Episodes

  • S2 E14: Financing Residential Investment Property with Sol Skolnick
    Jun 22 2026

    Matthew Gray interviews mortgage banker Sol Skolnik (“Professor Home Loan”) about financing residential investment properties. Skolnik explains his background entering lending in 2006 and why sustainable loan fit matters after seeing risky pre-crash products. They cover who should consider rentals, including portfolio diversification, landlord responsibilities, and using managing agents.

    Skolnik outlines key financing options, evaluating areas and rental markets, using inspections, lender qualification factors, and pre-approvals vs TBD commitment letters. Sol also goes through the differences between brokers, mortgage banks, and depository banks. Stay tuned to the end to learn how to contact Skolnik for a free book and lending coverage.

    00:37 Meet Professor Home Loan
    01:36 Saul’s Mortgage Journey
    04:08 Why Sustainability Matters
    06:31 Should You Buy Rentals?
    08:23 Financing Options Overview
    13:33 Rates Terms and Down Payments
    15:21 Picking Markets and Pros
    17:14 Inspections and Risk Checks
    18:34 What Lenders Evaluate
    20:33 Picking the Right Market
    21:26 Financing and Preapproval Limits
    23:25 TBD Commitment Letters
    26:02 Choosing Lenders and Brokers
    32:18 Refinancing and Doing the Math
    33:41 Landlord Responsibilities Reality
    37:01 Wrap Up and Disclosures


    Resources

    Sol Skolnick

    914-380-0600

    sskolnick@unitedmortgage.com

    https://solskolnick2.book.live/mortgage-lenders-buyers-book

    Matthew Gray

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-gray-cfp%C2%AE-5a2144134/

    https://schrockfin.com/


    Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC

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    38 mins
  • S2 E13: Building a Business Beyond Yourself with Brad Cohen
    Jun 8 2026

    Matthew Gray interviews Harrisonburg/Shenandoah Valley REALTOR® Brad Cohen about moving from solo agent to building Connexa, a boutique brokerage. Brad shares his early start in real estate as a college student, selling 27 homes his first year by networking, taking undesirable leads, and learning business-building skills not taught in licensing.

    Brad explains the necessity and vision behind starting Connexa. He highlights the grind of the first year, leaving significant income, hiring his first full-time employee, adding agents, and buying an office in 2024. He discusses unexpected management demands, mentorship, turnover, and balancing marriage with business ownership. Stay tuned at the end for his brief thoughts on the value of a college education based on his life experience!

    00:38 Meet Brad Cohen
    01:38 Brad’s Origin Story
    03:16 First-Year Breakthrough
    06:41 Brokerages and Models
    12:01 Why Build a Team
    17:45 Crunching the Numbers
    20:45 Scrappy Startup Year One
    24:49 Expected vs Unexpected
    27:15 Learning to Lead People
    30:55 Marriage Amid the Grind
    32:25 Work Life Counterbalance
    35:18 Team Turnover and Rebuild
    36:56 Boutique Vision and Equity
    40:39 Survive to Thrive Stage
    41:47 Advice for New Owners
    45:21 Is College Necessary?
    48:17 Hiring for Grit and Network
    49:15 Where to Connect and Wrap


    Resources

    Brad Cohen

    https://connexare.com/agents/brad-cohen

    Matthew Gray

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-gray-cfp%C2%AE-5a2144134/

    https://schrockfin.com/


    Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC

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    51 mins
  • S2 E12: Biblically-Based Investing with Josh Hanna
    May 25 2026

    Matthew Gray interviews Josh Hanna, of Inspire Investing, about faith-based, biblically responsible investing. Josh explains his shift from broad index funds after discovering exposure to abortion and pornography, and describes stewardship as owning part of a business and profiting from its activities.

    Inspire uses a proprietary Inspire Impact Score with eight negative screens—abortion, pornography, exploitation, LGBT activism, cannabis, alcohol, tobacco, and gambling—with a no-tolerance exclusion approach, plus a positive scoring system that rewards best-in-class ethical practices. He also details corporate engagement via proxy voting and advocacy, citing Costco’s decision not to stock mifepristone after extended engagement.

