Grief isn't only about death.

Sometimes it's saying goodbye to a season of parenting. Sometimes it's watching your child grow up. Sometimes it's the end of a coaching group, a move, a beloved pet, or simply the realization that life is changing.

In this deeply personal episode, Amy shares a week filled with endings - including the unexpected loss of her family's beloved dog, Keira - and the powerful lessons it taught her about grief, nervous systems, parenting, and love.

If you're raising a PDA or neurodivergent child, you'll also hear why grief doesn't always look like sadness. It may show up as increased anxiety, control, demand avoidance, irritability, shutdowns, or emotional overwhelm. Most importantly, you'll learn why your job isn't to fix your child's grief - but to help them feel safe enough to move through it.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why grief is often disguised as stress, burnout, or overwhelm

• How PDA and neurodivergent children may express grief differently

• Why co-regulation matters more than having the "right" words

• How to support highly empathetic children through loss

• The importance of allowing different family members to grieve in different ways

• Why your nervous system isn't looking for perfection—it is looking for connection and "enough"

• How to hold gratitude and grief at the same time

Whether you're navigating the loss of a loved one, parenting through big life transitions, or simply feeling emotionally exhausted, this episode offers gentle permission to slow down, honor your emotions, and remember that grief is evidence of love.

If this episode touched your heart, I'd love for you to share it with another parent who may need this reminder today. And if you're looking for compassionate support as you navigate life with your PDA or neurodivergent child, I'd love to welcome you into one of my coaching programs. www.amykcoach.com/parentcourse

You don't have to do this alone.

What if PDA isn't a behavior problem at all?

In this episode, Amy explores a powerful shift in perspective that can change how parents understand PDA. Instead of viewing avoidance, refusal, aggression, or meltdowns as the problem, what if these behaviors are actually signals from a nervous system working hard to stay safe?

Drawing on the work of Robyn Gobbel, Mona Delahooke, Bruce Perry, and emerging PDA research, Amy discusses the connection between autonomy, anxiety, nervous system states, and protective behaviors. She explains why traditional behavior-focused approaches often fall short and offers a compassionate framework for understanding what may be happening beneath the surface.

If you've ever wondered why your child can desperately want something one moment and refuse it the next, this episode will help you see those struggles through a new lens - one rooted in connection, curiosity, and nervous system safety.

In this episode you'll learn:
• Why PDA may be better understood as a nervous system difference rather than a behavior problem
• The difference between connection states and protection states
• How autonomy and safety are deeply connected
• Why avoidance may be information rather than defiance
• Questions to ask when behavior escalates
• How shifting your perspective can reduce conflict and increase understanding

Want support implementing these strategies in your own family?
Amy's small-group, 4-month coaching program helps parents understand PDA through a nervous-system lens while receiving personalized coaching, education, and community support.

Enrollment is currently open with limited spots available!

Learn more at www.amykcoach.com/parentcourse.

Many parents of PDA, autistic, and other neurodivergent children find themselves exhausted, overwhelmed, and constantly worried about their child's future. But what if fear has quietly convinced you that you're responsible for things no parent can actually control?

In this episode, I explore the difference between helping and carrying, why uncertainty is so difficult for our brains, and how fear can expand our parenting "job description" until we're carrying the weight of our child's emotions, choices, and outcomes.

We'll discuss:
• What fear has convinced you is your job
• The difference between supporting and owning your child's struggles
• Why PDA parenting feels so exhausting
• The Serenity Prayer and learning what we can and cannot control
• A simple question that can transform how you approach challenges: "Whose problem is this?"
• How to stay deeply connected to your child without losing yourself in the process

If you've ever felt responsible for making sure your child is okay, this episode is for you.

Registration is now open!! Learn more about Amy's PDA Parent Coaching Program at amykcoach.com/parentcourse.