Over the last five years, I’ve learned five lessons that changed how I lead, train, and live.

In this episode, inspired by Pastor Craig Groeschel, I break down purpose, leadership “altitude,” selflessness, pride, and the cost of a rushed life through the lens of building BPN. We’ll hit the difference between complex vs. complicated problems, the dopamine drive, and how to build a culture that empowers people.

I also share personal reflections, what I’m working on next, and how these lessons translate into real decisions at work and at home.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Intro

01:40 Purpose

18:52 Rise/Dive

30:38 Selflessness

37:53 Pride

45:13 Hurried life

58:14 Final thoughts

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I sit down with Colonel Edward Arntson III, who has 24 years of military service, to unpack what leadership really demands when it counts. We start with self-leadership: how you show up, how you carry yourself, and why humility isn’t optional.

We get into competence, intellectual curiosity, and the overlooked power of energy and tone. What you tolerate becomes the standard. Colonel Arntson shares hard-earned lessons from leading in garrison and in combat, including moments that tested his decision-making, confidence, and character.

If you’re building a team, leading a family, or trying to lead yourself better, this episode delivers practical takeaways you can apply immediately.

More about Colonel Ed Arntson:

Ed Arntson, from Buffalo Grove, Illinois, graduated from Concordia College (2002) and commissioned as a Distinguished Military Graduate infantry officer through NDSU. He led rifle and company units in Alaska, Afghanistan, and Iraq, was wounded in combat, and later served with The Old Guard, including a landmark deployment to Taji, Iraq. After CGSC and SAMS, he held planning and operations roles with 1st Cavalry Division, deployed to Korea and Baghdad, and served on the Joint Staff. He commanded 3-187 Infantry and 3rd Brigade, 1st Cavalry Division. His education includes Ranger and airborne schools. He’s married with two children.

Tone Range Fan:

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 Introduction

05:07 The Importance of Leadership Development

15:31 The Role of Feedback in Leadership

27:22 The Power of Tone in Leadership

41:59 The Power of Tone in Communication

48:25 Building Effective Teams Through Peer Leadership

52:37 The Importance of Humility and Tone in Leadership

01:06:04 Early Military Career and Deployment Experiences

01:21:01 Dedication and Commitment in the Military

01:39:26 The Impact of 9/11 on ROTC and Military Careers

01:45:54 The Importance of Physical and Mental Readiness

01:52:27 A Formula for Effective Leadership

02:00:06 Final Thoughts on Leadership and Inspiration

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This episode is all around laying out my 2026 diet + training philosophies. I’m in a caloric surplus, training hard with intention, and choosing food quality over empty volume. We get into running and eating with purpose, and why the goal isn’t a finish line—it’s building a lifestyle you can sustain.

I also break down the practical plays to take ownership of your diet: simple meal prep, portion control, 1g protein per pound, and a plan for late-night cravings. If you want to get stronger, leaner, and more consistent this year—try this framework.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Introduction

03:35 Taking Ownership of Your Diet

05:09 Meal Prep and Food Prep Tips

08:59 Appropriate Meal Portions

14:37 Making Protein a Priority

16:30 Late Night Snacking Strategies

20:22 Caloric Surplus Explained

31:18 Training Hard for Strength and Growth

36:00 Avoiding the Easy Run Mindset in the Gym

38:50 Balancing Strength Training and Recovery

44:11 Prioritizing Food Quality Over Quantity

01:02:45 Running with Purpose, Not for Numbers

01:06:13 Maintaining a Healthy Relationship with Food

01:14:44 Training for the Love of the Lifestyle

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