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The Lifestyle In Color

The Lifestyle In Color

By: Z and Elle
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Welcome to The LIC, the podcast that explores the world of ethical non-monogamy and swinging through the lens of people of color. We will dive into real stories, candid conversations, and unfiltered experiences from our journey in the lifestyle. Whether you are curious, seasoned, or just learning the ropes, (like us) this is your space to feel seen, heard, and celebrated.

Because pleasure knows no color limit-and niether should the conversation.

© 2025 The Lifestyle In Color
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Episodes
  • Communication & Consent — The Real Keys to Connection
    Dec 4 2025

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    In this episode of our swinger-lifestyle podcast, we dive into the two pillars that make everything else possible: communication and consent. Whether you’re meeting a new couple for the first time or deepening an ongoing connection, the real magic happens long before the clothes come off.


    Join us as we break down:


    • How to open the door to honest, no-pressure conversations
    • What enthusiastic consent really looks like in the lifestyle
    • How to read (and respect) verbal and non-verbal cues
    • How couples can stay aligned before, during, and after a play session
    • The difference between “We’re curious” and “We’re ready” — and why both are okay


    This is a no-judgment, grown-folks discussion designed to help you avoid awkward mis-steps, build smoother chemistry, and make sure everyone walks away feeling good, heard, and respected.


    If you’ve ever wondered how experienced couples keep things sexy and safe… this is the masterclass.

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    30 mins
  • Birthday Mis-Cues 🎂
    Oct 23 2025

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    In this episode of Lifestyle in Color, we’re keeping it real as we unpack all the hilarious, awkward, and unexpected twists from Elle’s big lifestyle birthday bash. What was supposed to be a perfectly planned night of fun and flirtation… well, let’s just say things didn’t go exactly as planned.


    From scheduling mix-ups and last-minute surprises to a few “oops” moments that still make us laugh (and cringe) — we’re sharing every juicy detail and what we learned along the way. Tune in for the inside scoop on how even the best-laid lifestyle plans can take a turn — and why sometimes, the missteps make the best memories.


    🎙️ Real talk. Real laughs. Real lessons — Lifestyle in Color style.

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    49 mins
  • Our first house party was more than drinks and music—things definitely got wet
    Oct 3 2025

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    In this episode of Lifestyle in Color, we share the story of attending our very first house and pool party in the lifestyle. From the moment we walked in, the nerves were real—what do you say, who do you talk to, and how do you relax enough to just enjoy the vibe?


    We’ll take you along with us as we describe the energy of the night: the laughter echoing by the pool, the playful conversations, the sexy atmosphere, and that moment when curiosity turned into confidence.


    It wasn’t just about the party—it was about stepping into a new space together, learning what feels right, and discovering how fun and freeing the lifestyle can be when you let go and dive in.


    So grab a drink and join us as we spill all the details from our very first house and pool party adventure!

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    32 mins
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