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The Non-Binary Marriage

The Non-Binary Marriage

By: April Ajoy & Beecher Reuning
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How does the same married couple go from being conservative evangelical darlings to a queer couple that the church doesn't know how to handle?

When we got married, we both identified as cisgender, heterosexuals and were church leaders. We now know that one of us is non-binary (Beecher), the other is not straight (April) and we're still married, still monogamous and still Christian.

This is the story of how we went from fundamentalism to freedom and the hard road in between.

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Episodes
  • Q & A

    Q & A
    May 24 2022

    Now that our story is up to date, we answer your questions and talk about what's next for us in this episode.

    We hope to be back in the fall with new episodes but in the meantime, you can follow us on our individual social media channels below or join our Patreon community:

    https://www.patreon.com/nonbinarymarriage

    Thank you all for the love and encouragement as we shared our story publicly for the first time.

    Signing off (for now) with love,

    April & Beecher

    Feel free to email us at: nonbinarymarriage@gmail.com

    Follow April & Beecher on social media:

    TikTok: @aprilajoy @hellobeecher

    Instagram: @hellobeecher @aprilajoy

    Twitter: @aprilajoyr @hellobeecher

    Facebook: @realaprilajoy @beecherreuning

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    45 mins
  • Exploring Brie & Finally Free

    Exploring Brie & Finally Free
    May 17 2022

    This episode takes our journey to the present day. We talk about Beecher exploring "Brie", the name for their feminine side, and finally finding freedom in just being Beecher.

    April talks about saying goodbye to the heterosexual marriage she thought she had to celebrating their authentic relationship.

    We will have a Q&A episode next week. Please email your questions to: nonbinarymarriage@gmail.com

    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/nonbinarymarriage

    Follow April & Beecher on social media:

    TikTok: @aprilajoy @hellobeecher

    Instagram: @hellobeecher @aprilajoy

    Twitter: @aprilajoyr @hellobeecher

    Facebook: @realaprilajoy @beecherreuning

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    48 mins
  • Coming Out & Vibrators

    Coming Out & Vibrators
    May 10 2022

    In this episode, our marriage hits a breaking point. Beecher comes out to April as non-binary in late 2020 and April is forced to start the difficult journey of her own self-discovery.

    If you have any questions or comments, you can email us at: nonbinarymarriage@gmail.com

    Follow April & Beecher on social media:

    TikTok: @aprilajoy @hellobeecher

    Instagram: @hellobeecher @aprilajoy

    Twitter: @aprilajoyr @hellobeecher

    Facebook: @realaprilajoy @beecherreuning

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    45 mins
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I am a non-binary person married to someone who just came out as transgender. We both come from a Christian background (though not nearly as strict as the Evangelical community). In short: this podcast totally resonated with my current life situation!

Wow, I loved every minute of this podcast. April and Beecher talk so openly and honestly about their struggles with gender identity and sexuality, both individually and in their marriage. It’s an emotional rollercoaster that takes you to their darkest moments, and at the same time they’re so funny and adorable! I would recommend this podcast to anyone who is a Christian and/or (in a relationship with) a Trans or Non-binary person. Seriously, this podcast can change your life.

When you or your partner find out they’re trans/non-binary, navigating the changes in your relationship is not easy. But April and Beecher have given me the hope that if they can do it, I can do it. Thank you so much!

If you are (in a relationship with) a trans/non-binary person, listen to this podcast!

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