alter ego and deploy her before every date
• "We do not date potential. We date fully potent."

📩 Connect with Amanda: → Email: amanda@amandacarroll.org → Instagram: @amandacarroll → Website: amandacarroll.org

If this episode hit home — send it to a woman who needs to hear it. That's how we change what's possible together.

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