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🐰 DID YOU WIN THE RABBIT LOTTERY?
Why some “instant bonds” aren’t actually secure bonds

In this episode, we’re talking about one of the biggest misconceptions in rabbit bonding: the “instant bond.”

Some rabbits appear to fall in love immediately. No fighting. No drama. No stressful bonding sessions. It can feel like you’ve completely skipped the hard part.

But… is that always a true bond?

In this episode, I explore:

• The difference between coexistence and genuine bonding
• Why some rabbits seem fine in large spaces but fight in carriers or pens
• What rabbits still need to learn, even when they “get along”
• The role hierarchy and communication play in long-term bond success
• Why unresolved dynamics can show up weeks or even months later
• The subtle signs that a bond may not actually feel secure to the rabbits
• Why “they seem fine” isn’t always enough
• How to create a bond that feels stable, safe, and trustworthy long term

I also share a real-life example of a pair who appeared bonded on the surface, but whose behaviour suggested the hierarchy still hadn’t been resolved.

Because while instant bonds do happen — and sometimes you really have won the rabbit lottery — a secure bond is still something that needs to be built intentionally.

This episode is for you if:
🐇 Your rabbits seemed to bond immediately
🐇 Your rabbits only fight in small spaces
🐇 You’re unsure whether your rabbits are truly bonded
🐇 You want a safer, more stable long-term relationship between your rabbits

A bond shouldn’t just “look fine.”
It should feel secure for the rabbits too.

Need Help Bonding Your Rabbits?

If you're struggling with rabbit bonding, or you're planning to and want to get it right from the beginning, I offer 2 FREE ways to get started:

• Answer a few questions online and receive personalised advice by email - Tell Me What Is Happening

OR

• Book one of my Free Bonding Assessment Clinic Slots - LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE! - 15 Min Call For Bunny Bonding Clinic

Once I understand your situation, I can recommend the most suitable support option for you and your rabbits.

Because when bonding is done correctly, your rabbits can move from stress and conflict to a calm, happy partnership much faster.

NOT BONDING AT THE MINUTE? Take a look at www.fionashappybunnyclub.com for enrichment, behaviour and care support from an expert!

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Sometimes rabbit bonding success isn't about one big dramatic moment — it's in the tiny interactions that most people miss.

In this episode, I share a beautiful video update from a client whose rabbits, Daisy and Cooper, I helped bond in person. Daisy had been a solo rabbit for some time, and Cooper came from the local SPCA. Their bonding had a tricky start as they worked out their hierarchy — but watching them genuinely relax into each other is exactly why I do what I do.

In this episode I cover:

• Why tiny interactions are often more telling than big dramatic ones
• The story of Daisy and Cooper — and the moment that made my day
• Why relaxed body language and chosen closeness matter more than "no fighting"
• How a bond becoming more secure can look very quiet
• Why it's easy to get caught in a panic spiral during bonding — and how to step back and observe instead

Links & resources mentioned:

• 🐰 Take the Bonding Quiz — tell me what's happening with your bunnies and I'll send you a personalized email response: [link in show notes]
• 📞 Book a FREE 15-minute Bonding Assessment — limited spots available each week, so grab one while you can: [link in show notes]

Who this episode is for:

• You're worried about bunny bonding before you've even started
• You've started bonding but aren't confident you're reading the behaviors correctly or have run into issues
• You feel overwhelmed by conflicting advice online
• You're thinking about getting a second or third rabbit
• You're not sure whether you need support — or what kind

Thanks for listening to the Bunny Coach Podcast! I look forward to chatting to you next time. Fiona x

Need Help Bonding Your Rabbits?

If you're struggling with rabbit bonding, or you're planning to and want to get it right from the beginning, I offer 2 FREE ways to get started:

• Answer a few questions online and receive personalised advice by email - Tell Me What Is Happening

OR

• Book one of my Free Bonding Assessment Clinic Slots - LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE! - 15 Min Call For Bunny Bonding Clinic

Once I understand your situation, I can recommend the most suitable support option for you and your rabbits.

Because when bonding is done correctly, your rabbits can move from stress and conflict to a calm, happy partnership much faster.

NOT BONDING AT THE MINUTE? Take a look at www.fionashappybunnyclub.com for enrichment, behaviour and care support from an expert!

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The Bunny Coach Podcast helps you can create a calmer, happier life for your bunnies and a more peaceful home for you.

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When Bonded Rabbits Fall Out — Episode #38

In this episode, I share the story of Joey and Chandler, two bonded mini Rex brothers whose relationship broke down once hormones kicked in — and how we got them back together again.

What we cover:

• Why bonded rabbits fall out
• Why babies often get on, but adults struggle
• The importance of neutering and waiting 8–12 weeks after
• Why keeping them separate in the meantime is essential
• The dangers of repeated bonding attempts without a plan
• How to read bonding behaviors — when to step in vs. wait
• Joey and Chandler's happy ending 🐰

Key takeaways:

• If they loved each other once, they can love each other again
• Never underestimate the damage rabbits can do to each other
• Bonding needs a process — observation, setup, and timing

Ready to get your bunnies bonded?
Take my quick quiz 👉 [LINK IN SHOW NOTES]

Send me a message or fill out the quiz and I'll send you a personalized email — no obligation at all.

Need Help Bonding Your Rabbits?

If you're struggling with rabbit bonding, or you're planning to and want to get it right from the beginning, I offer 2 FREE ways to get started:

• Answer a few questions online and receive personalised advice by email - Tell Me What Is Happening

OR

• Book one of my Free Bonding Assessment Clinic Slots - LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE! - 15 Min Call For Bunny Bonding Clinic

Once I understand your situation, I can recommend the most suitable support option for you and your rabbits.

Because when bonding is done correctly, your rabbits can move from stress and conflict to a calm, happy partnership much faster.

NOT BONDING AT THE MINUTE? Take a look at www.fionashappybunnyclub.com for enrichment, behaviour and care support from an expert!

Subscribe to the Bunny Coach Podcast

Subscribe so you don’t miss future episodes.

The Bunny Coach Podcast helps you can create a calmer, happier life for your bunnies and a more peaceful home for you.