    00:38 Meet Josh and Inspire
    04:28 Stewardship and Ownership
    05:42 Biblical Screens vs ESG
    10:05 Inspire Three Part Approach
    12:02 Embrace Good and Engage
    16:13 Impact Score and Exclusions
    17:42 Consumer vs Investor Choices
    20:27 Building Diversified ETFs
    22:58 Common Objections Answered
    27:12 Returns and Real Impact
    30:11 How to Learn More

    Resources

    Josh Hanna and Inspire ETFs

    InspireInsight.com

    InspireETF.com

    Matthew Gray

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-gray-cfp%C2%AE-5a2144134/

    https://schrockfin.com/


    Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC

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    34 mins
  • S2 E11: Teaching Your Kids About Money with Rebecca Irey
    May 11 2026

    Matthew Gray interviews Rebecca Irey, founder and CEO of Blue Sky Financial and a mother of seven, about raising financially independent kids through practical, hands-on experiences. Rebecca shares early lessons like having her daughter earn money for a “My Size Barbie,” using savings interest as incentive, and teaching budgeting by assigning kids responsibility for planning and buying groceries to cook for the family.

    They discuss why many adults lack basic financial skills due to limited schooling and busy households. Rebecca emphasizes making money tangible with envelope systems and teaching “money is a game,” including playing Robert Kiyosaki’s Cashflow game. Rebecca stresses high expectations, letting kids try and fail at home to build resilience, and listening to teens’ perspectives. She also notes kids may still form different economic views as adults.

    00:38 Meet Rebecca Irey
    01:48 First Business at 12
    04:09 Early Finance Career
    05:18 My Size Barbie Lesson
    08:55 Why Kids Miss Money Skills
    11:55 Practical Money Training
    15:15 Cashflow Game Mindset
    17:29 Raising Capable Adults
    24:22 Let Kids Fail Safely
    26:43 Building Resilience Mindset
    30:40 Generations And Money Beliefs
    32:42 When Kids Reject Your Values
    41:00 First Steps And Resources
    43:04 Seeing Through Their Eyes

    Resources

    Cash Flow Game

    The Coddling of the American Mind

    Antifragile

    The Anxious Generation

    Socratic Circles

    Rebecca Irey

    https://blueskyefinancial.com/

    LPL Financial and Blue Skye Financial are separate entities.

    Matthew Gray

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-gray-cfp%C2%AE-5a2144134/

    https://schrockfin.com/


    Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC

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    48 mins
  • S2 E10: Money Matters in Marriage with Carine & Joe Keenan
    Apr 28 2026

    Host Matthew Gray welcomes Carine Keenan, a marriage and family therapist, and Joe Keenan, a CFP and CPA, to discuss why money commonly fuels conflict in busy marriages and how couples can turn disagreements into growth. They explain that money issues often connect to safety and security, with saver–spender differences frequently rooted in childhood “money classroom” experiences and personal values like status or future security.

    Communication breaks down through avoidance, poor timing, and stress (HALTS: hungry, angry, lonely, tired, stressed), which amplifies anxiety. Tools include building self-awareness, using I-statements, scheduling regular “money talks,” creating a fun routine, and using timeouts with a commitment to resume within a day. They distinguish coaching (forward-focused planning and mindset) from therapy (healing deeper, compulsive or impairing behaviors) and describe their Keenan Financial Coaching work with couples across life transitions.

    00:37 Meet the Guests
    04:46 Why Money Peace Matters
    07:00 Why Couples Fight About Money
    08:38 Savers vs Spenders Explained
    10:56 Why Communication Breaks Down
    14:24 Avoidance and Better Timing
    16:44 Owning Your Money Fears
    20:22 Early Money Classroom Exercise
    22:45 Retail Therapy and Awareness Hacks
    24:16 Money Talks and Timeouts
    32:17 Make Meetings Fun
    33:47 Agenda And Prep System
    36:10 Keep Growing Together
    40:00 When To Get Help
    42:55 Coaching Vs Counseling
    46:30 Who Their Coaching Serves
    50:05 Final Takeaways And Wrap


    Resources

    Carine & Joe Keenan

    https://keenanfinancialcoaching.com/

    Matthew Gray

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-gray-cfp%C2%AE-5a2144134/

    https://schrockfin.com/


    Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC

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    54 mins
  • S2 E9: Money Talk for Couples with Sarah Carr
    Apr 13 2026

    Matthew Gray hosts an episode of the Financially Fit Couple with guest Sarah Carr, a CFP® and certified financial therapist, to discuss how couples communicate about money. Sarah explains financial therapy as the convergence of financial planning and mental health, clarifying she is not a licensed mental health clinician and does not diagnose or create treatment plans, but helps identify emotional barriers that block follow-through on financial plans.

    They explore why money is a top source of conflict, how it can represent many different piece of our identity, and how subconscious “money scripts” formed in childhood shape behavior. The discussion emphasizes shared goals, curiosity, and creating emotional safety, using values-based planning to align spending with what matters. Also covered in the conversation are regular money check-ins, worksheets, and the Financial Therapy Association directory to find help.

    00:38 Meet Sarah Carr
    02:33 What Is Financial Therapy
    05:18 Emotions Block Action
    07:16 Why Money Talks Are Hard
    09:26 Money Scripts And Origins
    13:23 Healthy Couple Communication
    26:48 Finding Your Values
    27:48 Reconciling Different Values
    30:16 Curiosity Over Conflict
    33:28 Creating Safety in Money Talks
    36:03 Internal Scripts and Trauma
    45:58 Practical Tools and Money Check Ins
    49:44 When to Seek Financial Therapy

    Resources

    Sarah Carr

    Money Histories Worksheet (file:///S:/Shared%20Files/Podcast/Sarah%20Carr/Money%20Histories%20Sarah%20Carr%20Financial.pdf)

    https://sarahcarrfinancial.com/

    Matthew Gray

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-gray-cfp%C2%AE-5a2144134/

    https://schrockfin.com/


    Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC

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    54 mins
  • S2 E8: Selling Your Home with Rick Williams
    Mar 30 2026

    Matthew Gray hosts and welcomes repeat guest Rick Williams, a licensed Virginia realtor with Kline May Realty, to explain the home-selling process. Rick emphasizes that selling is more than listing and waiting, and outlines common seller mistakes such as doing major renovations without advice, waiting for “perfect timing,” and leaning on friends instead of professionals.

    He describes how he prices homes using comparative market analysis with AI tools plus manual MLS review and broker input, and why pricing too high or too low can deter buyers. They discuss preparing a home, listing steps, evaluating offers beyond price, and how AI helps communications and marketing. They also touch on how AI can’t replace local expertise, judgment, or negotiation.

    00:38 Meet Rick Williams
    03:07 Why Selling Is Complex
    05:22 Common Seller Mistakes
    10:32 Goals and Strategy Fit
    13:32 How to Price Right
    18:11 Prep and Repairs
    23:52 Listing and Marketing Plan
    27:09 Evaluating Offers
    30:01 Contingencies Explained
    35:31 From Contract to Closing
    38:45 AI Tools and Pitfalls
    43:23 Final Advice and Wrap Up

    Resources

    Rick Williams

    http://realestatewithrick.net/

    Rick.Williams@KlineMay.com

    540-416-1040

    Matthew Gray

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-gray-cfp%C2%AE-5a2144134/

    https://schrockfin.com/


    Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC

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    46 mins
  • S2 E7: Becoming a Business Owner with Michael Sharp
    Mar 16 2026

    Matthew Gray interviews attorney Michael Sharp about the risks and process of leaving stable employment to start a business while married with young children. Sharp, owner of Sharp Litigation, PLC in Harrisonburg, Virginia, describes moving from associate to partner and managing partner at a larger firm, then realizing partnership has a different vision of ownership, values, teamwork, and strategic business focus he expected.

    After clarifying essentials such as connected teamwork, a narrowed civil-litigation focus, and a supportive culture, he planned the transition with his wife—including a detailed financial/time presentation—and launched his firm in January 2024 with two colleagues. He discusses early infrastructure challenges, managing time with family, hiring operational support to free him for revenue-generating legal work, building and formalizing systems as the team grows, unexpected community support, and a client-as-hero philosophy applied to intake and communication.

    00:37 Meet Michael Sharp
    02:20 From Associate to Partner
    05:05 What Partnership Really Means
    08:22 Essentialism and Values
    11:18 Building a Team Vision
    13:53 The Leap and Family Buy In
    18:35 First Months in Business
    21:02 Time Freedom and Hiring Help
    23:49 Systems Growth Pains
    27:49 Unexpected Wins and Advice
    32:25 Client as the Hero
    37:19 Who They Serve and Wrap Up

    Resources

    Michael Sharp

    https://www.sharplitigation.com/

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-sharp-279013288/

    https://www.amazon.com/Essentialism-Disciplined-Pursuit-Greg-McKeown/dp/0804137382

    Matthew Gray

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthew-gray-cfp%C2%AE-5a2144134/

    https://schrockfin.com/


    Securities and advisory services offered through LPL Financial, a registered investment advisor, Member FINRA/SIPC

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    41 mins